You mind if I pick your brain for a sec? Yeah, there are people badmouthing feedism. What is even more detrimental to people's health? The following:
- Sedentary lifestyle.
- Tobacco usage (whether it's chewing, smoking, vaping, etc.).
- Excessive alcohol or caffeine consumption.
- Recreational drug use.
- Sleep deprivation.
I question if the critics of feedism consider those issues at all. At least in some cases, I doubt it. What say you?
I totally agree! I think a lot of it is fatphobia, but also the inability to understand kink and anything that is “outside” of your own way of life.
Feedism is about consent, it’s about autonomy over our bodies, it’s about expressing ourselves in the way we see fit!
People see all feedism as coercive and it’s always the hot button topics like death feedism that get the most attention. I can say for all the people I’ve met in the community, none of us are being coerced or forced to do anything, we are all glad to be here. We have had this fetish our whole lives and it’s been insanely isolating and shameful. That’s why it’s so important to find community and break the isolation - realize you have nothing to be ashamed of and you are completely justified in loving what you love!
On the topic of death feedism - for 90% of people it’s just a fantasy. It’s something that’s hot to roleplay or think about, but not actually something they are aiming for. But for the 10% of people who are really serious about achieving it, who are you to tell someone what to do with their body and life? If someone is making the conscious decision to go down that path, then what is really the problem? It may seem like extreme because IT IS EXTREME. That is kink. It doesn’t always fit in a perfect box you can put on the shelf and forget about when you see fit.
Those are just my ramblings.