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Or possibly some other third thing
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Would this count as a Tally HO moment or something more along the lines of a Yeehaw moment?
Or possibly some other third thing

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by the way you can be both a girl and a boy, completely both at the same time
by the way you can be a girl, a boy, AND gender neutral, all at the same time
by the way you can be EVERY gender, all at the same time, just identifying as all of them
by the way you can be NO gender, yep, if you want; not even "nonbinary" if you don't want to
by the way you can be COMPLETELY a boy PLUS something else
by the way you can be COMPLETELY a girl PLUS something else
by the way you can be a gender themed after something that means a lot to you
by the way you can be a gender related to your neurodivergency
by the way you can be a gender related to your species (for alterhumans)
by the way you can be fluid between VERY specific genders
by the way you can be flux between one gender or another only
by the way you be completely one of the options above WHILE having a gender that fully contradicts it
by the way you can have a gender SPLIT between two or way more genders
by the way you can have your gender set to "just whatever I feel convenient to call myself" without being genderfluid
by the way you can have no label at all
by the way you can make up labels or just completely frankenstein genders together until somethings make you comfortable
be YOU! be WEIRD!
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her hair is ABSOLUTELY almost entirely knotted. by the end of this she will lose 30% of her hair
they killed him for this
He cracked the code
You were born with blonde hair.
You hate it.
It looks terrible on you and you've always thought that. When you were really young, you thought that's just what everyone thought about their hair colour. When you were a teenager, people chalked it up to hormones and wanting to be unique and follow the trends of dying your hair. It wasn't.
You've seen people with brown hair. It looks so good. You start imagining yourself with beautiful brunette hair. What if you could be that? And then you hear someone talk about you, call you 'that blonde over there' or someone telling you, 'your blonde hair looks so good!' and you're reminded all over again.
Your parents talk about something. Something you've never heard of before. "All those young kids, dying hair everywhere," they say. You ask them what it means. "Oh, that's when someone with one hair colour thinks they're better off with another hair colour." Your heart lights up. There's more people like you. You're not insane. And then- "Fucking insane. They just want to feel special. All this ridiculousness over trends." It hits you in the heart. You say nothing, just mumble an 'okay' and turn your attention back to your food.
That night, you're scrolling on your phone, and one video pops out. It's talking about dyed hair. You see people not just with natural-coloured dyed hair, but blues and greens and so many other colours. It looks beautiful. You remember your blonde hair. Could it finally be brown? These people are like you. They might be able to help.
You do research. You reach out to people online. And finally, you have your hands on a box dye from a store. it's not the highest quality, but you have it. At midnight the next weekend, you do it. You dye it brown. It's messy and tricky, but your heart is swelling with joy the entire time.
You expect people at school to be happy. Your hair is beautiful. You're beautiful. You finally feel comfort in your hair, confident in the way you look. Instead, you get side-eyes. People whisper and glare. One of your friends pulls you aside. "What happened to your hair?" You tell her you dyed it. Asks her if it looks nice. She grimaces. "Yeah... it looks fine.... but your blonde hair was your natural hair colour and it looked fine as well." You tell her the truth. How you've always hated it on you. Found brown to be so, so much prettier. Looked so much more amazing on you, and felt it too. "Yeah... but blonde is still your natural hair colour, right? No amount of dye is going to change that." Your confidence starts to sink. Will everyone think this?
Turns out, they will. You hear people still refer to you as "that blonde there". New people express confusion. "But her hair's brown? It's very clearly brown." "Well, yeah, but she dyed it. Her natural hair colour is blonde." "Oh... okay."
Your parents don't like it. "Your blonde hair was so beautiful," your mother sobs through her tears. "Why did you have to ruin it? My beautiful blonde child is gone! Gone forever! Why did you do it?" And you tell her that her child is not gone, her child is right here, just with different hair. She doesn't listen to a single word. Your father is mad. He yells at you to get out of his house, that you're a fucking disgrace, that you're mentally ill and brainwashed by trends and so many other hurtful things. You can only leave.
You try to go to another friend's place. She answers the door with a scowl. "Why are you here?" she seethes. She's angry. Why? You tell her about your situation. "Serves you right," she spits. "You're incredibly offensive to everyone with blonde hair." You ask her why, puzzled. "You clearly hate blonde hair. Why else would you dye it? Do you find blonde people disgusting?" No, no, that's not it. Blonde people are fine, you try saying. It just didn't suit me. I wish it did, but it didn't, so I changed it. "Stop twisting everything," she says. "I don't want to see your face." The door closes and you're left there on the steps.
You don't know what else to do. Were you truly lying? No, blonde hair has never suited you. Brown looks better. Brown makes you feel secure. You feel it's what makes you feel like yourself. But why can no one grasp that?
You search up more on your phone, and you find a community for similar people. People thrown out, disowned, abused for dying their hair or expressing wants to. When you get there, you find that they accept you with the warmest smiles and the coziest hugs. You find people that bleached their brown hair to blonde and dyed their blonde hair to brown, just like you, and they look so amazing. You find people with all sorts of coloured hair too, red, blue, yellow, purple, multicoloured and hair that gets redyed differently depending on the day. They all have similar stories. You've finally found a place you belong.
Outside, people are still outraged. They scream at the community that they're brainwashing their kids, that they're grooming every kid to dye their hair until there's no natural hair kids left. You don't feel hurt anymore. You know now they make no sense. They push out their own children, and this is the result. They don't want people with dyed hair banding up together.
Brown hair has always suited you. You're rather tired of people trying to pretend it doesn't.
This is not about dyed hair.

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I hate how every time a kid-friendly game that includes romance comes out (recent example: Tomodachi Life: Living The Dream), and fans express a desire for polyamory in the game, polyamphobic people come out of the wood works to say "Don't do that, that's a game kids play!"
Minors can be polyamorous. Minors can have polyamorous parents or other relatives. Minors are not harmed in any way by exposure of polyamory. I knew I was polyamorous by the age of 12. I felt extraordinarily othered by the lack of representation.
Polyamory isn't inherently some super explicit NSFW thing.
It's literally no different from the "don't let same-gender relationships exist in video games!" argument.
-Mod Arwen (he/him)
"But polyamory is sexual!" It can be, yes. But so can monogamy. A person can have a monogamous sexual relationship. Just like how not all monogamy is sexual, not all polyamory is sexual.
People act like group sex, swinging, and sexual open relationships are all that exist. But polyamory can occur in non-sexual manners (romantic, queerplatonic, etc), and monogamy can occur in purely sexual manners. Neither are "inherently" sexual.
How great would it be to have characters tell you "I want to pursue [insert character]. Should I talk to [current partners] about it?" and then you can encourage or discourage them, and if you encourage them, then you get a little cutscene of them talking to their current partners about wanting to add a new member to the relationship?
It would teach children and uneducated people SO MUCH about consent and communication in polyamory.
"Well, I wouldn't want my miis to be polyamorous" then make them monogamous? In a hypothetical like this, the options would be:
-Closed monogamous (wants a monogamous partner)
-Open monogamous (doesn't mind having a polyamorous partner)
-Ambiamorous (fine with polyamory or monogamy. Add a partner amount or a "no limit" option for the possibility of polyamory occuring.)
-Polyamorous (and then you'd select how many partners the character is interested in having, or a "no limit" option.)
Its literally no different from having the "what genders will they date" option.
"But I like the cutscenes of them fighting over the person!" That could still happen, if the miis dislike each other, or one of them has the "closed monogamy" setting on.
(Also, it would be nice if the game had a "don't date this person" option in the "real life connection" settings, so you wouldn't have to make everyone you don't want to date into "family" and play mind games with the system to try and avoid unwanted partnering.)
And before you get on my ass about how this would be hard to program in the game now - I know. I'm talking about FUTURE representation. I'm talking about how nice it would be if games started to actually think about us! I know it's likely not even possible in the game with how it was programmed, but it would be WONDERFUL to be thought of in the future.
As other queer rights progress, people with non-monogamous orientations still get left in the dust.
The game has a lot of progress compared to its previous installments. I really appreciate that it allows you to make characters nonbinary and allows you to make characters gay, m-spec, and non-partnering. But there's still mononormativity and heteronormativity rooted that needs to be torn out from the ground, and there's still a limited perspective within the game of what it means to be non-binary, male, and female.
Other queer issues with the game:
1- You can only have a character be nonbinary in the creation menu. None of the babies of miis are nonbinary unless you edit their profiles - they reinforce the idea that everyone is born either a "girl" or "boy", and that non-binary is something that comes "later." And while that may be true for some enben, a lot of enben also feel they were *born* nonbinary!
2- All babies are born straight and gender conforming, unless edited in their mii menu.
3- When you select a mii as "male" it automatically selects their dating preferences as female, and vice versa for when you select a mii as female. When you select a mii as nonbinary, it leaves their dating preferences blank. Yes, you can change their dating preferences, but it's weird of them to have a heteronormative "default." Same thing happens with pronouns and clothes worn during events.
4- There's no ability to select multiple sets of pronouns. There's no it/its pronouns. And worst of all, there's no customizable pronouns! That especially pisses me off, because they literally have customizable sentences throughout the game! Its not unfounded for the games programming! How hard would it be to have a menu where you type three words (ie; xe/xem/xers) and it inputs the pronouns in the correct places? The game is so close already with the customized phrases!
5- You cannot select multiple genders for a character. You cannot make a character female and nonbinary, male and nonbinary, female & male & nonbinary, etc. I get that they probably did this because they wanted an easier time determining what characters would be attracted to who, but I pose that if a character is attracted to women, and another character has "woman" as one of their genders, let them get a crush! (Or if you're so worried about it, have it where only people attracted to both women & enben can get a crush on someone with both those options selected.)
6- There is no "don't date this person" option. They have tons of relative options (mom, dad, sibling, etc), and they obviously don't allow characters who are related to date each other, but there is no option that just says "don't date." I can't always set everyone as siblings or related, because sometimes that fucks up the family tree in ways where it won't let certain miis I *do* want to date to get together, because they become categorized as step/half siblings (ie; if I say person A is siblings to both person B and person C, because I don't want A to date either of them, B and C won't date each other because they think they're related.)
@thisisexorsexism @this-is-multigenderphobia
Thank you for the tag! Honestly, while I get all the points about how programming it might be difficult, but it's not unheard of. My first thought is a game in development by GB Patch, 'Our life: Now and Forever' that lets you choose what honourifics you want (miss, sir, mx, etc) and pronouns even letting you choose multiple and custom pronoun sets. And, quoting from their description of the game "Focus on only one of the leads or be fond of both, including the option for a polyamorous relationship.". And also, one of the leads is genderfluid! Granted, the game is made of choices that are completely up to you, so there's no like, developing crushes on their own which I think Tomodachi Life has, but Im not sure as Ive never played it. You can also just be friends and not date anyone, or not be close to any of the characters.
So it's definitely doable, and while I get the whold 'but if they're multigender how will the game know who they can be with', I really dont feel like it's that big an issue? Like, it reminds me of a conversation I had tried to explain that agender people could indeed date, and not having a gender doesnt mean no one can date them. As far as I know, tomodachi also lets you as the player decide to encourage or snuff ouf crushes right? So a character getting a crush on a character you dont want shouldn't be a big deal if you can simply tell them not to? But I genuinely dont know so feel free to correct me on this one.
Also about polyamoury, Paralives, which is a game in early access on steam did this well. They let you decide if the character is jealous if their significant other dates someone else or not. You could probably combine that with a max amount of partners the mii wants to be with, and you already got all the possible combinations op discussed + the not date anyone option.
Additionally, if a character can randomly be born a girl or a boy, then they can also randomly be born non binary. I was very much always non binary and I know others who experienced that as well. I assume they dont make a sex and gender distinction, which Id like to bring up, leaves intersex people in the dust.
Also, the idea of a type of relationship being inherently sexual is one of the main arguments against gay couples in public, because it's historically been seen as inherently sexual, so. And there are very much gay minors playing the game, so there are polyamorous ones.
Honestly, I dont expect any game to include the incredible multitude of our existence as living breathing beings. In most games characters cant be physically or mentally disabled for example, or Id struggle to imagine how one could make a functioning life simulator that includes systems for example, or even chronic pain, bc Ive never seen it before. But itd be nice to have a variety of games that include different things so that we arent left behind, and so that even if not every game has all those options, people can pick out games that do. I also think we have a right to discuss how things could be improved while recognising the progress made so far and the fact that a lot of the gender roles, sex, gender and amato-heteronormativity discussions may be discussed in the community but arent common knowledge outside of it and that makes it highly improbable to find in games. The association of girl/boy with certain pronouns could be discussed, but that doesn't take away from the fact that for most people, thinking that these things could be detached from each other is absurd or simply, news. Which *is* a way that gender roles and cissexism shows in society! And that does mean it takes time for people to realize, but that doesn't make it so we cant talk about it because otherwise we'd be 'asking too much' of others.
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