You ever think about how old people have no idea what āsurvivor biasā is, and take full credit for being excellent out of things where they lucked out?
āBack in my day we didnāt have any of these childhood protective things, we were smart enough not to do stupid shit on our own!ā
Except your little neighbour, who got the funniest idea at the age of seven, and got his skull pierced when he slipped?
āBack in my day nobody got divorced, we stuck together and fixed our problems!ā
What about your cousin, who was slowly killed by her husband because she had nowhere to escape him?
āBack in my day nobody had āmental problemsā, we didnāt whine, we just toughed it out and endured life!ā
Hey remember that guy you used to work with, who seemed really friendly and normal, and then suddenly hanged himself āfor no reasonā?
āBack in my day we didnāt have any of this āgayā or ātransgenderā thing.ā
You did, but your family cut all ties with her before you were born.
Ā You kinda start seeing it in everything they think, if you start looking for it.