vote for your local fruit basket today!

Honestly it boils down to reparenting yourself & rewiring your own neuronal pathways & telling yourself a firm “stop” when you notice your mind slipping down negative loopholes & being present in the moment & enjoying being mid task rather than waiting for it to end & not thinking of inertia as your baseline and natural way of living

So tempting to keep embarking on the same self destructive cycle over & over & over again . But at some point you have to put ur foot down w ur own behaviors & be the thing that truly saves u

Nobody quite knows what to do with a woman who actually understands how sexy she is in her most comfortable, least inconvenienced state. It's always cut her down or objectify her, there's no positively connotated middle ground like we have for confident men who are generally considered attractive. Nobody seems to remember that women are sexy by simply being. How unfortunate this is!

everyones got that one neurosis they cant even complain about on tumblr

apparently vic’s vapor rub goes exitinct ? i’ve been using the same vapor rub for years and apparenlty it went bad in the 2010s ..

expired .

Really gonna need other women to quit with the security theater which isn’t even security theater it’s just them being afraid to go outside and live their lives bc of male violence. THIS IS HOW THEY WIN… they can control us without having to actually act. The thought that they might act keeps us trapped within narrow parameters of conduct and exploration. I’m so tired of seeing the sentiment “wish I was a dude so I could walk outside at night” or “wish men didn’t exist so I could walk around at night.” Esp when you know plenty of those posters live in the suburbs. I think we need to shift from the extreme focus on avoidance strategies — avoidance informs the vast majority of female protective behaviors — and concentrate more on what our response will be when we INEVITABLY experience (attempts at) male violence. The claim that if you stay guarded and careful within narrow parameters, you will avoid male violence, is a lie. So stop functionally believing it lol

mozzarella and parmesan is kind of like the age gap yuri of cheese

I cannot believe this post I made in 2015 is still going around…. anyway plot twist this same lady got famous on my town’s facebook gossip group for divorcing her husband for a woman 💅🏻✨ I like to believe my yes homo shirt pointed her in the right direction

microdosing on catharsis by watching a fictional character or persona i relate to have an emotional breakdown until my chest starts to ache from the amount i've repressed