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Hello! My name is Tobias, but you can call me Toby! I am a transgender man who supports all expressions of gender. I strongly feel that everyone's experience(s) with gender exploration and how they interface with society as a whole is unique and valuable. I live/pass in stealth aside from being open about my identity online. I will always make an effort to use someone's preferred pronouns if I am able to find them easily, or just refer to someone as they/them if I am unsure. I apologize sincerely if doing so is inaccurate for you, specifically.

I will not post a comprehensive list of my specific mental/physical health diagnoses because I don't think I need to. I do not care what other consenting adults do in the bedroom because I'm probably not the one sleeping with them. I also do not find value in knowing of other people's kinks or advertising mine in a public manner. I do not care about most of the baser internet discourse and just use my best judgement where and when applicable. Much of the time, internet discourse (eg. "pro/anti-ship") is met with the "fascinating! thank you for sharing your thoughts. let's talk about something else" response. I don't mean this in a rude way at all, I just.. don't care. I can't. There are bigger, more important things that I need to focus on.

I do not check my followers list! I don't follow back most of the time, either! Sorry. No follow-for-follow stuff. I do block/unfollow freely and do not (knowingly/intentionally) interact with minors as I do not consider my tumblr, which is littered with mature content, safe for them to follow. (As such, please do not follow me if you're under the age of 18! But also I literally won't know and thereby stop you, I guess!)

I also don't check my mentions a lot of the time, so you'll have to use other features of the site to actually get my attention (or message me elsewhere).

I do not support or tolerate infighting between transgender people, especially between transmen and transwomen.

I have varied interests, but I generally am just another random person online. I'm not famous or an outspoken person of any given community and more or less just reblog whatever and largely keep to myself. Otherwise, I'm pretty friendly - hello!

I have an aesthetic side blog where I collect art, photography, gifsets, etc if you'd like a sample of my quiet personal interests: @calloustoby

I do maintain a personal website, as well: https://scribbletoby.neocities.org/