1- When they are offered help how do they react
2- What teaching technique works best for them and what is their preferred technique for teaching others
3- Is there something they can't resist or someone they find it impossible to say no to
4- Do they worry about being a burden to others and if so where does this feeling come from
5- Do they feel they deserve love simply for existing or do they believe they have to offer something in return and If so what do they offer
6- When joy comes knocking on their door do they let it in immediately or do they hesitate to let it in
7- What would their ideal self look like and what is preventing them from achieving that ideal version of themselves
8- How do they usually react to someone disagreeing with their opinion
9- How do they deal with loss and what does their grief look like
10- What would make them lose respect for someone
11- Are they easy or hard to read
12- In moments of quiet where does their mind wander off to
13- Do they cope well with loneliness are they consumed by it or accustomed to it
14- How do they feel about growing old
15- In what ways did their childhood shape their personalities as adults
16- Are they generous or timid with their affection
17- If their worldviews were to be challenged how would they react? how stubborn would they be about it
18- What is their main/core guiding principle(s) that they use to navigate the world
19- Are they repressive sexually? do they carry any guilt when it comes to their sexuality
20- If things don't go their way for one reason or another do they generally fight back and try to change the outcome? or settle in and accept it
21- What occupies them the most: the past, present or the future
22- Do they prioritize stability and peace above all else or would they challenge the status quo if necessary
23- Are they fast on their feet or do they crumple under pressure? why do they react the way they do
24- What is a quality in them—whether negative or positive—they won't admit to or acknowledge
25- Generally do they see people as tools, connection or something to fear
26- Are they the type to take as much as they can, as much as they need or less than they need
