[moving stones and happiness]

love the word “rapscallion”. like not only are you a rascal but you’re also kind of spring onion about it too

problematic sudoku solving skills gap

what should I listen to

women

the beatles. the monkees. gorillaz. there is a pattern here and it's that these men do not know how to spell animals

And you do indeed look very cool and powerful playing Beyblade

movies are literally good. or bad sometimes. depending

it’s frustrating when you’re talking about an inherently oppressive institution that dehumanizes everyone who is subjected to it and someone is like “it’s especially bad for those it is incorrectly applied to!” as though being the intended victim of an injustice makes it less of a tragedy

been thinking about this lately after some discussions about historical marriage where people have chimed in about how extra awful it would have been for trans men forced into The Wife Role because of dysphoria. which like. yeah. but the thing about The Wife Role in the context of not having civil rights and being the property of a husband is that it is inherently dysphoria-inducing to anyone who identifies as a human being instead of an object.

when you have a hammer everything looks like a guy you could kill with a hammer

Just saw my doctor type "FUCKED FOR LIFE" on my chart then he turned the screen away and stopped making eye contact with me

Not that I think all marriages are doomed but when deciding who to marry you should ask yourself “is this someone I’d want to divorce?” As in, is this someone I believe would be mature and fair, even when they’re upset and don’t particularly like me at the moment. Is this someone I could continue to trust while going through an adversarial process? And if the answer is no, don’t marry them.