紅蓮の狂炎よ、我が血潮となれ!

We're getting there little by little, sure. But it's a road.

If you don't already know you have issues doing so, squat down real quick. Bend your knees all the way and touch the floor. Just make sure you can do it. Okay? For me? And then stand up all the way and make sure you can balance on one foot.

If there was ever a tumblr post worth sending to your mom, it's this one.

that being said. can we not erase the fact the entire conversation began with disabled people talking about being medically abused pretty please. & also, iirc the post that first really blew up about "mean girl nurses" never said "ALL nurses are evil bitches who hate everyone and they deserve to be mistreated" it was saying "women who sought power over other people in high school go into careers where they can wield power over other people, same as men, and there are women who go into nursing and present themselves as kind and caring and maternal, who are motivated by a desire to have unquestioned authority over other people's bodies to make themselves feel powerful, again, same as men who do the same things in masculinized careers." & i just find it "interesting" how all that has been reduced down to "all nurses are mean girls")

i think nuance is always important & doctors and nurses do need better treatment and society frequently praises them while also supporting their abuse. and yet they are also universally recognized as vital important members of society & empowered to have immense control over the lives of people who are systemically vulnerable and seen as leeches who add nothing to society. and yet who has to deal with the impacts of their stress and their trauma and their anger and their burnout? the disabled people under their care.

again. Nuance! but i just cannot help but Side Eye In Cripple some things people say on this topic. it can both be true that nurses (& doctors) experience horrible working conditions and that, in my opinion, that any conversation about burnout and abuse of medical professionals needs to also criticize the authoritarianism of the medical field and how widespread medical neglect and abuse is, lest we simply fall back into "the poor beleagured doctor who is Jesus Christ On The Cross Himself, all-wise and all-knowing and forced to tolerate all these entitled know-it-all ungrateful patients!" which changes nothing for anyone.

like. look at this article. the actual context for the "mean girl to nurse pipeline" (that some women seek out power over people to control them and make themselves feel bigger, and women are likely to do this through caretaking in the role of nurse, teacher, mother, etc.) is not brought up at all. the fixation is entirely on "its mean to call nurses mean girls! they experience a lot of bullying! you don't REALLY know any mean nurses, just poor tired bullied ones!"

First, the phrase itself is unfair to women. Although nursing is a female-dominated field, this phrase focuses on women as being the “mean” ones to worry about.

like. do youuuu fucking see the erasure of medical abuse. the actual bullshit nurses do to real living human beings, which goes massively under-reported. & not just disabled people but people of color as well. god fucking forbid medical professionals are treated as anything but literal saints descended from heaven. god forbid white cisgender women are recognized to have the ability to be cruel and power-hungry and to hurt other people through traditionally feminine roles based on caretaking. like I genuinely do understand that nurses are subject to immense stress, bullying, and violence, and that providing better working conditions for nurses is vital to improving medical treatment for all patients.

but when the actual neglect and abuse nurses can do to their patients is ignored and drops out of the conversation entirely, in the name of complaining about nurses being called "mean"? sorry but it pisses me the fuck off.

(links to some sources on patient abuse under the cut since this is long enough as is)

#m.#reminds me of how the pitt has several scenes i remember being like.#whyyyy are we making so many jokes about drug addicts and mentally ill people and their distress guys 😀#like that one fucking scene of the one doctor berating a drug user for no goddamn reason but it portrays her as#righteous because He Lied For Drugs (literally no way for him to be honest with you)#lying to HIM about giving him a drug that CAN MAKE YOU GO INTO WITHDRAWAL IF YOU TAKE ANY OTHER OPIATES WITH IT (suboxone i think)#WITHOUT TELLING HIM!!!!!!!!!! MASSIVE massive violation of patient autonomy and SAFETY. since she LIED about what drug it was#and the man HIMSELF clearly wanted opiates so he wouldnt be in withdrawal for his daughters wedding#and then she. berates him? for not caring about his daughter???????#and no one seems to be annoyed at this scene but me a fucking pparently#because it was the sweet nice doctor and its her fucking character development to be cruel towards a drug user for doing literally nothing#except trying to seek the care he needed to live his life in the way he knew how#and ofc they presented it as ''well maybe when hes ready he'll get clean now that you were a jerk to him :)''#she shouldve been fucking berated for that. they shouldve had a whole scene telling her how big of a fuckup that was#but nooooo its her cute little character development moment#idc get that poor man some methadone and TELL HIM HOW IT WORKS

It is shocking how recent the idea that "people have the right to decide what medical care they do or don't want" is. The whole modern medical system in the US, for example, was built with the presupposition that doctors give instructions to nurses and patients, nurses follow those instructions and give instructions to patients, and patients do exactly what they're told and be thankful for it. Hell, the Tuskegee "Experiment" didn't officially end until 1972 and the ADA was only passed in 1990. The present day system is the culmination of literal centuries of medical abuse of vulnerable people, and the ways in which the system has improved has been through the ongoing struggles against it by those it abuses. And this is not unique to the US by any measure, just the one whose history I know best.

Lying to patients? It's for their own good.

Giving them a medication without telling them what it is? It's for their own good.

Having a patient imprisoned committed institutionalized against their will? It's for their own good.

Berating a fat patient for existing? Drug users for using drugs? Patients with disabilities needing (legally mandated) accommodations? It's for their own good.

We're only just now starting to grapple with the vast number of people who have been traumatized by the medical system. The last estimates I saw we're around 12% of patients exhibit symptoms consistent with PTSD related to experiences with the medical system, and that number rises sharply for patients of color (especially black patients), disabled and chronically ill patients, fat patients, LGBTQ+ patients, and basically any other marginalized group. Some doctors and nurses have worked intentionally to try to address and mitigate their biases, in many places the number of medical professionals who are themselves members of these groups has been increasing, but the vast majority just never even consider that they could be harming their patients. Like, for fucks sakes, it's 2026 and research is still finding that a substantial portion of graduating medical students still believe that black people have thicker skin and higher pain tolerance (or even can't experience pain at all!?!) and that women are more likely to exaggerate their pain and other symptoms.

HIGHLY recommend checking out the episode (or read the transcript) "The Cop Baked In" from the podcast Crackdown (a journalist podcast about drug use activism in Canada, hosted by drug user and activist & which interviews many drug users). The episode is about Suboxone and one woman, Reija Jean's, experience with it.

Suboxone has naloxone in it, which means it prevents people from actually experiencing a high, and it can cause precipitated withdrawal if you use other opiates with it, or if its taken too soon after using full agonist opiates. The podcast goes into the really fucked up ways that Suboxone is held up as the "better drug" for opiate addiction and the existence of "Suboxone privilege" in comparison to methadone, which does allow for euphoric feelings and is also extremely heavily controlled to the extent of being burdensome for many people to take, and methadone users are stigmatized for "not getting better" i.e not having the goal of, or ability to, stop using opiates entirely.

Reija found Suboxone wasn't meeting her needs but was pushed to stay on it because it was "her chance to get better." So she started using other opiates alongside it to get the effect she needed:

Eventually, Reija’s taking Suboxone every morning and topping up with down every night. Sometimes this feels great. Other times it causes a storm of sickness and anxiety. We started to call this “the cop baked in” effect. Reija Jean: The drug is sorta fighting the fentanyl for your receptors right? The “cop” is fighting the “evil” drug for your receptors. And I can feel that fight. My body starts to feel that fight. Garth Mullins: What does it feel like? Reija Jean: It feels like… the most horrible anxiety attack that you can imagine. Like, it’s like my body starts to sweat. My face is completely wet. I get that prickly kinda tingly feeling all over my body. It’s almost like early withdrawal, kind of, but it comes on so suddenly. And it’s just this feeling of like dread and doom. And your body feels like it’s in resistance to something. But you really just want to relax — I really just want to relax — and I can’t. And even if I try to take more… um, smoke more fentanyl – off a foil, for example – that doesn’t seem to make it go away.

^ so that is the kind of experience one can have when knowingly taking opiates alongside Suboxone, on purpose. and in the Pitt that man was just gonna walk out of the ER not knowing he was taking Suboxone. and also, not told he had any other options beside Suboxone.

Literally, in that episode, they could've had Mohan say "hey, these are your options for drugs that can help you avoid withdrawal, these are the various pros and cons, I see you clearly want to be there for your daughter." The man wouldn't have needed to lie to get opiates if he could just be fucking honest about why he needed them. (And I forgot to mention but also, when the man in question rightfully tells Mohan "screw this hospital and screw you" after finding out she lied to him about the drug she gave him, Dr. Robby gets pissed off at him??? Like no FUCK Mohan. With a capital F. She's a big girl, she can take a patient being rightfully anxious and upset at the situation SHE put him in where SHE has all the power).

This other episode of the Crackdown, "Change Intolerance" (transcript, and the second part) also discusses how the Canadian government fucks around with medications like methadone at a whim (the whim is money btw), which genuinely got one of the members of Crackdown's board killed. So much of addiction treatment is about managing the icky feelings of non-addicts and especially governmental officials, and not actually meeting people's needs and empowering them. Suboxone is "good" because it allows for the control of addicts from within their own bodies, and again, other medications which many might prefer are far more gatekept "for their own good."

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