emludavis

We are ALL facing hate, and we do not deserve to get hate from within! Because we are all valid!

If you hate on people like this, you are just as bad as homophobes and transphobes, because JUST LIKE THEM, you are hating on someone for their attraction, or for their gender identity!

It's fine if your attraction is mainly towards cisgender women or men because both the gender identity AND the physical body parts are part of your attraction. You didn't make that choice, you aren't excluding them out of hate. But if it's towards cisgender people solely to exclude trans people? Yeah, go fuck yourself. Because you don't control what factors into your attraction, so having something like that be part of your attraction is fine. If your attraction is towards both people who identify as female AND people who have a vulva, or vice versa, yeah, you do you, you didn't choose for the presence or lack of a primary or secondary sex characteristic, that's just a part of your attraction. But the MOMENT the intent is to exclude trans people, you are just being an asshole.

So yeah, if you think that any of the identities I mentioned aren't valid? Let me know so I can block you!

Everyone else, if you are part of any of these identities, as someone who falls under a few of these categories, (Asexual, Asexual Alloromantic, Falling under the nonbinary umbrella) I will always accept you. As long as you yourself are not being exclusionary. You are JUST as valid as anyone else!

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idk much about tumblr and how info spreads, but I want to see if people would support this idea of mine. For the longest time I’ve just been relying on good ol’ Ace-Spectrum flag, but people constantly misunderstand because how diverse the Ace-Spectrum is. My sexuality on the ace-spectrum is somewhat specific and there wasn’t really a flag that fit, and for some reason I’m really organizing at random things (i prob have autism, that’s not a joke) and I felt like I really wanted to have a pride flag for my specific place on the Asexual Spectrum and maybe if you fit in this category you MIGHT like it??? Idk. Obviously it’s not a polished concept but if enough flags were able to be on multiple spectrums of the LGBTQ+ community, I don’t see why not to create a label out of our own comfort.