Gowanii

There's nothing wrong with giving yourself cool powers or having your f/o fall in love at first sight - the whole point of self-shipping is to indulge and have fun!

...that's because it is.

Selfshipping goes hand in hand with fictophila, and just because y'all successfully pavloved yourself into connecting the word "paraphilia" with something potentially harmful doesn't mean your beloved yumeshipping doesn't go right into the paraphilia box.

Yeah, I'm talking to you!

I refuse to hear you talk down about yourself for loving a fictional character.

i refuse to listen to you shaming yourself for thinking that your F/O wouldn't love you.

Stop making excuses to throw yourself under a bus. Selfshipping gives you the creativity to do WHATEVER WHAT YOUR HEART DESIRES

Wanna get married to them? Go have a big wedding, put that wedding dress/suit on!

Wanna have a big celebration for their birthday? Do it! Buy that cake, decorate that room of them!

You wanna gush about how you love them? Speak loud and proud about it!

What's holding you back? NOTHING. You have the whole power to whatever YOU want.

Now, raise your head up And let your F/O know how much you love them! Be kind to yourself! That's what your F/O wants! life is way too short to care about what people think, the only thing that matters is that you do it in a healthy manner but also use it to pick yourself up.

Yeah, we have those days and stuff but you gotta realize that you control how they feel about you. Use a healthy mindset to let them love you.

Selfshipping can be a wonderful thing if you let it be. You got this and go let people know how much you love your F/O ❤️

Like yes!!! Your f/o(s) is/are comically head over heels for you!!! Your f/o(s) yearn all day every day for you and you only!!!