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we have very fast, very associative minds that connect ideas. we have a train of thought, it just goes WAY faster than yours!

example: im thinking about dogs. that makes me think of pitbulls, which makes me think of an animal planet show i enjoy. the show connects to tv in general, which makes me think of my favorite cartoon. i associate my favorite cartoon with art and animation, and i wind up thinking about shading techniques.

Yeah.

Let that sink in.

It drives my husband absolutely NUTS- we’ll be having a conversation and in a lull between sentences I’ll have jumped ahead six topics, pop back in with a “Yeah, and-“

It fit's on so many levels: Sometimes you feel utterly beyond your potential because you can't utilize that speed because the way is to curvy so you have to manually push that car.

Sometimes you will have a stretch where you really can use your car and others will feel left behind and demand of you going slower (while also complaining that you are too slow when you can't use your speed) and you'll wonder what the heck is wrong with your car, everybody else seems to work the same, maybe at a much lower top speed, but why are their cars much more reliable than yours?

It might be after years of powering through that your Ferrari is so scratched and dented that no one is able to see that it is one and you start yourself that you have an utterly broken car that won't bring you anywhere. But it will never stop being a Ferrari and there will be times we're you just say screw it and hop in and drive, because it's fun to drive at full speed.

- it doesn’t do anything

- its a waste of plastic

- how do you pay attention in class

- it makes so much noise (it doesn’t make any noise, they just saw i had it in my hand)

- at least my fidget spinner actually does stuff (my toy does 6 different things. also they got their fidget spinner taken the same day)

- its gay (creative)

things my friends with adhd/autism have said after using my fidget toy:

- oh my god

- its so…. Good

- i could actually pay attention to shit in class

- where can i buy this???

- wait there’s More stuff like this

He hasn’t put it down. 

Everyday since he got it, I’ve seen him with it. He holds it in his pocket, and hasn’t climbed on a table or cussed at a teacher since. 

BUT

There are at least 20 other kids in our school who bring fidget spinners and play with them out on the table during lessons. They don’t pay attention in class, and they disrupt other students’ learning. These are not students with adhd or anxiety, these are students who are just playing because they’re kids and that’s what kids do. 

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- Same wages and career opportunities as an equally qualified man

- That everything associated with females is not always considered somehow inferior

- Representation in media that goes beyond a role that is either a positively portrayed example of serving a guy's needs (sexually, emotionally or as something the guy either wants to win, or avenge the loosing of) or depicting any women with a significant amount of power or sexuality as evil and/or highly unsympathetic

- That guys actually care enough to learn about female anatomy to learn that woman's parts are not inherently icky and that their wiener does not dish out the same amount of pleasure it receives.

- Not only pockets, but clothing and shoes that are comfortable to wear and look nice on a normal body, instead of only on a clothes hanger or some anorexic mannequin. Also clothes in games that are actually plausible, offer the same amount of protection like a male variant and don't have random cutouts or boob-cups that direct hits to her sternum instead of away from her vitals.

- Actually it boils down to be treated like an equal human. (I deliberately don't say men here, because there are a few things only women need and also some things only man need. Equal treatment does not mean treating everyone like the favored gender but instead according to their actual abilities and needs.)