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— Unknown
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@f-meup
“The woman you are becoming will cost you people, relationships, spaces, and material things. Choose her over everything.”
— Unknown

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found the killer post again bc i lost it
“I want you and I don’t want to be a luxury. I want you to need me. I want you to not be able to concentrate because you’re thinking about me. I want you to reach for your phone because you thought of something you have to share with me. I want you to not even be able to breathe at the thought of never seeing me again, because that’s how I feel about you.”
— Shannon Stacey
i go through phases of hating what i look like so entirely that it almost becomes asinine. it's so completely without sense that i will look in a mirror and see something other - just a not-me, something ugly but vain, nasty-looking and rabid - and i watch her make my life miserable. i don't want to care. but i care. something in that feels like a joke. even after all this time, that little girl is still so resentful.

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“And sometimes you held somebody’s hand just to prove that you were still alive, and that another human being was there to testify that fact.”
— Rainbow Rowell
Adulting is hard.
Adulting with Borderline Personality Disorder is extremely hard.
Please give yourself some grace.
Therapy Thursday
YOU CAN TAKE AS LONG AS IT FUCKING TAKES YOU TO PROCESS YOUR TRAUMA!!!
THIS IS ABOUT YOU AND YOUR NEEDS AND YOU CAN DO IT IN YOUR OWN DAMN TIME!!! YOU AREN’T OBLIGATED TO SUIT SOMEONE’S SCHEDULE OR FIT ANY TEXTBOOK PATTERN!!! DO WHAT IS BEST FOR YOU!!!
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Vsauce videos show neurotypical people what it’s like to have ADHD
“The actor who played Air Bud, Buddy the dog, passed away in 1998 at the age of 9.”
[He removes a candle from a small cake and sets it down on the table before him, alongside eight other candles.]
“Now, take a look at this.”
[He orients the first eight candles to form a pair of W’s, spelling out “WWI” altogether. The usual Vsauce music fades out, replaced with an unsettling low tone.]
“Let’s talk about World War I.”
why would you leave this in the tags
[ID: screenshot of a tag reading “my brain is like if every word in a wikipedia article was clickable” /End ID]
not to be intrusive but did you get vaccinated? longer/heavier periods are a newly noted side effect. good luck
t. also becoming the joker
I got the 2nd shot yesterday and I’d already had my period for 8 days. I posted about how I felt sick on fb and a friend of mine said they got a 19 day period after 2nd shot. I am going to require a blood transfusion. RIP
Today in "Things they didn't bother telling us about vaginas".
https://www.thelily.com/can-the-vaccine-make-your-period-worse-these-women-say-yes/
No published studies have examined the effects of vaccines on menstrual cycles.
If you are experiencing strange menstrual symptoms after receiving a vaccine, I encourage you to participate in this research study.
I'm not out here saying don't get vaccinated, but I'm fucking sick of my body not being included and counted in medical research.
I didn't have any of these effects, but passing along for anyone who did.
don't just fill this out if your menstrual cycle changed. everyone who menstruates should fill it out. otherwise you get skewed results

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getting out of a rut starter pack
so I was in a pretty bad rut for a few weeks, and now I'm in a fairly better place, still not living on a full fledge but the initial fog has lifted.
rut could be from a lot of things: burnout, lack of motivation, procrastination, outside triggers, bad mental health, or the overwhelming feeling of life falling apart but too numb to act upon it. the causes of it could be numerous as well: online schooling, student stress, work stress, a certain relationship with someone not working out or being stuck at an uncomfortable environment.
so I just want to remind you that you aren't alone love. you will eventually find a way out. you just gotta give yourself time.
note: this isn't science supported or anything. it's just a bunch of thoughts I had while I was trying to get back the stability in my life. I'm not all the way successful at handling my daily routine like a pro either. if any of you have better alternative in mind, feel free to add/correct.
let yourself feel: give yourself some time to feel the sadness, cry about it, wrap yourself up in blankets, sleep if you're tired and let it all out.
remind yourself about the things that makes you feel happy and the things you love: so when your life slows down and everything seems to be distasteful, it maybe because you haven't revisited your favorite hobbies in a long time. maybe you had detached yourself from your comfort shows, books, any form of entertainment. so go back to them. remind yourself about the things which makes you, you.
change the perspective around this funk phase: now the immediate response we have when we hit a rut is the guilt of not being productive. well you see, the first ultimate aim should be to get yourself back together. what have you been shoving away for too long? maybe it's a good talk with your best friend, go talk to your support group and the people who make you feel loved. but if you're someone stuck in a place where there aren't much people to remind you that irl, read posts from the #selfcare #gentlereminders tags on tumblr or pinterest. there are so many sweet people across the internet who know how you feel and have written about the same. listen to music, vent in a diary and get yourself back.
some ideas to get some serotonin inside you: music + dance, if you haven't taken a shower in a while—change your clothes, put on some dry shampoo and deo and comb your hair with fingers. eat and hydrate. aesthetic vlogs on youtube. making moodboards on pinterest for your favorite show, band, movie, aesthetic, anything. paint, draw, doodle or color. rewatch your comfort shows, movies or series. read or reread the works from your fave genre. stretch a little. make lists of random things. watch the sunset. look at clouds and stars. write a letter to your loved one, your past self or your future self.
identify the things which went out of proportion these days: maybe you were not taking care of properly these few days. not enough hydration, food maybe? find that out and make a reminder to slowly getting back into it. not by the span of a day. give yourself a week or two if you need to it's okay!
think about what new things are to be implemented and what was not working earlier: only now you will have to focus with the problem at hand. let's say your poor organization for school led to this much frustration. it's okay. we all learn gradually. so find out how you can organize better. there's literally so many resources across each of these problems on the internet. and once you do, start really small. as said earlier, give yourself enough time to get used to it. unrealistic expectations will make sticking to habits hard.
always remember winding down and taking some time out for your soul is important as well: the thing about consistency is to always go back to our why's and values and our happy things as frequently as possible. we tend to forget about the little things which are parts of us. so take time out for your hobbies and loved ones!
I'm not sure how much of a help these had been. I hope this makes sense. getting yourself back up doesn't happen in a day. give yourself as much time as you want. please please please don't be hard on that cute little yourself. that thing which brought you down was hard enough and you fought through all of it love! so I want you to give yourself a loving pat on the back and be proud! do feel free to share your experience and tips regarding this. it'll be greatly appreciated!!
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Friendly reminder that this world was designed for neurotypicals and if you’re neurodiverse or mentally ill and you’re struggling, please be kinder to yourself because you’re doing your best in a world that wasn’t designed for you

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It’s a miracle we ever met by Hallie Bateman
petition to start calling ourselves "those who dwell at the borders" because it's enigmatic and melodramatic as fuck and let's be self-aware here