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Being forced, coerced, and pressured to diet your whole life because of the crime of being a fat child is trauma. You never deserved to starve. You never should have been told to hate your body. All you wanted to do was be a kid. You're allowed to grieve the damage that diet culture and fatphobia did to your childhood. You deserve to heal from that trauma. You deserve a good relationship with food and your body. Give yourself now the love, nourishment, and enjoyment of life that you were punished for having as a kid. You're going to take back the life in your eyes that was stolen from you, and the people who protest can leave their complaints at the door.