What would you do about a girl whos still a virgin, and is a little nervous, but has done research about the risks of things she might like
Hi anon, thanks for your ask.
I get that this was probably intended as soliciting some type of horny response, but because I'm not someone who fetishizes inexperience whatsoever (and actually consider such fetishes to be a boundary), I'm just gonna level with you, anon.
Virginity is a social construct and no one who's a normal, adjusted adult really cares about your experience level. Having a lot of experience doesn't correlate to skill level nearly as much as a desire to understand and please your partner, and a willingness to learn what they like does.
In fact, each and every partner is at least a little different. No two people are going to like the exact same things, to be touched the exact same way. This is especially true in kink, where each dynamic you have is going to look distinct from one another. Being a mature adult who thinks about their own likes and dislikes, communicates their boundaries, and puts effort into understanding what their partner(s) like, is far more important than your experience level.
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Little things that make a sadist giggle is when you've been sucking on your girl's clit for too long and finally she cums on your face, but you didn't stop. You continue to suck, bite, and flick on her sensitive clit.
She starts pushing your head away, but she's too weak to do so. So you lock your arms around her so she wouldn't crawl away from you. She starts crying like a mess and begging you to stop but that only turns you on even more.
Keep sucking on her clit till she talks stupid and her body begins to twitch from being fucked dumb.
Psa for all of you: thisβοΈ is basic requirement!!! Nobody should ever play with misogyny kink with someone who doesnβt consider it exclusively a kink!!
100000000%. If youβre not actively deconstructing patriarchy within yourself and trying to unlearn it you shouldnβt be a dom, let alone a dom practicing misogyny kink.
Fun fact: The sexual practice has to come from a foundation of feminism in order to be considered misogyny kink. Otherwise it's just sparkling fucking while being misogynistic.
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hiiii iβm a 23 year old girl and i really wanna try anal but i havenβt before and im nervous ab it, but u make it sound so good!!!! do u have any tips/instructions u could give me please? thank uuu!!π«§
this is the perfect opportunity for me to put together a longer post about this that i've been working on! (i am not a doctor or any kind of expert, but ive been doing anal for a long time, so here are my tips)
Anal Prep Guide πβ¨οΈπ¦
ANATOMY
Your external anal sphincter is the ring of skin and muscle on the outside, which you can voluntarily control by flexing or relaxing. The anal canal is the tight tube, about 3-4cm (1-1.5β) in length, that ends with the second internal anal sphincter. This one you cannot control, and is much more sensitive to pain. (You need to slowly insert a finger or toy and apply gentle internal stimulation in order to make it open up and relax.)
Next are anal columns, sinuses, and valves, which divide the outer skin of the anus and the inner mucus membranes of the rectum. The rectum is about 12-15cm (5-6β) deep, ending at the sigmoid colon (large intestine), which is about 35-40cm (14-16β) deep.
LIFESTYLE
If you are thinking about doing anal, first have an honest check in with your body. If you are gassy, itchy, runny, or sticky, itβs not a good time. Do not allow yourself to be pressured into doing something you donβt want to do, or arenβt ready for. Only do it if you feel relaxed, confident, and enthusiastic. And give your partner the same respect, in turn.
If you are monitoring your diet, drink lots of water, and choose fresh, healthy foods high in fibre. Avoid greasy or spicy foods, or anything you know makes your stomach upset.
Trimmers trim hair above the skin. Razors shave hair close to the skin, and can leave small cuts. If you prefer to shave, it is better to exfoliate and shave the night before to allow your skin to heal, and to avoid irritation or ingrown hairs due to the friction of sex. It also cuts down on your prep time the day of.
PREP
Fast the night before and/or the day of. Drink lots of water/fluids. Caffeine may speed up digestion and help things move along. You want your body to be empty.
Use the toilet.
Enema or douche. Fill it with lukewarm water, lubricate the tip, and insert just 1-2 cups at a time. You only want enough to fill the rectum. (Too much water, too deep, will wash undigested stuff down from the digestive tract and the process will take longer and be messier than it needs to be.) Fill and hold for as long as you can to allow everything to settle at the bottom, and then let it go. Do this over and over again until the water is clear.
Once the water comes out clear, clean up and get in the shower. To clean the area, you can either insert a soapy finger or a soft toy, depending on how deep you want to go. Soap on a toy will burn, and some sources will tell you not to put soap deep inside you. Its your choice.
Scrub the outside with a washcloth.
If you have a detachable shower head with a jet setting, take it and lay down on the bottom of the shower, knees up toward your chest. Exhale, pushing out, to open yourself up as much as you can, and use the jet to rinse yourself out. (An optional step: squat down and either cough or gag yourself. This will force your hole open to make sure there is no air or anything left inside.)
Out of the shower, oil or lube up the area. You can use an applicator to insert some inside your rectum, and/or use your fingers to gently massage some inside the anal cavity.
SAFETY
Now that youβre all cleaned and prepped, youβre ready to try it! What are some things you need to know to be safe?
Start slow and be gentle. Your ass is a tight ring of muscle that needs to be stretched a little bit at a time. The anus is not self-lubricating like the vagina (aside from mucus), so lube is very important for the comfort and safety of both you and your partner. Without lube, the friction of anal sex can be very painful, and cause tears and bleeding.
It is always okay to take breaks, or to re-prep if you have to. But be aware that over-washing (too hard, too frequently, or with harsh soap) can leave you dry and chronically itchy. I wouldn't recommend doing anal more than once a week.
Only insert objects with a flared base. Otherwise it can get sucked up inside, and you wonβt be able to get it out.
Silicone toys have more βgiveβ and are more comfortable for long-time wear and double penetration. Glass and metal give harder, firmer stimulation, which some prefer, but can bruise or make you sore.
Rimming and unprotected penis-in-ass sex are both generally safe if you do your prep. However, if you go ass-to-mouth or ass-to-pussy, you will most likely be sick and need medical care in the days afterword. This could be anything from a urinary tract infection, throat infection, bacterial vaginosis, or serious e. coli infection. (SWs knowingly undertake this risk when assessing a scene, and weigh the risk against the potential career/financial gain they hope to get out of it. Just because you saw it in porn doesnβt mean it is safe.)
Always pee after sex, especially after anal! This helps to flush any potential bacteria out of the urinary tract before it has a chance to cause an infection.
If you choose to fast beforehand, please eat and drink water afterwords!
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Two shy, sensitive submissives who definitely had huge crushes on each other before but were always too scared to make the first move x Matchmaking kidnapper Dom who ties them together so they can't escape and forces them to tongue fuck each other while stretching their holes.
There's something so humiliating about two people who had genuine attraction and feelings for each other giving each other head against their will before they ever even kiss and hating how much they love every second of it.
when the vulnerability of missionary sex becomes too much and you go to cover your face with your hands only for him to gently grab your wrists with a single hand as he says, βdonβt. please. i need to see you.β
painal sure but also? nice anal. kind anal. anal with lots of oil/lube. slow deep relaxing anal. with lots of kissing and back tickles and deep breathing. anal that the bottom actually enjoys π
You're spread out naked on a table as a presenter exhibits you to a room of people. They describe your body explicitly and talk about you like an object of curiosity, and the audience stares, intrigued. The presenter begins to stimulate you, remarking on your reactions. They pinch your nipple, and they remark on how when they do that, your nipples get hard, blood flows to your pussy, and your pussy starts to get wet to prepare for penetration. They say that these are all signs of sexual arousal, and you feel yourself blush.
They brush their gloved finger ever so gently along your wet pussy, flicking your clit, and explain that when they do that, you become more aroused, and that's why you're breathing faster and squirming a little. As they say this, you try to keep still.
The whole time they're doing this, you can feel the audience's eyes on you, and the air against your naked skin. You feel yourself involuntarily exhibiting all of the reactions the presenter is listing - hair standing on end, your heartbeat in your pussy, shakes, twitches, involuntary gasps or slight moans. Every time they predict a reaction and then force your body to do it, you feel more and more like a thing made for their amusement. But your pussy is so wet and you're desperate to be touched, even though it's so embarrassing to be put on display like this, moaning and writhing in front of all these people.
The last demonstration of the exhibit is showing them what it looks like and sounds like when you orgasm. Assistants step in to help with this step. Two begin to suck on your tits, flicking your nipples with their tongues. You moan involuntarily, writhing on the table. One lubes up a dildo and slides it into your pussy, pumping in and out of you excruciatingly slowly. Your eyes rolls back and your mouth gapes open, but you try to stifle your moans and resist the urge to touch yourself. In between gasps, you beg them to stop, not to make you cum in front of this room of strangers. But then one assistant begins to pump your swollen clit between their fingers, and within a few seconds you're screaming, unable to control yourself. The audience sits forward in their seats at this spectacle. You writhe and scream, shaking from the intensity of the orgasm, and as the come-down starts, you feel the dozens of eyes watching you and you want to crawl into a hole and disappear. You didn't want to cum in front of all these people, really. You just couldn't help it, it was so much. You didn't enjoy it, right?
The audience is amazed. They'll definitely tell all their friends about this fascinating new exhibit. Those friends will definitely buy tickets to the show tomorrow night. And the next. And the next...
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