AllSoft&Round

My favorite personality for a feedee would be the "people pleaser". Someone who can't say no, can set no boundaries, and whose only goal in life is to please others. Their needs and concerns are not important. They will give up everything just to see their feeder smile. Such a feedee is the perfect partner for a truly demonic feeder. Someone who has no morals, no empathy, and is completely controlled by their lust for fattening their prey until they can't escape.

The feedee can't say no:

If their feeder says "eat," they will eat, no matter how full they feel. What the feeder wants, goes. It is just another bite, just another snack, and just another shake. Saying no is not an option for the feedee because they absolutely hate confrontation. They can't communicate their own needs and wants. The feeder knows this and can fully lean into it. When the feedee is hesitant, the only thing the feeder needs to do is say that they don't feel listened to, and then they ignore the feedee. This behavior deeply saddens the feedee, and they will do anything to reverse the situation. So, the feedee will just keep on eating and get fatter and fatter.

The feedee has no boundaries:

Due to the fear of disapproval, the feedee would never completely turn down any request from a feeder. Maybe they are reluctant at first, but deep down, they know they have no choice. The feeder can slowly escalate the intensity of the fattening.

First, bigger portion sizes and more frequent meals are necessary. Increasing stomach capacity and slowing down the metabolism is important. Gaining weight is greatly appreciated, but at this stage, it is not the main goal.

The next step will take a lot longer. Meals will be more and more unhealthy, fat and sugar percentages will be greatly increased. Weight-gain shakes are used to fill every last crevice of the feedee's stomach. The permanent fullness also helps to keep the feedee from moving, which is a nice little extra.

The final step is to reach for the stars. Like a bodybuilder, the feedee is encouraged to compete with the best of the best. Now it is time to truly push the limits of what the human body can handle. Their final weight should at least be in the top 10 of the heaviest humans to ever live, but maybe they can take first place if they are really lucky.

The feedee's only goal in life is to please others:

How do you know that you have pleased the people around you? Simple: you will be validated for meeting certain criteria. Well, if the only people around you are feeders and fat admirers, then the criteria are quite clear. A bigger number on the scale, more calories consumed per day, and moving as little as possible are a good place to start.

The need for approval is so essential for the feedee that their health, mobility, and quality of life do not matter anymore. More and more of the most fattening and unhealthy food imaginable will dominate the diet of the feedee. When they balloon past 600 pounds, their movement will be very limited. They will exist either on the couch or in bed. This goes on and on until there are only three things left in the life of the feedee:

What would the last days of a feedee look like? Like torture, inhuman suffering, total loss of control, a warm sense of security, absolute bliss, heaven or hell? The answer is all of it.

Just picture an immobile feedee fattened well over 1000 pounds. Sweaty all over, hooked to an oxygen tank and so so so hungry all of the time.

The whole room is kept barely lit, all windows covered, no clocks to be found and no noise to be heard. A place totally disconnected from time. The feedee is being held in a comatose state of mind.

A feeding tube permantly locked in place inside the stomach. A never ending supply of weightgain shakes. A caring feeder, who does what is necessary to keep this going.

Two whole gallons of weightgain shake are slowly rolled into the room. The feeder lifts them of the cart and plunges the thick liquid into the funnel suspended above the feedees head. The feedee moans as this vile concoction of fat and sugar rushes into the stomach. The enourmes layers of fat are pressing down on the feedee, while the painfully extended stomach expands from within. This combination instantly triggers a food coma and the feedee drifts of into unconsciousness. Their feeder pleased with the result retreats into the kitchen preparing the next batch of shakes. This process is repeated multiple times troughout the day. The feedee never knows what time it is and how much they already consumed. As soon as they wake from their food coma, the next batch of shake is funneled down their throat. The only "sleep" they get is when they are forced into a coma.

Been stuffing myself lately. I just love how soft and fluffy my belly is becoming. Such a unique and nice feeling.

Squish

Squish Squish

In regular intervals you need to increase your stomach capacity. A larger stomach means you can devour more food and be hungry all the time. A normal stomach can hold up to 35 oz or 1 liter of food. That is way to small, tiny even. Your goal should be to reach a capacity of 1 gallon or 4 liters. Just think about it, how much you could stuff down your throat and still feel the need to eat more. You could easily eat 4 pizzas or 10 burgers, wait an hour or two and then do it again. You desperately try to fill your stomach and feel the mind numbing fullness you love so much. But that is a thing of the past. You are too far gone. Now you are nothing more than a bottomless pit with an unstoppable appetite. You will grow and grow and grow. You are no longer in control. The size of your stomach seals your fate, there is no turning back. Want to know why? Once your stomach is stretched to an absurd capacity it will not turn back to normal. This change is permanent and also the best way to ensure you will end up an immobile blob.

So the only question left is how do you increase the size of your stomach the fastest. Obviously you should overeat as often as possible but you have to do more than that. First you should build up hunger. Do not eat anything for breakfast. Your stomach needs to be empty and you should feel ravenous. Prepare the biggest feast of your life and don't hold back with anything. Bring all the fast food you can find, the more fattening the better. You will also need a huge amount of liquids. Soft drinks and Milk can be favourable for a start, but later you should definitely get heavy cream and gainer shakes. Finally you can give in and just stuff yourself full. Cram as much as you can inside you. After consuming all the food your stomach is painfully full. But you are not done yet. Now it is time to fill every last crevice of your stomach with the liquids at hand. Really push youself! You have to ignore the pain and drink up until you are unable to move or to think.

Being a feeder and being sadistic is just a perfect combination. The complete disregard of empathy towards the feedee is the missing puzzle piece to create the most overweight blob of a human being imaginable. The more fat the better, right?

Numbers

Keeping track of the inhuman progress your feedee is making is the perfect indicator of your wreckening. Most important is ofcourse the weight. You should set a goal weight that is mind boggling to reach. Your feedee should rival the fattest humans that ever existed. Over 1000 pounds seems to be doable, so set a goal that is beyond that. 1500 pounds or even 2000 pounds sounds much more enticing.

But weight isn't the only number. There are several regarding the feedees health. Less health means more suffering and that is exactly what we are looking for. When your feedees weight spirals out of control health problems are inevitable. So also keep track of the blood sugar and always keep it above 200 ml/dL after each meal. And don't forget to inject insulin to turn that sugar into more fat. Cholesterol of a normal person is under 200 mg/dL. Your feedee on the other hand should be exposed to 250 mg/dL constantly. Clog their arteries and give them chest pains. Last but not least hypertension is very erotic. Their heart is constantly fighting to support all the excess fat. Just imagine the heart engulfed in soft fat, way larger than any normal heart and constantly pumping harder and harder. Naturally a good feedee should suffer from atleast Stage 2 Hypertension (140/90 mmHg).

Physical decline of the feedee

There is nothing spreading more joy than watching your feedee physically deteriorate. Their movement becomes slow and sluggish until they don't move at all. They are completly immobilized by their growing addiction. Even the slightest movement brings them to the edge of what they can handle. Their fat rolls drenched in sweat, their lungs gasping for air and their heart pumping like no tomorrow.

Force feeding

But an immobile blob does not form overnight. It takes a lot of effort and a lot of calories to create such a monster. Luckily you have no morales and want it so badly you would do anything. It does not matter if the feedee wants to eat or asks you kindly to stop. You will do anything necessary to achieve the best results. Force feeding should be done as often as possible and to an ever increasing degree of depravity. First you start of with grabbing all left over food and stuffing it into the feedees mouth. Tell them to swallow faster over and over again. If they refuse just pinch their nose shut. They will be gasping for air soon and open their mouth again. Thats when you strike and push more food down their greedy hole. Can we do more than that, ofcourse! So lets step this up a bit shall we?

Funnel feeding would be an even faster way to fill your feedee up with calories. Mix up the most vile fattening concoction you can come up with. Heavy cream, butter, coconut oil, olive oil, weight gain powder, cake mix anything goes really. Just make sure it slides down the funnel well for optimal feeding speed. If it goes quick and easy your feedee will be consuming more of it. If you really want to up the ante, your feedee has to swallow the tube first. But be careful this has to be done right. If the tube goes down to the lungs, your feedee might drown. Ofcourse the tube should go down to the stomach. So why should you do this? It is simple really. If the feedee can't taste the never ending stream of fattening liquid their brain won't register that they are being filled to the brim. So more and more liquid can easily be administered.

Punishment

What would sadism be without punishment? You should create a whole list of different kind of punishments fit to train your feedee. When your feedee does not meet your expectations, they deserve to be punished. They need to feel what happens when they disappoint you. Withholding sex and attention is one thing. But I am speaking about physical punishment.

If your feedee does not eat or moves when it isn't necessary, you should slap their belly as hard as you can. Leave bright red marks all over them. It needs to hurt to have an effect, so give it all you got.

Also squeeze their fat tight. Really dig your nails into the soft squishy fat. Make them realize you can do whatever you want and the only way to stop you from doing so is to keep eating.

I know telling your feedee to move is counterproductive but as a punishment it can be excused. When your feedee is filled tight and near a food coma tell them to stand up and waddle towards you. You want to see their effort, their struggle, their fatigue. Oh, you want them to realize how fucked they are. And maybe just maybe their piggy brain realizes that movement hurts and they will never move again.

One of my favourite feeder personality would be an overcaring and manipulative feeder. Someone who has just one goal in mind and that is slowly but surely fattening the feedee and increasing their dependency.

Cooking

It would start with cooking only the most preferred food of the feedee in ever increasing portion sizes. Also every meal is being made continuously more rich in calories. Adding cream and butter where it isn't needed. Putting sugar into every drink. But it is important to slowly ramp up these unhealthy ingredients. When you do it to quickly the feedee might suspect what you are doing. If you are patient enough, the feedee will adapt to the unhealthy slop.

Nurturing

Keeping your feedee lazy and inactive stops them from burning all those precious calories! Those calories are being put to a much better use when being transformed into even more fat. So naturally you want that your feedee does not take any steps, no going out, no shutting the windows, no finding the remote or their phone, no nothing really. If you can, just do it for the feedee and say they shouldn't stress themself so much. The main goal is for the feedee to live a much simpler and almost boring life. That creates a lot of unproductive freetime where the feedee may snack and stuff themselves. Also when your feedee is to lazy to do the tedious task of putting more food in their mouth, just give them a helping hand.

Strategic snack placements

This one may seem very self explanatory, but it takes a lot of effort. Your feedee may move around (hopefully not so much) and must be reminded what kind of treats are available. So just start the day by preparing multiple bowls with chocolate bars, cookies, muffins and other sweets. Then you place one bowl where you suspect your feedee will lounge around. For example the couch, the bed, the kitchen and if you are really ambitious the bathroom. Nothing beats eating before you take a shower. Bonus Points when you carefully arrange the sweet treats so that they are nice to look at. Also always take off the wrapper of everything! Your feedee should not be wasting time by unwrapping, they need to eat as fast as possible.

Clothing sizes

Well before your feedee is too fat for clothes, you need to gain control over their wardrobe. Always buy wider clothes for your feedee to grow into. You don't want your feedee in too tight clothes (except if it turns you on obviously). Tight clothes are a steadily reminder that they are getting fat. They don't need to think, they need to grow. Ofcourse you can keep all the old and much too tight clothes. Nothing is better than a feedee who is forced to squeeze into their old shirts.

Dependency

This is a big one. When your feedee is independent they have choices. We can't have that. There should only be one choice for your feedee and that is staying with you. Ofcourse staying with you means getting fatter and fatter. So how can someone increase the dependency? There are different kinds of dependencies. Lets start with the most obvious one:

Addiction

You need to fast track your feedee towards food addiction. The best way to do so is increasing the food intake and drastically change the feedees diet. Your feedee should always aim to eat a little bit more, therefore stretching the stomach. A bigger stomach means more food can be devoured and it also makes the feedee much more hungry. A diet consisting of only fatty and sugary foods is the best way to not only blow up their waistline but also keep them coming back for more. The human body craves the most unhealthy slop. The next dependency to talk about should be:

Finance

To take even more control over your feedee, you should try to provide as much as possible. I know it is not easy in our economy but it is always something to strive for. Ideally your feedee should work less or not work at all -> more time for them to stuff themselves and also they can't leave you since you provide food and shelter. When you feedee is uncooperative you can pressure them by saying: "There is no one to fall back on, they have nowhere else to live and they can't even buy food"

Human connections

Maybe your feedee is financially dependent on you, but you should also be the only source of human connection too. No friends, no family, no contact to any other people, they only belong to you. So if you ignore them they have no one to talk to. It is essential for everyone to speak to others. You are the only source and therefore you can leverage that to your advantage. When your feedee gains enough you may be affirmative and encouraging, but if your feedee is stuck up you are going to leave them alone with all their fat.

Sex

This one is pretty obvious but maybe the most important. Even so important that it gets its own subpoint with "Rewards and goals".

Rewards and goals

Finally the most important topic. Set certain rewards and goals for your feedee involving a lot of teasing. You should absolutly withhold sex if your feedee hasn't digested a given amount of food. Set a goal of 10000 kcal for the entire day. Your feedee should really be pushed to their limit if they really want you. If they are already huge, you can obviously up the calorie count by a massive amount.

Touching

If your feedee is binging like a pig you should gently touch their sensitive body. Squeeze and rub their soft belly and hips. Carress their back, make them feel loved. And instantly stop when they stop eating.

Edging

Hi there, I am a chubby guy from Germany. I really enjoy being fat. More a feedee than a feeder. I'm into soft and dark feederism. Looking to chat about this fetish and swap fantasies. DMs are Open.

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