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People with paraphillic disorders deserve to have a chance at recovery. I’m not going to stay silent about it.

You’re not automatically a monster for suffering with such a horrific disorder. You aren’t a danger to others simply because of what you had to endure. It’s not what your thoughts are, it’s how you choose to approach and cope with these thoughts that truly matters.

I see how difficult it can be to recover. Especially with the amount of stigma surrounding this disorder because of those who have offended and caused real harm to others.

I see you. I see all of you. You’re all doing amazing. I promise you, it gets better from here.

꒰ 𐙚 ꒱ ⸝⸝⠀﹕[ Moralqueer ] —emoji combo﹕🌈🧭—

⟢ Moralqueer is when someone is extremely good faith. Moralqueers believe that if it is not harming anyone that it should not receive harassment. Moralqueer is a heavily anti-harassment term, a Moralqueer would never send threats/hate to someone even if they have done problematic things. Moralqueers do not however believe in simply "letting people be," but rather they believe that problematic people can/should be redeemed and get help. Moralqueers believe in recovery and researching before disliking.

This is a anti-harassment but pro-confrontation/reduction term.

When do we get to be heard? Why do our disorders get to be the "evil ones" constantly? When will people stop misusing paraphilic language (pedophile, zoophile, necrophile, etc) and start saying what they actually mean (predator, animal abuser, corpse desecrator, etc)?

When will y'all accept that - just like how cluster b personality disorders are overly diagnosed in criminals due to it only being tested in criminals (and the general public going highly underfiagnosed), the same thing happens for those with "dangerous" paraphilias?

When will y'all accept that - just like how most men who rape men are statistically heterosexual - most people who assault children, animals, or corpses are doing so out of power, not due to being disordered paraphiles? [link.] (And even predators who are disordered paraphiles aren't predatory because of their condition, they are just bad people who also happen to be paraphilic.)

Are y'all ready to start talking about us without acting like we should live ashamed and guilty our entire lives for thoughts and feelings that are out of our control? Are y'all ready to start talking about us without acting like we are a danger to society, that we shouldn't be allowed certain jobs for the "crime" of thoughts/feelings, and that we shouldn't be allowed to have families and pets?

Do you think people who who AREN'T DISTRESSED by their thoughts, but acknowledge they shouldn't enact them in reality, are evil people? (Ie; Due to my ASPD, I am not distressed that I think of stabbing people. Does that mean I have no self control, am destined to stab someone, and should be locked away?)

Or do you think everyone with these thoughts should live in constant shame, which is extraordinarily unhealthy, and promotes self harm and suicidal tendencies in people? Do you think that they should keep it all bottled up and not have any outlets (fiction, roleplay, vent art, etc?) Or that conversion therapy somehow works on disordered paraphiles when it doesn't work on literally any other demographic, and has no evidence of working on disordered paraphiles either?

This is disjointed rambling and I don't even care.

Stop pretending to be a mental health advocate if you think people with "dangerous" paraphilic disorders are inherently predators, deserve to feel ashamed of themselves, or deserve conversion therapy.

any combination you could think of with "radq", "rq" "🍓🌈 / 🌈🍓" and then also adding a "pro" or "please interact" or other word assortments...

It's a community formed around warped views on consent and relationships, stereotypes about disabled people and people of colour, and harmful views on self perception and identity.

The tags is a collection of people talking about harmful and toxic relationships, how they hate themselves and want to be hurt, and once in a while the idolification of awful people! But in all seriousness, it's the most depressing fucking place and when you're "in it" you can't even realise that.

It's not grape, it's rape.

It's not pew pew, it's gun.

It's not unalive and unalived, it's murder and murdered.