For everybody:

1. Are you a: gainer, encourager, mutual gainer or all of the above? 2. Sexuality? 3. Are you on grommr, fantasy feeder or feabie? 4. What made you start a gaining tumblr? 5. Tumblr crushes? 6. Best gaining and FA blogs on tumblr? 7. Are you in a relationship? If yes is it a feederism relationship?   8. What did you think about your “urges” before you discovered that gaining was a thing (we’ve all been there) 9. What do you like most about this community? 10. What do you hate most about this community? 11. What is your earliest memory about this scene? 12. What is your weirdest memory about this scene?

For gainers:

13. Are you now or have you been actively gaining before? 14. How long have you been actively gaining? 15. What is your current weight? 16. What are you current measurements? 17. What size clothes you’re wearing? 18. What is your goal in gaining (physically)? 19. When it comes to relationships you prefer: a thin encourager, a fat encourager or another gainer? 20. When it comes to encouragers do you prefer: forceful, pushy, teasing, handsy, romantic, submissive, good cook? (multiple options are permitted) 21. Would you date a civilian? If so would you tell him about you gaining wishes? 22. Have you had casual feeding sessions? Would you like to (or more)? 23. Being fed by another person or nom by yourself? 24. Eating while fucking (or being fucked)? 25. Forcefeeding? 26. Being teased? 27. Being humiliated? 28. Being worshipped? 29. Bossing around an “obliging” encourager? 30. Are you: Dominant, submissive, switch or doesn’t apply? 31. Your biggest fantasy gaining wise? 32. Your most intense fantasy gaining wise? Would you like to go for it IRL? 33. What is something you think you did right when it comes to your gaining lifestyle? 34. What is something you think you did wrong when it comes to your gaining lifestyle? 35. Describe your perfect partner in 3 to 5 sentences.

For Encouragers:

36. Are you now or have you been actively encouraging anybody before? 37. For how long? 38. What is your goal in gaining (physically)? 39. When it comes to relationships you prefer: an already obese person, a new gainer or it doesn’t matter? 40. When it comes to gainers do you prefer: Dominant, shameless, proud, submissive, romantic, a lifter or shy? (multiple options are permitted) 41. Would you consider fattening up an unsuspecting partner who’s not into gaining? 42. Would you consider gaining for your partner? 43. Would you date a civilian? If so would you tell him about you feederism wishes? 44. Have you had casual feeding sessions? Would you like to (or more)? 45. Feeding someone or let him nom by himself? 46. Feeding while fucking (or being fucked)? 47. Forcefeeding? 48. Teasing a fatty? 49. Humiliating a fatty? 50. Worshipping a fatty? 51. Serving a bossy gainer? 52. Are you: Dominant, submissive, switch or doesn’t apply? 53. Your biggest fantasy that related to feederism? 54. Your most intense fantasy related to feederism? Would you like to go for it IRL? 55. What is something you think you did right when it comes to your feederism lifestyle? 56. What is something you think you did wrong when it comes to your feederism lifestyle? 57. Describe your perfect partner in 3 to 5 sentences.

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For everybody:

1. Are you a: gainer, encourager, mutual gainer or all of the above? 2. Sexuality? 3. Are you on grommr, fantasy feeder or feabie? 4. What made you start a gaining tumblr? 5. Tumblr crushes? 6. Best gaining and FA blogs on tumblr? 7. Are you in a relationship? If yes is it a feederism relationship?   8. What did you think about your “urges” before you discovered that gaining was a thing (we’ve all been there) 9. What do you like most about this community? 10. What do you hate most about this community? 11. What is your earliest memory about this scene? 12. What is your weirdest memory about this scene?

For gainers:

13. Are you now or have you been actively gaining before? 14. How long have you been actively gaining? 15. What is your current weight? 16. What are you current measurements? 17. What size clothes you’re wearing? 18. What is your goal in gaining (physically)? 19. When it comes to relationships you prefer: a thin encourager, a fat encourager or another gainer? 20. When it comes to encouragers do you prefer: forceful, pushy, teasing, handsy, romantic, submissive, good cook? (multiple options are permitted) 21. Would you date a civilian? If so would you tell him about you gaining wishes? 22. Have you had casual feeding sessions? Would you like to (or more)? 23. Being fed by another person or nom by yourself? 24. Eating while fucking (or being fucked)? 25. Forcefeeding? 26. Being teased? 27. Being humiliated? 28. Being worshipped? 29. Bossing around an “obliging” encourager? 30. Are you: Dominant, submissive, switch or doesn’t apply? 31. Your biggest fantasy gaining wise? 32. Your most intense fantasy gaining wise? Would you like to go for it IRL? 33. What is something you think you did right when it comes to your gaining lifestyle? 34. What is something you think you did wrong when it comes to your gaining lifestyle? 35. Describe your perfect partner in 3 to 5 sentences.

For Encouragers:

36. Are you now or have you been actively encouraging anybody before? 37. For how long? 38. What is your goal in gaining (physically)? 39. When it comes to relationships you prefer: an already obese person, a new gainer or it doesn’t matter? 40. When it comes to gainers do you prefer: Dominant, shameless, proud, submissive, romantic, a lifter or shy? (multiple options are permitted) 41. Would you consider fattening up an unsuspecting partner who’s not into gaining? 42. Would you consider gaining for your partner? 43. Would you date a civilian? If so would you tell him about you feederism wishes? 44. Have you had casual feeding sessions? Would you like to (or more)? 45. Feeding someone or let him nom by himself? 46. Feeding while fucking (or being fucked)? 47. Forcefeeding? 48. Teasing a fatty? 49. Humiliating a fatty? 50. Worshipping a fatty? 51. Serving a bossy gainer? 52. Are you: Dominant, submissive, switch or doesn’t apply? 53. Your biggest fantasy that related to feederism? 54. Your most intense fantasy related to feederism? Would you like to go for it IRL? 55. What is something you think you did right when it comes to your feederism lifestyle? 56. What is something you think you did wrong when it comes to your feederism lifestyle? 57. Describe your perfect partner in 3 to 5 sentences.

Reblog if you want your followers to ask you these questions.

1. Are you a: gainer, encourager, mutual gainer or all of the above? Gainer

2. Sexuality? Straight

3. Are you on grommr, fantasy feeder or feabie? Feabie

4. What made you start a gaining tumblr? Good place to share content

5. Tumblr crushes? Nah

6. Best gaining and FA blogs on tumblr? No clue

7. Are you in a relationship? If yes is it a feederism relationship?  Yes and yes. I am SO lucky to have found the love of my life through Feabie

8. What did you think about your “urges” before you discovered that gaining was a thing (we’ve all been there) when I was a teen I used to think I just loved food, then I realized I loved being full and the look of it.

9. What do you like most about this community? Confident fat women finding themselves and loving themselves.

10. What do you hate most about this community? How toxic it is towards anyone who mentions diet, losing weight. Some people (feedists included) may need to adhere to a diet or weight loss at some point due to health or whatever, they’re still feedists and should be welcome in these spaces. Also all the people who come to these fetish spaces to make money when they’re not actually into the fetish they just know they can make money. It’s annoying.

11. What is your earliest memory about this scene? Logging onto FF and reading the forums.

12. What is your weirdest memory about this scene? Some guy was super forceful about playing with my belly on a date and like cornered me into a little doorway it was weird

13. Are you now or have you been actively gaining before? Before and now

14. How long have you been actively gaining? Since about March 2020 until now with some pauses

15. What is your current weight? 227.

16. What are you current measurements? Not sure but belly is 52inches

17. What size clothes you’re wearing?18-20, mostly 20.

18. What is your goal in gaining (physically)? I like the number 297 it’s sooo close to 300 but still in the 200s, just hovering between the two. Goal is 305.

19. When it comes to relationships you prefer: a thin encourager, a fat encourager or another gainer? I prefer a smaller encourager because contrast is a huge thing for me.

20. When it comes to encouragers do you prefer: forceful, pushy, teasing, handsy, romantic, submissive, good cook? (multiple options are permitted)

Forceful,pushy,teasing,handsy(real handsy),romantic, good cook

21. Would you date a civilian? If so would you tell him about you gaining wishes? I have and I can’t be open as I’d like to be so it doesn’t work.

22. Have you had casual feeding sessions? Would you like to (or more)?

I have, but I prefer a connection to my feeder

23. Being fed by another person or nom by yourself? Both. I prefer to eat a lot and then when I’m really stuffed be fed. But I do like random bites fed to me when I’m eating as well.

24. Eating while fucking (or being fucked)? Yesssssssssss

25. Forcefeeding? Yesssssssss

26. Being teased? Yessssssssss

27. Being humiliated? Yesssssssss

28. Being worshipped? I mean, yeah. Belly worship, body worship 😍

29. Bossing around an “obliging” encourager? No, I prefer to be the submissive partner. I have to be bossy all day at work and at home, when it comes to this fetish I love having a dominant feeder. I can also be a bratty sub and that doesn’t translate well.

30. Are you: Dominant, submissive, switch or doesn’t apply? Submissive but I feel like a lot of the time with feeders my hand is forced into a dominant role which I don’t enjoy.

31. Your biggest fantasy gaining wise?

That’s a secret only my partner knows

32. Your most intense fantasy gaining wise? Would you like to go for it IRL?

Again ^ but I’d love for them to be IRL

33. What is something you think you did right when it comes to your gaining lifestyle? Being patient and finding my partner on feabie.

34. What is something you think you did wrong when it comes to your gaining lifestyle? I’m not confident enough in my gain when it comes to non-fetish people. I need to get a better wardrobe.

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