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2. What age did they realize that they were said orientation?

Ilimaer would not have such a realization. He just... kinda goes on with it, he don't need any lables and frankly I don't think he knows there are such things as labes. He straight up doesn't care. He's got more important things to worry about that sexuality, like keeping his idiot vampire brother in line.

3. Did they have an experience they consider their "sexual awakening?"

Yes. Sort of. Being on the demisexual side of things, along with being an Heir AND designated vampire wrangler, he had other things to think about in his adolescent years. He probably didn't even THINK about stuff like sex aside from the fact that the other boys were doing it, and the overhanging idea of the fact that one day he has to produce an heir to the Ruler seat. It wasn't until his later teens/early 20's when he found his first passing fancy for one of the girls in the city. It ended fairly quick, like most young romances do. It wasn't as much of a sexual awakening in that sense, rather than a huge relief, since being attracted to someone meant he didn't have to worry too much about the whole Heir thing... to much.

8. Do they prefer ass, tits, thighs, shoulders, or something else entirely as a characteristic they find attractive in others?

He likes women that preferably have a bit of everything. He likes them curvy and soft all over. And he especially appreciates the parts that are very squishy: thighs, ass, tits, stomach too, a soft arm or calf. He loves big breasts, but not so much so that he'd not consider a flat chested girl if he was already falling in love with her. But from a sexual stand point, he just wants to be crushed between those thighs, man. And feel the squish against his cheeks and hands.

14. How many people/partners have they had sex with at once?

Ha! One. And that's plenty. He doesn't have anything against people who have sex with more, not in a general sense. Strangers are allowed to do whatever they want as long as he is not involved. But Kaspian being his brother, Ilimaer would have a sort of resentment for the idea on a much more personal level. Because of Ilimaer's and Kaspian's rather antagonistic, yet caring relationship and Kaspian's sometimes unhealthy relationship to sex, following in that same pattern would be very hard for Ilimaer.

So it's less about taking a stance on the practice, and more about not wanting to be associated with Kaspian's chosen lifestyle.

34.What's the most adventurous thing they've tried during sex?

Oh you KNOW it was all vanilla, missionary, soft love making, until he meets Dimora. She'd have that man tied down and pegged like he deserves. She'd have his head spinning from both praise and degradation at the same time. She would show him sides of sex he'd never even wanted to consider before, but now can't stop thinking about.

42. Top 5 turn ons

It's more about their personality for him, since he's rather demi, but physical attraction does account for something. In no particular order: 1 Someone fiercely clever 2 Someone who is not afraid to speak their mind 3 SQUISH 4 Someone who will take the reins for the duration. You heard me. I said sub Ilimaer. Y'all know I'm right. That man needs to relax. 5 Adrenaline highs, of which there are plenty.

43. Top 5 turn offs

1 Idiots 2 most extreme kinks 3 physical pain 4 humiliation 5 and bc he is Kaspian's brother and basically the one to raise said vampire: any non consensual stuff. Even consensual non consent. Kaspian learned the importance of it from him.

46. Have they faked an orgasm?

Yes. On one awful occasion when he was brought to a brothel, early in his knight career. The squad egged him on to take a whore and he did mostly to get them to shut up and be allowed to leave the room for a while. Needless to say neither of them enjoyed that evening that much, but they parted without any hard feelings. Just LOTS of embarrassment.

60. What, if anything, do they fantasize about when they masturbate?

Honestly, up until Dimora, probably nothing really. He would be more of a in the moment kind of guy, focusing on the feeling rather than any fantasy. After Dimora though, he'd probably fantasize about what she'd say or call him, and the imagined feeling of her. Of her thighs against his cheeks as he puts his mouth and tongue to her core (<- his favorite place in the world)

69. Do they have anything that they once considered a squick but is now a turn on?

Yes. So. Being the Knight Captain and Heir to the Ruler seat, he has a lot of responsibilities, a lot of stresses. And one of the many responsibilities he has is to make sure the monsters don't over run the country side. He quite frequently has to go on raids to deal with vermin. Fighting monsters, especially bigger and more dangerous ones spike the adrenaline QUITE high. Getting aroused after a fight as the adrenaline spike dies down is not unheard of, and for years he thought that was something that happened to OTHER people, and considered killing bests in raids a good stress relief already, after days of boring meetings and paper work. But eventually, as he got more jaded to the gore and blood, the arousal started to spike after raids. And as an orgasm is in itself a sort of reward, and the brain LOVES to make funny connections, the idea of raids even started to become something he looked forward to after a while. Not that the idea of raids are directly arousing to him. But they are exciting now, rather than straight up terrifying. And more often then not he gets aroused afterwards.

14. How many people/partners have they had sex with at once?

He has tried up to like, 7, but at that point you really gotta start spreading the em, tasks, as it were, to other people, whereas he'd rather be the one actively giving. He can probably comfortably juggle 2 or 3 though, a skill that has taken a lot of practice. But... as a frequent host of orgy parties I feel like that's probably subjective... Some would probably count the entire party! So in that case... like, what... 50-100? lol??

17. Weirdest place they've had sex?

Behind the wooden relief partition wall of the Three Mothers inside the city church, he fucked one of the Daughters(a sort of nun) in training. They both got away with it.

34. What's the most adventurous thing they've tried during sex?

As a relentless people pleaser (IN BED ONLY) he has tried literally everything and while it might not have done anything for him specifically, knowing it does something for his partner/partners is usually more than enough. I think threesomes/foursomes/orgies might count towards this, but they are more frequent than him only taking one partner, so there's that. But some of his fave ones?? - Bondage (either side of it) - Blood stuff, though it needs to be timed bc his bites are venomous and the bitten WILL faint... lol. And he's not about to do anything to an unconscious person, bc they can't give consent.

42. Top 5 turn ons

Not to call him easy, BUT... he kinda is. He likes really simple things about people, no need to bust out the weird kinks just for him. In no particular order: 1 Voices 2 pretty eyes 3 the way their heartbeat speeds up at his attention (he can feel/hear it) 4 CONSENT. Like this might sound stupid. But, he REALLY likes when people are very vocal about loving what's happening. Louder the better, especially if they got a good voice 5 people begging for a bite

43. Top 5 turn offs

Again, no order: 1 people faking it 2 scat (don't google it.) 3 hardcore sadism (either side of it) 4 being babied. Not even in the kink way (though especially not in the kink way where you get bottle fed/wear a diaper and stuff) he just straight up don't want to be treated than anything less than an adult. 5 somnophilia (ties into the whole, bitten people will faint deal, bc consent for him is a big deal)

46. Have they faked an orgasm?

No. But he's never been overly bothered with the idea of climaxing as long as everyone is having a good time. Sometimes the mood just sorta mellows out and that's perfectly fine if it was fun all the way through!

69. Do they have anything that they once considered a squick but is now a turn on?

I had to google squick for this. Squick: a negative emotional response, more specifically a disturbed or disgusted one. No I don't think he has any of those. Sex for him is a means of escapism, it always has been, so the lines between what's GOOD and what's BAD emotionally have always been very clear and not something he'd easily muddle. They'd be pretty set in stone.

However, there is some stuff on this list that will turn into squicks for him, after Avourel.

Do what you will with that knowledge!