"i get vulnerable by getting pissed off! it's the same thing to be vulnerable and be aggressively angry because i'm still telling you my feelings!" do you fucking hear yourself you are 32 years old. i am sorry only one of us went to therapy but at a certain point Do you fucking hear yourself. i am sorry that your lifelong fear and core hurt is being misunderstood by being told you're too angry and too aggressive but at a certain point maybe fucking listen. maybe some aren't fucking misunderstanding. maybe you are just 32 years old and past the age of excusing your self indulgent anger under the guise of self understanding, maybe it's a little too late to just now be learning about yourself with such pride in the assertion instead of fucking working on it, maybe it's time to grow the fuck up a little
