Just a birb

I'm not a communist and don't think communism works on a state-level. Most communes I've interacted with are incredibly toxic, but if you feel comfortable there, that's your thing. It's not for me. DO NOT TALK TO ME ABOUT STALINIST, MAOIST OR LENINIST COMMUNISM.

I'm an agnostic I guess? Not a Christian, but I grew up in a very catholic region and if you're far right and try to argue bible to support whatever hate you're spewing now, I will argue back.

After briefly studying something in the STEM field, my brain broke and got rid of all math stuff. Numbers make no sense anymore. Years of education gone. I still love science, but math and I have broken up. Still love chemistry and biology and geology and paleonthology and social sciences and so on.

Please excuse any spelling mistakes. 90% of the time, I'll write while I'm super tired. I don't like people who threaten violence it murder to anyone, I don't like transphobe of any kind, racists, religious extremists, homophobes, and so on. I believe that the trans community should stand united and that someone's gender doesn't make them evil. I'm mostly here for political stuff and trans stuff.

I am also an enjoyer of all things birb (especially chicken and corvids) or cat related, various games, books, series, movies... I love literature, both old and new, although I'm mostly reading stuff in my first language currently, for university. If you know any interesting books, feel free to recommend. Kink is fine, just tag it right, please. Shipping is fine, it's just fiction.

I won't get involved in any discourse that's not vague. I will not directly name people, most of the stuff I post will either be pictures of birds, stuff I'm interested in or general stuff about anti-transmasculinity/transandrophobia relating to my own experiences.

Please do not mention pregnancy to me or relate me to anything involving pregnancy. I respect all people who are comfortable with it or want to be pregnant, but it makes me extremely dysphoric. I'll probably think differently and be more comfortable around pregnancy related things once I have had my hysterectomy in some months and have no chance of ever being pregnant myself, but for now, just please don't.

I stopped back then because my mum just sucked the joy out of it, wanting me to commercialise my hobby. I don't want to write for fame or money, never did, I just want someone to read the shit I make up. But my mother's childhood dream was to be a writer so she pressured me to publish one day.

And yeah, I kinda do want to publish it but I would prefer to publish it online, for free and by the chapter. So if anyone has any tips, they'd be very much appreciated!

He immediately switched to use my name and pronouns. Cool of him, wasn't sure he'd understand. I wasn't scared of him being entirely unsafe, there were multiple queer people and he's essentially a human puppy, but you know.

Apparently, he doesn't. I was talking with a friend about my transition and he asked "What does trans mean?". Completely without malice. Just innocent curiosity. He didn't know being trans was a thing. He had no idea how anything relating to transness works. Yet he still used the right pronouns, the right name, treated me as one of his bros.

I know that those posts are not about me and everyone should be able to discuss their own experiences. I do not want anyone to stop talking about pregnancy. I merely request to tag it as "pregnancy" or "tw pregnancy" so that people who want to avoid discussions of pregnancy can do so.

For me, personally, pregnancy is my worst nightmare. I get incredibly dysphoric about almost anything related to pregnancy, so much that I may start feeling physically ill. As of now, I would still technically be able to get pregnant and each time I see discussion of pregnancy, I am reminded of that. I do not think that there is anything that causes me worse dysphoria than my current reproductive organs, not even my chest.

I want to continue engaging with trans content and discussion of transandrophobia, so I'd appreciate it if I could avoid topics that make me feel really, really bad.

You don't have to do anything like that, of course. I would just really appreciate it if discussion of pregnancy would be easier to avoid for me and others who feel like me/ also want to avoid the topic of pregnancy.

However, you do not get to say that it "looks disgusting", "is icky", "is just a clit", "is ugly" or "doesn't even look male". That's being an asshole to people who want or have bottom growth. You do not get to call other people's genitals ugly. You do not get to police what other people should look like or be comfortable with. You have absolutely zero authority over other people's bodies.

Like the dude who told me that "Love thy neighbour" literally only me at people who are geographically close to him and that he shouldn't care about anyone else because it's in the bible. This was in the context of me saying that Asylum is a human right btw. First of all, that translation is misleading. Second, in the bible, Jesus fucking self is asked "what defines thy neighbour?" (it seems like bigots have always had the same way of asking stupid questions to feel validated in their hate. Not a surprise). And Jesus being woke told a tale of a man who helped another man from a people his people were enemies with (the tale of the good Samaritan, one of the most well known bible stories.)