Finding your Singing Voice
Weâll get to the singing element of this post in just a moment, but first I ask you to bear with me. Itâs tough crafting something new. I see the blank screen and Iâm often timid about making a start,  driven mostly by an irrational doubt in my ability to write a compelling argument that will make a difference to YOU, the person who has stopped by to read what I have to say, and who maybe feels the same way about their SINGING as I do about writing. Stay with me here .... letâs do this together!
Can you empathise?Â
I mean, if I have doubts about whether I have what it takes to pull a convincing article, Â you may be fighting the same demons about finding your voice - about singing. But the good news for both of us is that youâre HERE, reading this article because of your singing desires, so letâs put it in context.Â
Just imagine if...
....you were asked to prepare a song - say, to record it and put it out there into the world for all to hear, over and over? What is your gut instinct? Fight or FLIGHT?Â
I have met and taught many people who really just want to know how to connect with the potential vocal sound that is intrinsically their own. Theyâre often frustrated by what they feel are the limitations of an inadequate instrument - and lack confidence as a result. But you see, this can be remedied.
How? Read on.
What if you had the right tools to use?
So, you want to improve your singing. Whatâs important is that you make a beginning, a START and that you take that leap. Your vocal sound doesnât have to be polished and perfect - but, that simple step of making the first sound, is the best and only step forward there is to make.Â
Singing is my joy, my place to go to, my constant. It has always been the something that quietly drives me forward, from within. People tell me my voice is beautiful, that itâs a gift. But no, I say, it is a talent that I have honed to a finite set of skills. It is an accomplishment.Â
You can do it too.Â
So, how should we make a start?Â
We all have voices - two little vocal folds that come together, vibrate in the airflow which ultimately translates as OUR sound, individually unique. Why then are we so often fearful or embarrassed about unearthing/uncovering their singing voice?Â
Is it a question of not knowing HOW to start?Â
Perhaps itâs not being able to reason why your spoken and sung voice seem to come from completely different places?Â
Or do the sounds that do come out in public, bear no relation to what you hear when you sing in the shower?
Self-perception is a demon of course. It lurks in hidden places within our psyche, ready to pounce, to take us down, to withhold permission to indulge, the moment we become gripped by the self-imposed question âshould I do this?â. Agreed?
Overcoming fears ...
One of my adopted ways to overcome a very real fear of talking on camera for online videos and live broadcasts and fully embrace all tools for online marketing was to start a Voice Vlog within my professional YouTube Channel. I recorded a companion vlog-post to this article, which helped me thrash out my overall strategy for re-introducing and writing about my 5 Essential Vocal Exercises even MORE.
So, what are these 5 essential vocal exercises?Â
Iâve written many articles about vocal technique. By utilising just 5 of the basic singing âtoolsâ when you warm your voice up (if youâd like access to a FREE basic 15-minute warm-up audio file, then click HERE), you will be guaranteed a better understanding of how your voice works. More importantly, youâll get to feel and recognise when itâs NOT!Â
Here are the magic 5:
POSTUREÂ
BREATHING
ONSET
LIP TRILLS andÂ
SIRENING
 In a sister post called, âNew to singing? Hereâs something you canât afford to miss.â I explain:
First things first; by far the biggest step is building trust between student and teacher. Whether working in my studio or online, these are the fundamental building blocks of every lesson I teach:
I encourage students to give themselves permission to sing badly and make odd sounds. After all, thatâs the nature of the game - trial and error.
I underline how important it is to have fun and not attach too much weight to how the voice actually sounds.
Making fresh inroads to the world of singing will at times seem very odd to most newcomers, so it is really good to have a freedom mindset.
 âNext Stepsâ singing journey advice
If youâre not ready yet but want to get to know more about my work, then you can
visit my Voice School Noticeboard
'likeâ my Little Soprano Facebook page
connect with me on LinkedIn
watch and listen to me on YouTube
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What IS really important?
If you want to learn the basic tools for good voice production, then the actual application of that learning, and by that, I mean how you weave it into your life, is just as important as the actual 5 essentials themselves. Many amateur singers fail to do this necessary weaving and wonder why their vocal instrument begins to suffer.Â
Iâll end this post with a fabulously supportive and interesting Ted Ed animation about the art of practising any skill and the patience it takes to acquire it over time.Â
Thanks for reading this far and - ENJOY!














