How to Write Characters With Romantic Chemistry
Writing great chemistry can be challenging. If youâre not super inspired, sometimes the connection between your characters feels like itâs missing something.
Here are a few steps you can consider when you want to write some steamy romantic chemistry and canât figure out whatâs blocking your creativity.
Tropes have a bad reputation, but they can be excellent tools when youâre planning or daydreaming about a story. Giving the romance a name also assigns a purpose, which takes care of half the hard plotting work.
You can always read about love tropes to get inspired and think about which might apply to the characters or plot points you have in mind, like:
Fake lovers turned soulmates
There are tooooons of other tropes in the link above, but you get the idea. Name the love youâre writing about and it will feel more concrete in your brain.
2. Develop Your Characters
You should always spend time developing your characters individually, but itâs easy to skip this part. You might jump into writing the story because you have a scene idea. Then the romance feels flat.
The good news is you can always go back and make your characters more real. Give them each their own Word or Google doc and use character templates or questions to develop them.Â
You should remember to do this for every character involved in the relationship as well. Sometimes love happens between two people who live nearby and other times it happens by:
Being in a polyamorous relationship
Being the only one in love (the other person never finds out or doesnât feel it back, ever)
There are so many other ways to experience love too. Donât leave out anyone involved in the developing relationship or writing your story will feel like driving a car with only three inflated tires.
3. Give the Conversations Stakes
Whenever your characters get to talk, whatâs at risk? This doesnât have to always be something life changing or scary. Sometimes it might be one character risking how the other perceives them by revealing an interest or new fact about themselves.
Whatâs developing in each conversation? Whatâs being said through their body language? Are they learning if they share the same sense of humor or value the same foundational beliefs? Real-life conversations donât always have a point, but they do in romantic stories.Â
4. Remember Body Language
Body language begins long before things get sexy between your characers (if they ever do). Itâs their fingertips touching under the table, the missed glance at the bus stop, the casual shoulder bump while walking down the street.
Itâs flushed cheeks, a jealous heart skipping a beat, being tongue tied because one character canât admit their feelings yet.
If a scene or conversation feels lacking, analyze what your characters are saying through their body language. It could be the thing your scene is missing.
No love story is perfect, but that doesnât mean your characters have to experience earth shattering pain either.
Make one laugh so hard that they snort and feel embarrassed so the other can say how much they love that personâs laugh. Make miscommunication happen so they can make up or take a break.Â
People grow through their flaws and mistakes. Relationships get stronger or weaker when they learn things that are different about them or that they donât like about each other.Â
6. Create Intellectual Moments
When youâre getting to know someone, you bond over the things youâre both interested in. Thatâs also a key part of falling in love. Have your characters fall in intellectual love by sharing those activities, talking about their favorite subjects, or raving over their passions. They could even teach each other through this moment, which could make them fall harder in love.
7. Put Them in Public Moments
You learn a lot about someone when theyâre around friends, acquaintances, and strangers. The chemistry between your characters may fall flat if theyâre only ever around each other.
Write scenes so theyâre around more people and get to learn who they are in public. Theyâll learn crucial factors like the other personâs ambition, shyness, humor, confidence, and if theyâre a social butterfly or wallflower.
Will those moments make your characters be proud to stand next to each other or will it reveal something that makes them second guess everything?
And of course, you can never forget to use sensory details when describing the physical reaction of chemistry. Whether theyâre sharing a glance or jumping into bed, the reader feels the intensity of the moment through their five sensesâtaste, touch, sight, sound, and smell.Â
Characters also donât have to have all five senses to be the protagonist or love interest in a romantic story. The number isnât importantâitâs how you use the ways your character interacts with the world.Â
Anyone can write great romantic chemistry by structuring their love story with essential elements like these. Read more romance books or short stories too! Youâll learn as you read and write future relationships more effortlessly.
