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“If this is what love is, I’m not so sure I want to see more of it. I’m not sure if I ever again want to see that empty fucking plate, while eating alone because you never came home. I’m not so sure I want to sit up and wait for someone who never shows up. I’m not so damn sure I want to wait for you to make up your mind, not knowing if I am “worth” your time. If love is crying myself to sleep because of you and waking up with puffy eyes, because of you, I don’t want to feel love again. If love is crying and dying, I’m done with it. I’m done with love. You ruined it for me.”

- I don’t want to love you anymore

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Only the deepest love will persuade me into matrimony, which is why I will end up an old maid. Pride and Prejudice (2005) dir. Joe Wright

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i just read a washington post article on romcoms aging poorly due to the pushiness (and oft-stalkery conduct) of the male characters therein, and it got me thinking about pride and prejudice, and specifically darcy saying, “one word from you will silence me on this subject forever.”

because, like, that’s the seldom-portrayed romantic dream in the patriarchal hellscape that is our world, isn’t it?

a dude being willing to say, “i understand if you don’t feel the same way about me, and i’ll leave you alone forever about this if my attention is unwanted.”

so simple, yet so wonderful in its basic human decency

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and dudes to this day wonder why women still swoon over darcy

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Note also: Elizabeth turns down Darcy’s first proposal, and in the process, accuses him of doing some stuff he did not do (and also some stuff he totally did).

The next day, he surprises her on her walk. He hands her a letter, asks that she read it, and then takes off.

When this happened to me after I had turned someone down IN REAL LIFE, the letter contained a passionate argument to the tune of “actually you’re wrong and you do like me and you should go out with me” and it was creepy af.

Darcy’s letter to Elizabeth starts with: “Be not alarmed, Madam, on receiving this letter, by the apprehension of its containing any repetition of those sentiments, or renewal of those offers, which were last night so disgusting to you”. He goes on to set the record straight about the stuff he didn’t do (as well as the stuff he did) which is *actually relevant* to Elizabeth. And he, as promised, doesn’t romance her further.

It’s totally bizarre that even now, this can be considered unusually great dude behaviour.

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Darcy’s first proposal: “You must allow me to tell you how ardently I admire and love you.”

Darcy’s second proposal: “One word from you will silence me on this subject forever.”

His whole arc in the book is about learning to consider other people’s feelings and not just his own, but the fact that it’s expressed via who gets to talk and who is told to shut up is so, so telling. The first time around, he imposes his voice on her whether she wants it or not. The second time, he asks how she feels, and in exchange, offers her the gift of his silence.

And yeah, the fact that dudes still! have! not! learned! this! lesson! is exhausting.

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not to be dramatic but i will never be comfortable with my physical appearance

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guys who rarely wear suits look at least 385% hotter when wearing a suit while guys who usually wear suits look 451% hotter when wearing casual clothes trust me this is science

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Good afternoon, the academic culture of “if you’re not overworking, you don’t deserve success” is unhealthy.

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You can always start again. Clean out your social media. Create a new account for your new taste in music. Study or work in a new city. Start socialising with new people. Choose a new signature scent and style and purge the outdated parts of yourself. If you don’t like where you’re at, but you don’t know what to do about it - try starting again.

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Doing this exact thing has changed my life! Nothing like moving ~3500mi across an ocean to run away from everything you’ve known your entire life to finally chase your lifelong dreams!!!! 😎

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To LDS Ward Leaders: How to Minister to your LGBT members

This blog post, written by a former LDS bishop, brought me to tears. I wish all church leaders would read and understand. Here’s some of his points that really hit home for me: 1) All LGBT members need a trusted adult in their life who loves, supports and sustains them (no matter which path they choose) 2) When someone “comes out” they should be greeted with love, validation and hope, not a lecture on repentance or reminder of the Church’s stance on same-sex marriage 3) Create a safe culture for the LGBT person in the closet. This could include speaking to youth and YSA about what sort of conversation their bishop would have with them if they come out, that it’s okay if now is not the right time to come out, and there is no shame to the person or their family if they are gay/transgender 4) Don’t use words like “struggling” or say they’ll be “fixed” in the resurrection 5) Get over the preoccupation of whether they’re “acting on” their orientation. We don’t wonder that about the 23-year-old single straight guy while he’s giving a talk, give everyone the same courtesy 6) Our Heavenly Parents love their LGBT children, and we should give them unconditional love and support and recognize they will bless the lives of others.

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i wonder if magic is real, but only in a really mundane way.

when i was little i could almost inerringly switch back to disney channel right as the ads ended when i was channel surfing.

maybe youve never accidentally crushed a ladybug underfoot. maybe your microwave popcorn never burns. maybe you can spin around lots and lots of times before you get dizzy.

is that magic??

honestly im not sure if these are magic or just small, invisible skills. im not sure which i like better.

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My ankles never twist. I’ve always been rather active, I did track for five years (all the running events), and one time while running I stepped in a hole, lost my shoe, and landed sprawling about five feet away. I pulled my shoe on and kept running.

I have a coworker who somehow makes better coffee than everyone else even though the grounds come pre-measured and all you have to do is load them up and push a button. I have a friend who has inch long nails that never break. My brother can copy origami just by looking at the finished product and my mother can do the same with knots. I knew a guy who never made an error when typing.

Maybe we all have little magics, the kind that you don’t realize you have. Just tiny things that make your life slightly better but are completely unnoticed on the outside.

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this is the cutest post i have ever read…

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Nooo I’ve actually shared this theory before. Like my Dad is really lucky finding parking spaces. And I’ve never cracked my phone even though I drop it on the time and have an average case. Like what if everybody gets one trivial part of their life that they’re illogically lucky at?

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“Little magics”

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I never, ever fall. I only ever *almost* fall.

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There was a phlebotomist at my old GP in Seattle who could draw blood samples absolutely painlessly from absolutely anyone. I’m convinced she just happened to find her magic and made a career of it.

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shout out to all the kids who aren’t good at what they’re passionate about, and who aren’t passionate about what they’re good at

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I said I loved you, and I tried. But I gotta love myself now, and somehow, the two just collide.

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how’s everybody doing

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yeah me too

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Show me your TITS

T- Time I-Interest T- Thoughtfulness S- Some titties

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honestly you know why people centuries ago were so extra in the way they spoke and so dramatic it’s because they were listening to classical music. go turn on some johann sebastian bach and tell me you don’t suddenly feel like composing a hand written love letter to your dearest annabelle and using the word melancholy