Holby City S21 E31 -Ā Things My Mother Told Me (and other tales)
Oh my. Ā Itās been quite some time since I last posted my thoughts on an episode. Ā This has mostly been due to some Holby City storylines that I found a little tough to swallow, and the fall out kind of impacted on Casualty too. Ā But, I have still been watching (although sometimes saving several episodes and binging together rather than watching as they aired). Ā The question is - do I restart these musings of mine? Ā Or lay it all to rest?
Whatever happens, I feel compelled to jot a few thoughts from tonight.
Firstly, I donāt care what theyāre telling me, Bernie Wolfe is NOT dead, until I see a body (or at least until some cast member does!). Ā Currently, in my head canon, she was held at gunpoint by some enemy insurgents, forced to remove her body armour before being marched off at gunpoint to a secret base, where she is now being kept as a POW, until such time as Serena leaves HC. Ā At this point, she will make her miraculous escape and return just in time to head off into the sunset. Ā NOTHING you can say will make me believe differently. Ā Just saying.
All the above makes Alexās statement tonight that she was the love of Bernieās life to be particularly galling. Ā I have seen various folk saying Alex canāt be trusted and sheās lying, etc. Ā FWIW, I think sheās telling the truth as sheās choosing to see it. Ā I can understand why she and Bernie might have ended up together. Ā As much as we all feel we know Bernie and Serena better than anyone, at the end of the day they are characters owned and created by the HC writing team, and if they think Bernie would never have been able to settle down and live a suburban life with Serena, as much as it galls, we have to accept that that is their vision. Ā And frankly, even if Serena was the one great love of Bernieās life - we donāt all get our happily ever after, many of us do Ā have āone that got awayā, and we do have to settle for good enough. Ā And to my mind, Alex would be the perfect partner for a non-tameable Bernie. Ā (Before anyone yells at me, my Bernie is totes happy sitting round the fire with Serena every day til sheās 95...) Ā Iām just saying I get that sheās not ours. Ā Sheās theirs, to do with as they will.
Also, massive, proud LGBT Berena fan that I am - I also respect that essentially, Berena have NOT been treated differently to any other couple in the show. Ā Folk seem to think that lack of representation in general media means that they should be seen to be living happily every day. Ā Doesnāt work like that. Ā Thatās not true representation, thatās singling out a LGBT relationship for special treatment. Ā I think that Berena have been handled the same way every. single. other. couple in the show have too. Ā And thatās true respect. Ā (Though I STILL totally hate it, and wish they could indeed have been shown to be happy every single day forever). Ā But realism just wonāt abandon me.
Final word on Berena, I really actually want to like Alex. Ā But goodness me, was her character skeezy the last couple of episodes. Ā Her handling of Cameron showed the total opposite of respect to Bernieās memory, and the final scene with her and Serena - <shudder>. Ā For a moment, I actually thought she was going in for the kill...
Next, I will move on to the intial reason I stopped reviewing - Dom. Ā Please understand, I appreciate adoption is a very emotive subject, and furthermore, I totally agree that Carole should have told Dom from an early age about his adoption. Ā BUT - I have not been able to stomach the way he has been treating her since he found out. Ā She may not have given birth to him, but sheās wiped his bum, soothed him when sick, taught him to ride a bike... apart from actually growing him, she is more his mother than anyone else could ever be, and I couldnāt stand the way he was treating her. Ā I know heās a huge fan favourite, and I donāt hate him, but I do see him as I always have (and now more than ever), as the most self absorbed, spoilt little brat ever. Ā He really does think the world should revolve around him, as heās repeatedly shown in his relationship with Lofty, and continues to show with his interactions with Carole and now Ange. Ā Therefore, I applaud tonight for finally, first Hanssen, and then Ange, opening his eyes to how unreasonable he was being toward Carole.
Briefly on to my reason for not starting to review again after Dom stopped me (!!!). Ā Evan. Ā I literally struggle to watch scenes with Evan in them. Ā He has made my skin crawl from the moment he appeared in show, and Iāve considered stopping Holby all together until heās gone... (hasnāt happened yet, though). Ā I know his abuse is reasonably hot on the heels of Isaacās, but whilst I hate and in no way condone what Isaac did, for some reason Iām finding Evanās manipulations so much more insidious and frankly scary. Ā I know we have a long run to go yet before Chloe is out of his clutches, but by goodness, I hope it goes quick.
Side note - I also know Ange doesnāt seem to be a popular character. Ā But I canāt for the life of me work out why. Ā She is an AWESOME mother - to Chloe. Ā She might not be prioritising Dom, but whilst heās her flesh and blood, heās barely more than a stranger, so to my mind, itās totally reasonable. Ā Especially since she IS there for Dom. Ā Just not ahead of Chloe. Ā Sheās also an awesome doc. Ā Imagine being an NHS patient faced with waiting lists? Ā Wouldnāt you want an Ange doing some overtime with volunteer staff so you could be helped quicker??!!
Brief mention to Cameron (and Nicky). Ā Poor, poor Cam. Ā I hope this storyline ends well for him. Ā His treatment of Nicky is pretty shoddy after their one night stand, but heck, girl, did you expect different? Ā You know what state he was in, you know how he feels about Chloe. Ā I hope they donāt make Nicky into too much of a victim over it, because sheās not stupid and itās not a shocker when heās drowning that deep in grief...
Finally, Ric. Ā Is this the big mistake thatās going to kick off a big storyline? Ā And whether it is or not, seems like only yesterday that Ric was jailed over some supposed mistake which had some secret reason behind it, Ā PLEASE donāt be going down the same route again. Ā Thatās just tired. Ā Give Ric something interesting to work with that doesnāt involve malpractice. Ā Please!!!!!