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pangur-and-grim

in a moment, everything can change

bimmyjimmy

Elite jimmy outline

bimmyjimmy

sorry i havent been posting, jimmy became a cryptid :/

anyataylorjoys

The Watermelon Woman (1996) dir. Cheryl Dunye

seeveekat

Hey this movie is really important in queer history! It was the first feature length film directed by a black lesbian! You can watch it here for free!

I really recommend you do because while it is a rom-com (and a drama), it also looks at how the stories of black queers are over looked in history.

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wheelie-sick

checking - parts of my diagnosed OCD that you might not know can be OCD

disclaimer: just because you experience some things on this list does not mean you have OCD (or any disorder related to these at all). these thoughts and behaviors can come from multiple sources and can also be completely normal in moderation. these thoughts cross the line into OCD when they are not better explained by something else and they cause dysfunction or distress in your life

checking looks like a lot of things, not just checking the stove. sometimes checking is small and minimally invasive but other times it's more intrusive. checking can look like:

checking texts/emails/etc. I sent over and over again to make sure I didn't send porn

rereading everything I send (or post online) over and over again to make sure I didn't accidentally say something terrible

replaying the day in my head to make sure I didn't do something awful

ruminating on conversations to make sure I didn't say something awful (and often ruminating on specific things I said and imagining worse ways I might have said them)

when I read about or hear about something bad that some people do, investigating my memory to make sure I didn't do it

resubmitting assignments online multiple times to double check that I attached the right file

tapping everything I carry with me to make sure I still have it

adding and removing email recipients to make sure I'm adding the right people

tapping my headlights on my car while driving the make sure they're still turned on

turning my headlights in my car off and on multiple times before leaving to make sure they work

one of the things that sets OCD apart from doing these things normally is the repetition. many people will feel randomly anxious that they sent porn in a text and they might check once. someone with an OCD compulsion (like me) will check 10,15, 20+ times because no check feels good enough. there is no satisfying the itch that compels you to check to make sure you weren't sending porn.

phantomrose96

After 13 years of this, it's still funny to me that detailing a full mental breakdown on tumblr is standard fare, but posting a nice selfie is a fraught decision.

loki-zen

this is the correct way around and every other social media site is wrong

layaart

some bugs!

horsefigureoftheday

Nova's tips for beating the heatwave:

1. Check that you have good access to shade trees, a shelter custom made to fit you and all your friends, and plenty of good airflow

2. Find the hottest, sunniest, and least windy part of you pasture and lay down

3. Make sure you look as much as possible like you have died of heatstroke

4. Get your friends in on it

crippled-peeper

what the actual fuck

people in the purple are you okay. sound off

hearthkeepers-haven

#Northern Lower Michigan Here!#Air quality is at 242 atm #my asthma is not thrilled with current affairs and the house smells like smoke #this picture is in a rural area #my throat doesn't start burning until we reach the bigger towns/cities #but that's where all my doctors are so 🤷🏼

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homunculus-argument

Any time someone starts some bullshit about how humans are hyperindividualistic and inherently selfish and exclusively motivated by self-intetest, I'll just tell them to go ahead and go do it then. Go live alone. Fuck off into the woods to make sure that no society ever benefits from your presence. See if you can teach yourself how to make a spear out of a rock or a shelter for one from nothing but your own wits and the nature around you. Go see how natural that feels, how happy it makes you to know that you don't need nobody and that nobody's life is improved by your presence.

doubleca5t

The other day my wife told me about this influencer who said she needed to go on ozempic so she could go from 130 lbs down to 115 and I really cannot stress the degree to which we have so COMPLETELY lost the plot with this glp1 shit. Like not only are people are going on this shit for purely cosmetic purposes, the cosmetic purposes are delusional. This is the kind of mindset that gives people eating disorders but now because you can get a prescription instead of having to starve yourself or enduce vomiting a big swath of the general public seems eager to go along with it. Body Positivity did not go fucking far enough because I am being so real when I say that fatphobia is more of a public health crisis than obesity has ever been

sabertoothwalrus

I hate the videoification of everything. If I have to hear one more video of someone speaking closely into their shitty mic and I have to have all their yucky wet mouth noises and plosives and nose whistles and throat clearings and sniffles I am going to dig a vertical hole the exact dimensions of my body and I’m going to slither in head first

asteroidtroglodyte

Nature Documentary: these deep sea creatures can withstand crushing pressures of thousands of pounds per square inch!

Me: they’re not withstanding a goddamn thing. The pressure is a part of them. Their interiors and exteriors are equalized. Just because your respiratory system is built around a pair of fragile poppable bubbles-

disabled-dyke

happy disability pride month to those who didn’t make it, for whatever reason. you will not be forgotten.

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