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SO. TUMBLR IS TRYING TO KILL ME
I've had to remake this blog because tumblr has stopped letting me show up in searches, send DMs, receive notifications, or send asks. Insane. You can find me over at @transtabletop now I guess, or @transtabletop-by-night for VTM stuff and NSFW
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Ngl I think the new Backrooms movie sums up a lot of my thoughts on internet trans discourse.
“This is the most important thing ever, we need to know more, we need to keep studying it and talking about it” okay but what are you doing to help the victims right in front of you? Their trauma, their lives, their oppression, it’s all just a research topic to you. You’re not helping anyone, you’re making a case study of real people and discarding them when you have a different point to make.
The reality is that arguing on the internet does no tangible benefit to any trans person. You know what I do instead of arguing on the internet? I drive my trans friends to their appointments and I send them money to eat and I teach them how to use crypto for DIY. One act of tangible help is worth infinitely more than any of the time I spent not being there for my friends because I was too busy yelling at people and calling it aid.
This shit isn’t a performance to me, it’s real life, why the fuck would I be searching for social clout on the internet about it rather than actually helping people?
i just woke up and was on a tumblr safari while groggy and barely sentient idk why i sent that ask
you will be buried in my pyramid when i die
The body of a 22 year old transmasculine student was found in Northern Kentucky yesterday, he had been missing since April. Despite his friends and family all insisting on his using he/they pronouns, every article exclusively uses they/them with no mention of his actual pronouns.
Say his name, Murray Foust.
There comes a time in every trans guy’s life where you have to ask yourself if you actually like your friends or if you just think you’re fundamentally unlovable so you’re willing to make excuses for anyone who will tolerate you
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My hot take is that medical misogyny is a big reason as to why ftm bottom surgery is as rare and as underdeveloped as it is
In case anyone's been wondering where I've been, I've been very quickly learning how to be an investigative reporter vis a vis my doctor making an attempt on my life, intimidating me, attempting to force me out of the practice, and lying about me to other medical professionals in order to avoid raising my HRT dose
My dose was kept at a level unsustainable for my long-term health, which also caused massive short-term health effects. My gynecologist told me that all I needed to do to stop the effects were to raise my dose, so I asked my provider and she refused. She performed my bloodwork, described a level of 336 ng/dl at peak as “looking good,” then refused to raise my dose. She then lied about this and claimed to be completely amenable to raising my dose when pressed by another doctor. I have paper evidence of this, and I am fighting as hard as I can to have her license revoked because she genuinely tried to kill me.
Our most recent appointment? I confronted her not only about microdosing me without my knowledge or consent, but also doing the same to many trans patients over the years. Her response? Accusing me of hysteria and having my university health center call a wellness check on me.
I raised my dose just one step up on my own and guess what? The symptoms stopped completely within 3 days.
People are allowed to reblog this, by the way. This is a blatant example of medical transandrophobia and I have put my story out to be shared to warn people of what this looks like.
there's a brand of post going around now that annoys me so much, it's always like "the queer infighting is what they want!" etc etc basically reducing the transandrophobia denial/discussion going on to a petty squabble. yes of course I agree there is probably astroturfing happening, now more than ever, and it's probably good for their bottom line that we remain disorganized, but still, two things can be true at once.
trans men demanding respect and equal treatment for themselves IS NOT a petty squabble. Trans men talking back at the increasingly anti-transmasculine sentiments going around the community IS NOT just queer infighting and giving the conservatives what they want, it's actually an important part of our intersectional fight right now, and we need to be paying attention and listening to these men, not fucking sweeping them into a category of "terminally online bullshit discourse"
"As a trans man, it's your responsibility to protect women!!" Hi, you're a benevolent misogynist. That's like. That's the most obvious benevolent misogyny I've ever seen. Hope this helps!!
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"trans men make 10¢ more than trans women" hey did you know that the data analysis that this information comes from also concluded that asian/pacific islander LGBT+ workers experience virtually no discrimination in pay compared to the average worker
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In case anyone's been wondering where I've been, I've been very quickly learning how to be an investigative reporter vis a vis my doctor making an attempt on my life, intimidating me, attempting to force me out of the practice, and lying about me to other medical professionals in order to avoid raising my HRT dose
My dose was kept at a level unsustainable for my long-term health, which also caused massive short-term health effects. My gynecologist told me that all I needed to do to stop the effects were to raise my dose, so I asked my provider and she refused. She performed my bloodwork, described a level of 336 ng/dl at peak as “looking good,” then refused to raise my dose. She then lied about this and claimed to be completely amenable to raising my dose when pressed by another doctor. I have paper evidence of this, and I am fighting as hard as I can to have her license revoked because she genuinely tried to kill me.
Our most recent appointment? I confronted her not only about microdosing me without my knowledge or consent, but also doing the same to many trans patients over the years. Her response? Accusing me of hysteria and having my university health center call a wellness check on me.
I raised my dose just one step up on my own and guess what? The symptoms stopped completely within 3 days.
In case anyone's been wondering where I've been, I've been very quickly learning how to be an investigative reporter vis a vis my doctor making an attempt on my life, intimidating me, attempting to force me out of the practice, and lying about me to other medical professionals in order to avoid raising my HRT dose
the Trans Experience in our society is being treated like schrodinger's gender. you're a woman when they wanna deny you agency and a man when they wanna deny you support. this is an experience that unites nearly all of us, whether transmasc, transfem, or something else.
Non-binary people get louder NOW. Non-binary people get angrier NOW. Be a killjoy. Get obnoxious about your pronouns. Put gendered words together in ways that people don't like and spit on the ones they think are mandatory. Refuse to laugh at their stupid exorsexist "jokes". Dress in ways they don't understand. Refuse to answer their prying questions. Tell exorsexists to kiss your ass. Keep your chin up. Raise your voice. Get loud and a little cocky. I want to see your nonbinarity from outer space. Don't get it twisted; do it TODAY. Do you understand me?
Trans men will really be like “please stop pretending I don’t exist” and get called three different misogynistic slurs in the same sentence
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I would actually like to stop thinking about men a lot as a lesbian but trans men and disabled men and moc are important, so that ship has already sailed. ignorance is bliss and all
oh to be an ignorant lesbian who never considers that marginalized men matter because she's not personally attracted to them. That sounds terrible actually lol
It really is that excuse too. I've heard it multiple times where a lesbian will say she hates men or doesn't care about them, because she's not attracted to them.
Like damn that doesn't sound very feminist of you, in fact it sounds like what cis men would sometimes say to a fat girl
This might make me the friend that’s too woke but the omegaverse is transphobic
