Feeder Personalities: Manipulative and enabling
One of my favourite feeder personality would be an overcaring and manipulative feeder. Someone who has just one goal in mind and that is slowly but surely fattening the feedee and increasing their dependency.
It would start with cooking only the most preferred food of the feedee in ever increasing portion sizes. Also every meal is being made continuously more rich in calories. Adding cream and butter where it isn't needed. Putting sugar into every drink. But it is important to slowly ramp up these unhealthy ingredients. When you do it to quickly the feedee might suspect what you are doing. If you are patient enough, the feedee will adapt to the unhealthy slop.
Keeping your feedee lazy and inactive stops them from burning all those precious calories! Those calories are being put to a much better use when being transformed into even more fat. So naturally you want that your feedee does not take any steps, no going out, no shutting the windows, no finding the remote or their phone, no nothing really. If you can, just do it for the feedee and say they shouldn't stress themself so much. The main goal is for the feedee to live a much simpler and almost boring life. That creates a lot of unproductive freetime where the feedee may snack and stuff themselves. Also when your feedee is to lazy to do the tedious task of putting more food in their mouth, just give them a helping hand.
Strategic snack placements
This one may seem very self explanatory, but it takes a lot of effort. Your feedee may move around (hopefully not so much) and must be reminded what kind of treats are available. So just start the day by preparing multiple bowls with chocolate bars, cookies, muffins and other sweets. Then you place one bowl where you suspect your feedee will lounge around. For example the couch, the bed, the kitchen and if you are really ambitious the bathroom. Nothing beats eating before you take a shower. Bonus Points when you carefully arrange the sweet treats so that they are nice to look at. Also always take off the wrapper of everything! Your feedee should not be wasting time by unwrapping, they need to eat as fast as possible.
Well before your feedee is too fat for clothes, you need to gain control over their wardrobe. Always buy wider clothes for your feedee to grow into. You don't want your feedee in too tight clothes (except if it turns you on obviously). Tight clothes are a steadily reminder that they are getting fat. They don't need to think, they need to grow. Ofcourse you can keep all the old and much too tight clothes. Nothing is better than a feedee who is forced to squeeze into their old shirts.
This is a big one. When your feedee is independent they have choices. We can't have that. There should only be one choice for your feedee and that is staying with you. Ofcourse staying with you means getting fatter and fatter. So how can someone increase the dependency? There are different kinds of dependencies. Lets start with the most obvious one:
You need to fast track your feedee towards food addiction. The best way to do so is increasing the food intake and drastically change the feedees diet. Your feedee should always aim to eat a little bit more, therefore stretching the stomach. A bigger stomach means more food can be devoured and it also makes the feedee much more hungry. A diet consisting of only fatty and sugary foods is the best way to not only blow up their waistline but also keep them coming back for more. The human body craves the most unhealthy slop. The next dependency to talk about should be:
To take even more control over your feedee, you should try to provide as much as possible. I know it is not easy in our economy but it is always something to strive for. Ideally your feedee should work less or not work at all -> more time for them to stuff themselves and also they can't leave you since you provide food and shelter. When you feedee is uncooperative you can pressure them by saying: "There is no one to fall back on, they have nowhere else to live and they can't even buy food"
Maybe your feedee is financially dependent on you, but you should also be the only source of human connection too. No friends, no family, no contact to any other people, they only belong to you. So if you ignore them they have no one to talk to. It is essential for everyone to speak to others. You are the only source and therefore you can leverage that to your advantage. When your feedee gains enough you may be affirmative and encouraging, but if your feedee is stuck up you are going to leave them alone with all their fat.
This one is pretty obvious but maybe the most important. Even so important that it gets its own subpoint with "Rewards and goals".
Finally the most important topic. Set certain rewards and goals for your feedee involving a lot of teasing. You should absolutly withhold sex if your feedee hasn't digested a given amount of food. Set a goal of 10000 kcal for the entire day. Your feedee should really be pushed to their limit if they really want you. If they are already huge, you can obviously up the calorie count by a massive amount.
If your feedee is binging like a pig you should gently touch their sensitive body. Squeeze and rub their soft belly and hips. Carress their back, make them feel loved. And instantly stop when they stop eating.
Always dangle the possibility of sexual relief infront of your feedee. They only have to keep eating for you and maybe just maybe you help them out. Say: "maybe you can cum if you just eat one more cake or just chug one more shake, but only if you are quick enough!"