if you want straight answers ask a straight lady

i fucking hated your shoelaces this entire time

Don’t let your empathy be greater than your self respect.

cannot emphasize enough how much it is feminist praxis to train yourself out of getting out of the way of men walking towards you on the street if there's no visible reason where it would be polite for you to be the one who has to move (seniors, guys carrying stuff, crutches, etc). most of the time they're just looking down at their phone expecting the world to open up before them like the red fucking sea. extremely satisfying to stare right at them going for a head on collision and watching them move out of the way at the very last moment. plus you get to shouldercheck a bunch of assholes. sorry i just realized this is an extremely new york city post. i'm walkin here

How is it that you can a music library of like 1,200+ absolute bangers but as soon as you put it on shuffle in a group setting it's like. anime opening you added in 2010. homestuck parody song. musical artist who was cancelled last year for kidnapping and eating children in his basement. Hamilton

Sex scene as character study is so good. What is your relationship to your body? What is your relationship to your partner? What lessons have you absorbed from the culture about yourself as a sexual being? How much do you have to trust someone before being comfortable with intimacy? What fears and insecurities come to the fore for you when you take your clothes off? It's so good.

How do they communicate? How do they expect others to communicate? How well do they understand their body and their own capacity for pleasure? What do they tend to do to make their partner feel comfortable? How comfortable are they showing emotion in front of others? How much insight do they have into what their own emotions mean and are connected to? What are they focused on during the encounter? How conscious are they of exchanges of power and vulnerability? very very very good