Minors DNI. Ageless blogs DNI. NSFW Kink blog. 26. He/him. American. cis bi man. You must be 21+ to interact. Read my pinned and put your age in your bio. all photos and writing are oc unless otherwise stated.
Hello there, welcome to The-Sensitive-Sadist. the following is required reading if you plan on following or dming me.
Your age must be clearly listed in your pinned or bio. This blog is 21+ to interact. I block every blog I see that is ageless or under 21. If you're over 49 I will also block you. If you use AI for any part of your blog, I will block you.
I am a leftist who is aggressively pro-black, pro trans, pro sex-worker, pro-disabled, anti-imperialist, anti-racist, anti-zionist, pro-immigrant, pro woke, pro DEI, and extremely fucking feminist. This blog shares my values.
Anything you post or say that even remotely resembles pedo shit, harm to minors, harm to animals, or actual dubious consent will get you blocked and reported. This includes nsfw/kink blogs which knowingly interact with minors or allow minors on their page. If this is you, you're a fucking creep. Get the fuck away and seek help.
Any form of bigotry, including Anti-Semitism, Zionism, islamaphobia, racism, sexism, ableism or fatphobia will not be tolerated. Being weird about sex workers will not be tolerated. Conservatives are not welcome here. Supporting, defending, or justifying genocide, apartheid, ethnonationalism, settler colonialism, or authoritarianism will get you blocked. Fuck the tolerant left. I'm intolerant towards fascists.
All of my posts are about fully consenting adults who practice risk-aware consensual kink. BDSM should always be performed exclusively by consenting adults.
Please don't blindly try to recreate something from smut or porn without first ensuring all participants understand the risks.
More about me below
Name: E
Age: 26
Washington DC/Northern Virginia
Identity: biracial, cisgender, Dominant, pansexual top leaning verse. Solo poly. Straight edge. I only date other queer people. (Bi/pan ppl ily).
Pronouns: He/Him/His
Status: Single, non-monogamous, and not looking.
Do not send me unsolicited pictures. Do not call me honorifics without asking first (Sir, master, etc). No emoji anons.
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Archive blog: @the-sensitive-sadist-archive
I do not have an instagram, snapchat, or any other social media associated with this blog. My content will always be free and I do not take requests or commissions. Give your money to your favorite sex worker instead.
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Tag directory:
Red flags series
My Kink advice
Reblogged kink advice
Dick Reveal (Real)
General Horny Posting
Flirting
General Asks
Pet Applications are currently closed
The actual reason you're here (CNC content)
Most of my posts aren't about a specific gender, genitalia, or body type. If you enjoy my posts, they're about you.
Kinks:
Sadism, bisexuality/pansexuality, groping, bondage, edging, teasing and denial, orgasm control, chastity devices, consensual non-con (CNC), body worship, pain play, impact play, training/conditioning/corruption, praise, humiliation, degradation, free use, voyeurism, pet play (bunny, kitten, and puppy only), blasphemy, boots, anal (giving and receiving), genital slapping (giving) rimming (receiving), oral fixations, somno, group sex, cuckholdry, yearning, and a sprinkle of size kink.
Soft boundaries (feel free to interact just don't tag my posts with these please):
Hard boundaries (Kinks that get you on my blocklist):
Blood and bleeding, dd/lg, dd/lb, c/l etc, Intox/drugs/drugging, piss, shock collars, armpit stuff, lactation stuff, fauxcest. forced orientation play (I am not interested in participating in punishing or changing your orientation, only reinforcing it.), and the use of words like "daddy," "dad," or "kiddo," "beta," "alpha," "sissy" or "rape" in kink. Cheating kinks, electric play, ear abuse fetishes, Pregnancy kinks (obviously pregnant bodies are not different than non pregnant bodies but I do not fetishize pregnancy) virginity kinks (I don't care about experience level but the idea of someone not having any is not something I get off on).
Actual cheating/cheaters (Guys, come on. I shouldn't even have to say it. Just leave them. Fuck off with that "we'll divorce/break up eventually so it's fine" shit. Just be openly polyamorous like a normal person.)
Sharing images of myself or information that could lead to being doxxed (that includes my real name)
LLM and AI generated content.
Feeding/starving/anarex/food/eating/thinspo kinks. You may interact if you discuss these topics or your own experiences in a serious way, but not if you fetishize them of if they intersect with kink at all.
Ageplay, misogyny, racism, being focused on my race if we are not in the same group. Any and all bigotry kinks (including detrans, sissification, and the use of slurs), 50s households, race stuff (snow bunnies gtfo), forced straight, trad wives, body shaming, and fatphobia.
Thanks for reading, darling. Write me anytime.
Violence kinks including but not limited to "paraphilia," snuff, murder, necro, mutilation, cannibalism, branding, face punching, black eyes, self harm, cutting, serious beating or broken bones or any other serious violence. Bestiality, anything involving animals (regression, furry stuff, etc), age regression, findom, sounding, needles, knives, puke, diapers or abdl, scat, and incest.
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Can I get subby desparate male and dom female ( not in hurting way ) like I like subby guys š and I am dom š can i ,šŖšš»šš»
Hi anon I generally only post about myself and I am neither a dom woman or subby man so no can-do. Plus, my posts are gender inclusive, so I don't use terms like "female" or "male." On top of all that, I don't do requests, I just post for myself. You would know all that if you read my pinned post. Please go ahead and check that out, it's quite helpful. Thanks.
I like it when it's just a little too fucking tight and you're whining all pretty and it definitely won't go in any further inside you but your hole just feels so fucking angelic I can't stop myself from forcing it in deeper anyways with my fingers probing inside your mouth so you can't even scream
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and one more thing: the inability to respect "do not interact" boundaries is the exact reason why you should not be in a space that's all about consent and respect š
hello !! first off i just want to say i really enjoy your blog and your humor, and i really respect the way you donāt compromise on your morals and push for kink education and destigmatization. ironically, my favorite posts you make are of the ābuzzkill sadistā varietyā as fun as the kinky stuff is, i think the advice column is soooo important and you always do a really good job answering peopleās questions.
on that note, i have this growing concern aboutā¦ tumblr etiquette??? i suppose??? that i have been dealing with on my own blog, and i would love your take on it. for context, i run a kink blog as well, as a fem!submissive who is into bdsm, questionable power dynamics, and some more taboo kinks like kidnapping and cnc (obviously i practice RACK and it is mentioned in my pinned that everything is fantasy and consent is non-negotiable).
so, up until now (as it has become increasingly obvious to me that i needed to implement this) i did not have a clause in my pinned specifically barring people from sending unsolicited photos or trying to engage with me sexually in my DMs without so much as a āhello.ā i didnāt think or know it was necessary, and now when people do it they get blocked immediately.
i would receive rape threats, requests for nudes, or even orders such as āi want you to edge three days before you cum nextā <- copy/paste example btw.
i know itās bound to happen from non-kink blogs here and there. however, for those kink mutuals who were doing it before i edited my pinnedā¦ is that something that is regular/expected amongst kink blogs unless you state otherwise? most have stopped now, which tells me they respect my boundaries now that theyāve been stated, but iām more put off that it was happening at all, and so frequently. it all feels a bit jarring and violating, and maybe this is naive but i sort of figured that wasnāt something weād do to each other in the kink community without a discussion beforehand.
am i making a mountain out of a molehill here? i just wonder if these are people i should remain mutuals with, or if it was a red-flag that they were doing this in the first place. my blog got very popular very fast, and maybe since itās still relatively new iām just not caught up on the kink etiquette yet.
thanks for reading !! i know this was a super long ask but if you get a chance pls lmk your thoughts :)
Hi anon, thanks for your ask and kind words.
To be honest, I think you may be giving a bit more grace to people than they deserve. Your boundaries are essential, and you deserve to have them respected. It is violating to receive unsolicited messages like that, and it's not normal to send sexual content to someone without communication beforehand.
I disagree with the implicit assumption that you need to specifically prohibit receiving nudes or sexual messages in order for people to stop sending them to you. In fact, the opposite is true. Unless you explicitly invite those things in your dms or askbox, it is sexual harassment to send them to you unsolicited.
Secondly, the idea that someone, mutual or not, just assumed that they can give you edging instructions or send you threatening sexual messages just because you didn't expressly state your desire not to receive such things is deeply problematic. Would it be acceptable for them to approach someone on the street this way? At a play party? In a dating app? Absolutely not. That's not how consent works.
Communication happens first, actual sexual activity happens second. As anything else is both disrespectful and unsafe.
I don't think you should ever just expect to be harassed, and I recommend blocking people who do that to you every time. So yes, it's a huge red flag if someone doesn't care enough about consent to ask first. If they assumed they could treat you like that out of the gate, what else are they assuming they can do? Block them. Their loss.
Sometimes your post scare me but somehow ends up making so wet...I am so confusedš„¹
You do know you aren't supposed to like this stuff so much, right darling? Or is your brain so corrupted that you can't even tell the difference between fear and arousal anymore? Poor thing.
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Just wanna grope your hips and force it in you just a little too hard, just rough enough that it hurts more than it should, making sure you feel just how much more my pleasure matters to me than your dignity does
Prone bone with my arm around your neck so I can choke you while I whisper in your ear and tell you how fucking good your hole feels wrapped around my dick
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Really fucking long post about edging, spanking, and forced oral:
Pinning you down and tying your hands behind your back, bending you over so you're face down and helpless, then plugging you with your meanest plug, and teasing you with your least gentle vibe. Edging you slowly and sweetly until you're a sobbing, overwhelmed mess, then edging you some more until you've used your pretend safe word a dozen times and I've ignored it a dozen times, until your entire body is clenched and your brain is so hazy you can't tell how long I've been doing this to you or whether there was even a time when you were allowed to cum then suddenly forcing you over my lap pushing a gag in your mouth, and grabbing a paddle, brutally rousing you from your cloudy edge induced haze and spanking you so harshly that your moans are immediately replaced by your screams. Beating your ass over and over again, repositioning you and switching through implements repeatedly, even switching up my tempo so you can never get used to the pain. Hitting your ass, your thighs, your chest, no vulnerable, fleshy bit of your body safe. Spanking you until you can barely even remember being edged, your body still tense from the frustration, but overstimulated by the pain. Your tears are so fucking delicious. Hurting you for what feels like another eternity then pushing you to the ground, grabbing you by the hair, pulling the gag out of your mouth and yanking your head between my legs. Your ass still burning, your eyes filled with tears and your mouth filled with my dick. Facefucking you, using you like the perfect little oral doll, your hands still tied behind you, your throat the last part of you I need to violate to feel satisfied. Using you to pleasure myself after a long day of abusing you for my pleasure. Hands pushing your head down and forcing you to choke repeatedly for me. Such a stupid fucking toy. Stop trying to breathe. I spent all that time hurting you today and you're really going to try to breathe while I use your mouth? You're going to learn your fucking purpose whether you like it or not. Hold still, or else. I wanna feel the back of that fucking throat.
Hello, sadist! I wanted to ask if you have any tips on how to implement CNC in a more intentional way. My partner and I just started doing it ānaturallyā and didn't really think about it, because we are vanilla. But I would like to incorporate more of it into our relationship; it could even be non-sexual, like tickling while I beg him to stop.
Hi anon, thanks for your ask.
The solution to your question is just to have a conversation about it. Ask each other about your interests and desires, your boundaries and limits, figure out where your common ground is and what you'd like to do together, then take steps to implement it. Taking about sex and kink is essential for a healthy dynamic especially once that incorporates risky play like cnc.
