Jesse (she/they)

everyone who is not currently in the process of moving please pause and take a moment to be grateful that you're not currently in the process of moving

Using my trans male privilege to be completely unable to use any public restroom due to looking like the probability of a coin flip for gender.

"if men could get pregnant-" they can. "if men got periods-" they do. "men never experience-" they do. "men would never understand-" i promise you whatever you are about to say there are men who go through the exact same thing

If you are not a trans man or in active community with trans men in real life, you cannot comment on the lived experiences of trans men. Full stop.

hey so if you hate trans men specifically because they TRANSITIONED into a MAN, that is not cool and feminist that is transphobic. Hating somebody specifically because they transitioned is weird. You wouldn't hate those same trans men if they detransitioned/had never transitioned and that is transphobic.

"live every day like it's your last": scary. weirdly foreboding. not a good thought process if you get anxious easily. stressful. so much pressure that it loops back around to making you do nothing. "live every day like it's your FIRST": everything becomes fascinating. renews the excitement of discovering things for the first time again. makes you feel like exploring stuff. #mywisdom

tumblr "feminism" is great because it'll have people saying stuff like "hate targeted at trans men isnt transphobia"

Thats crazy dude mind if i join you

The idea that trans men gain privilege by transitioning is absurd. You can not queer your way into privilege thats not how anything works

name your baby boy gargoyle. do it for me. and if its a girl... hmmm... name her gargoyle