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Give me less "being kind requires zero effort" and more "being kind is worth the effort it takes."

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"I asked ChatGPT" well I asked Rupert Giles and he sighed and took off his glasses and started cleaning them
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"which could mean nothing" is one of the most useful phrases to ever enter my lexicon thank you rpf
As a committed lady beer drinker this is fucking sending me.
Like imagine thinking one of the oldest beverages in existence is making men infertile and effeminate (and I want to know what the alternative is, I assume itâs not fruity cocktails so like itâs gotta be like ⌠scotch or whisk(e)y or something)

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We are in agreement about opposing antipsychiatry and being glad services exist. My intent was to convey that psychiatric reform is a legitimate endeavor, so that more people can access therapy and medication that would help them while also being legally protected from systemic abuse that can make their problems even worse. Hence my first comment on material changes and how that can mean many things. I do truly mean it that I am glad the medical system has helped you and I wish you the best.
Unfortunately Iâve seen too many arguments that refuse to engage with actual psychiatric reform looks like in favour of throwing the baby out with the bath water
Most world religions think that sex is pretty cringe. However, trying to make sex a big part of your occult tradition also seems cringe. Are there any form of occultism that are normal about sex?
Wanting to be "normal about sex" is cringe because its impossible.
repeating this to myself forever and ever
I did not mean to make assumptions about your experience and I apologize that it came across that way. Based on what you post about how psychiatry has been helpful to you, I assumed your /overall/ experience was positive and that you are glad you engaged with these services. For some people, their overall experience was negative. Also, yes, you are right that this is humans hurting humans, but power inequality and the inadequacy of legal protections for patients raise the potential for abuse.
Iâve been in and out of the therapeutic and medical system since I was 9 years old, I am alive today because the medicalized system exists. That outweighs any individual practitioner even if my experience with those individual practitioners has varied widely.
Fundamentally my biggest issue is the anti psych movement does not account for how the systems that allow for abuse in the medical system do not cease to exist in community care. Power structures do not disappear because someone is not called doctor.
Sorry returning to this because I do find the assumption I havenât dealt with irresponsible or harmful practitioners really interesting, can you expand on what led you to that conclusion?

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I think we are largely on the same page. My issue is with this black-and-white view where either psychiatry in its current form is flawless, sacrosanct, and incontrovertible, or else it only inflicts harm and should be eradicated. And it often seems like anyone who objects to the first view is assumed to hold the second, when really either view is grossly unscientific and ignores material harm.
Honestly I think part of the issue is holding psychiatry to the same standards as physics. Thatâs just not how human brains work and the answer is not throw out the DSM itâs to make as many therapeutic avenues available as possible while accounting for the fact that any system that conveys power also has the risk of abuse.
Psychiatry isnât inherently more harmful than community care. The issue is what people do to people not that we call those people doctors (to badly paraphrase Dan Olson)
There are legitimate issues with forced treatment being applied with unnecessary force, doctors not listening to people about side effects, medication risks being inadequately explained. Again, it's counterproductive to align oneself with the antipsychiatry movement when critiquing those, but health care reform is a reasonable topic of discussion and not inherently reactionary. I am truly glad your experience has been helpful but people can suffer severe harm from irresponsible practitioners.
Iâm not seeing a disagreement?
The anti psych movement has identified real issues, it has failed to provide meaningful solutions and it potential increases stigma in seeking medicalized assistance
I think part of the issue is that "anti psychiatry" covers a lot of ground, from right wingers who want to gut health services in favor of pseudoscience to left wingers who want more emphasis on informed consent over forced treatment. That ambiguity makes it imo a counterproductive way to self-identify, though I don't think the latter approaches are necessarily wrong. Or at least, they identify real problems worth discussion, rather than making up ableist nonsense like the first category.
Itâs very MAHA coded where it has identified real issues but not identified real solutions and where it has identified solutions theyâre often unhelpful
Not trying to be argumentative, but I do think that things like medication, access to therapy, and being believed can all fall under the umbrella of material changes that can help people.
While youâre not wrong, I think it is a failure of the messaging that that is not the impression I get from the anti psych movement more generally
That post about self injury and institutionalizations is sticking with me because I think it illustrates one of the potential issues with an overly narrow trauma model of mental health.
Looking back 15 years, I still canât tell you what if any material changes would have affected my self injury which still heavily comes from a place of Too Much Feeling Needs To Go Somewhere and does where you live change that? Maybe but it also reflects back an assumption that there is a ânormalâ and once you have the proper material conditions youâll be ânormalâ
Itâs a very MAHA approach to mental health care

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#âel pastel promedio tiene tres lechesâ es en realidad un error estadĂstico. El pastel promedio tiene 0 leches. Leches Georg#quien vive en una cueva y absorbe 10.000 leches al dĂa#es un valor atĂpico qeu no deberĂa haberse contado (via @deathbycoldopen)
I don't speak Spanish but I understand every word
I appreciate 'adn' being preserved in the form of 'qeu', that's absolutely beautiful.
It's always "stop harming yourself or we'll have to lock you up!!!" and never "what do you need to change to want to harm yourself less and how can we help you make some of these changes?" and that's why we're not getting anywhere
And of course the evil twin, âDonât be silly, thatâs just for attention you donât need helpâ