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Brock Turner now goes by his middle name. Remember, he’s now going by ALLEN Turner.

May every minute of every day be a miserable experience

An old and newer picture:

Brock Turner now goes by his middle name. Remember, he’s now going by ALLEN Turner.

May every minute of every day be a miserable experience

An old and newer picture:

taking civilian hostages - which is against the Geneva Convention

also choosing to ignore the mass murders & rapes they committed but whatever

But also

choosing to forget about the fact they still have them + have refused to return them which is why Israel is even attacking

It has nothing to to with “just” portraying sex on camera for masturbation purposes - which is already weird and paraphilic enough by itself (voyeurism / a form of dissociating from real sexuality and human contact); it’s nothing but normalizing female degradation and abuse for the sake of male sexual and emotional satisfaction and gratification. And what kind of emotions are getting affirmed and reinforced seems quite clear….(!) It’s no coincidence, that even in “mainstream-porn” almost 90% of all scenes depict some sort of (male) violence against women. I think, it’s also no coincidence at all, that the modern porn-industry suddenly popped up - at the very same time - alongside first real positive developements and achievements for women’s rights - as if it was a form of “answer” of the (still) ruling class - the men - to remind us as well as them, who had assigned which place in the social hierarchy. Sexuality has a deep impact of the human body and mind. And it can be - and is - used as a powerful tool of control and behavioral conditioning.

I saw this from the female separatism subreddit & the responses are some of the biggest reasons for separatism et al (or extinction if I'm being candid here). Moids cant be reformed they are fully aware of the hell they force women to live in. MaIe achievement & happiness is rooted in female exploitation & life. Their glory days are based on our horrific days. No amount of love, kindness or facts will change maIes and we cannot happily or even neutrally coexist with them.

Main points across answers:

Many want to experiment but not permanently be women

They dont want to be in constant danger or lose their autonomy at the hands of maIes for merely existing

They dont want to deal with childbirth (& periods)

They dont want to have to share spaces with species much stronger than them with ulterior motives

It makes me go crazy seeing people give moids benefit of doubt for their evil like "maIes just dont understand", "we need to teach maIes", or claiming that maIe violence is a result of maIes struggling with (expressing) their feelings. I get that women love maIes and it can be hard to imagine that people can intentionally be so evil but it is what it is. MaIes have no problems expressing themselves, abusing women is what maIes choose to do because they enjoy & benefit from it - that is their expression.

MaIes see the same news of women being abused, raped, and killed like we do except rather than be disheartened or alarmed they're either apathetic or satisfied. It isn't aliens that's committing GBV it's maIes & maIes have no problem reminding women of this when women anger them (such as rape threats & threatening women they'll end up on the news/true crime). The victim blaming, denial, and derailment of misogyny is part of the game to keep the system alive, they know the events occured & are a systemic occurence they just dont care. Hell not only do they not care, they rejoice in it or get off on it.

MaIes set up environments that work in their favour which simultaneously ensures that women will lose. They know women are set up to live in damn near impossible conditions for us. It's normalised for women to defenselessly share personal & private spaces with beings much more stronger than them with ulterior motives for us, it's trap. It's interesting how these moids aren't saying that they'll just cover up and *poof* harrassment gone, or they'll just pick a nice guy & they'll be okay. MaIes know the net negative they are towards women.

MaIes know that childbirth is a painful process & what do they do? Demand it happens and make it even MORE painful for women. MaIes that impregnate women do not love or care for them. Pregnancy itself is dangerous & sometimes lethal, often comes with a range of health issues, to cause someone to be in that condition especially in a environment where abortions are illegal is reckless & unloving. Now imagine how sinister & full of hatred one has to be to impregnate someone and abuse them on top of that. Many women risk their health & lives to reproduce with a Y and they get abused by said Y instead of being taken care of. Deranged.

this doesnt even touch on how many men think being a woman is life on easy mode, cute, sweet, fun, poetic, pretty, cute, etc. and how many want a female body to own and look at and play with

It [the idea that women's spaces are pointless because female exclusivity is unenforceable] is such a telling argument because all that's really being asked for when we demand single sex spaces is for men to VOLUNTARILY self-select out. For males to understand that, though they may not fit in well with other males, female spaces are still not theirs.

The suggestion from feminists is never genital inspections at the bathroom entrance, but that males voluntarily refrain from entering and that females have the right to expel violators when we can identify them. Some males do pass as females, and our request is that they respect our space regardless.

Males truly cannot conceive of the idea of simply respecting the space and boundaries of women. It literally doesn't cross their minds, so their minds immediately jump to whether or not women can forcibly stop them. The belief is that if a woman cannot forcibly prevent it, you may take anything you like from her with impunity.

Another component of, a lot for adult women are boring. Women aren't allowed to do silly shit without it being sexualised and you see this play out during puberty where more and more girls self censor, shrink and give up the whimsy of prepubescent girlhood. And I think it's getting a lot worse with how far reaching porn has become.

I recently have fallen in love with the /r/JustGuysBeingDudes subreddit. It’s just video after video of guys doing stupid shit and finding joy in it. There’s a video of a bunch of dudes working together to roll a boulder down a hill, because it was there (and no one was at the bottom so there was no safety risk). There’s a video of a guy going up to his friends saying “what’s up I’m here with my boyfriend” to the camera to get their reactions (some of them get mad, some of them try to kiss him).

My favorite video is a bunch of dudes in the rain with a sign that says something like “splash us” sitting by the curb, a car drives by and drives into a puddle sending water absolutely drenching the dudes as they cheer.

And scrolling through it, it’s hard not to realize... there’s no female equivalent.

A video that stands out is a tiktok of a bunch of dudes in a public place rolling up to strangers with a basketball hoop and throwing a basketball their way to encourage them to toss it. The video is a montage of women dodging or otherwise refusing the ball, and men getting it and going for it. It felt strange to watch. Like there was something there that someone smarter than me could point out. It kind of hurt to watch in a way.

I can never fully enjoy videos of men or boys doing stupid funny shit, because I'm too busy feeling jealous. The comments are filled with "this is why women live longer" and "boys will be boys," as if women and girls don't act the same way in the company of other women and girls. Girls always do goofy, stupid, funny, nonsensical shit while hanging out with each other. Grown women, too. But we very seldom see videos of this being shared to the same extent that videos of men and boys are. Every time I find a funny video of women or girls being goofy, it's like finding a drop of water in the desert.

Men don't see us as fully human, and they genuinely think we don't goof off when they're not around. There was even that fucking locker room meme a while back where the entire punchline was: boys are quirky and fun and girls are shallow and vapid and have zero sense of humor. Do males genuinely believe that we spend our time just standing around talking about boring shit?

Boys don't think girls are funny and goofy like they are because girls are not comfortable being themselves in front of boys. Boys don't get to see what girls are actually like because we're only comfortable and relaxed enough to act silly while in the company of other girls. Why? Because boys demean, sexualize, and mock everything girls do. We feel like we have to make ourselves small and quiet when they're around.

in emotional intelligence (shocking lol)

academically, in higher education (especially in STEM) - and contrary to popular belief, this has been true and isn't new! the "crisis" of boys' educations is bullshit

in business, especially management

as entrepreneurs

as investors

as CEOs (especially of hedge funds which is really cool imho)

in leadership skills in general

as doctors - “We estimate that approximately 32,000 fewer patients would die if male physicians could achieve the same outcomes as female physicians every year." and as surgeons

at driving. and parking. and navigating while driving. oh - and this is in spite of the fact that feeling stereotyped as a bad driver actually makes women worse drivers. still better than men.