As long as you say "bomb that kills all tboys" you can be as vicious as you want to trans women and still be a transfeminist. /hj
I've said it before and I'll say it again: hating men is not an acceptable substitute for loving women. And it's especially dumb in the case of trans people because trans men aren't really trans women's oppressors in any tangible way, your shitty boyfriend notwithstanding.
Yes, they have a position of relative power. Yes, in queer spaces they tend to hold slightly more sway, and that's not okay and should be talked about as such. But keep in mind that we're taking about power in queer spaces and we're talking about queer spaces which are trans friendly and we're talking about queer spaces which are trans friendly and led by trans people who have enough sway so that they can actually affect anything in any meaningful way and aren't just tolerated. Fighting over scraps was a thing of yesterday we're fighting over a single fucking crumb.












