Shen

men make it absolutely impossible to practice humility

like okay fuck it nevermind I’m actually an expert in every subject I’ve ever read or heard about. in fact I know everything.

it’s so jarring to see like incest/pedo positivity posts because my mother’s sexual abuse by my grandfather wasn’t some fun kinky adventure—it was deeply traumatic and it literally impacts my mother’s ability to have functional relationships with friends, lovers, and family members. there’s an entire side of my family i know next to nothing about and never met—cuz they ceased contact. the damage it’s done to our relationship is difficult to express. like it’s literally ruined her life and the lives of her children. i don’t see a net positive in any of it.

ur shallow online performance of “sexual freedom” does not make a coherent political ideology that actually protects people politically targeted by the state—ur appetites are not a substitute for ethics or a belief system outside of selfishly motivated hedonism. it’s boring actually, ur scaring the hoes, and the kids hate u.

Having desires, passion and drive are luxuries in life

love when a woman says "i am not comfortable with a man being here / doing this" the response is always "oh this man is good dw." okay did i say i am not comfortable with a bad man doing it or did i say i'm not comfortable with a man doing it? way to just outright tell me you think my boundary is stupid and you're not going to respect it.