#1 TW3 Lambert enjoyer

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whatever we do, we can't win. we can't be seen as actually nonbinary. people binarize us and often mock us or get aggressive or dismiss and ignore our nonbinaryhood or something else.

if we don't medically transition, we are "just cis trenders."

if we do medically transition, we are "just [binary trans] eggs."

we are "technically transmasc or transfem anyways" if we don't use these terms.

we are lumped together with binary trans men and trans women if we do use these terms. our nonbinaryhood is ignored or seen as some kind of "gender-lite."

we are aggressively pressured to disclose if we're AFAB or AMAB, TMA or TME, transmasc or transfem, "boy nonbinary" or "girl nonbinary." and if we refuse to answer, people get double mad at us and pick something for us anyways.

if we show the slightest hint of something that could be interpreted as binary gendered, we are immediately binarised.

if we put a lot of effort into looking the most ambiguous or androgynous or neutral, people still try to find something. and they become aggressive. people often EXPLODE [PT: explode] when they can't gender someone by glance.

our ways of expression are constantly mocked and ignored (like neopronouns, nonbinary-centering labels for gender and orientation, basically all things that are associated with nonbinary people).

but if we choose more typical ways of expression (for example, use "he/him" or "she/her" pronouns), people use it to ignore and dismiss our nonbinaryhood.

fully self-indulgent post but your f/o would never be cruel to you, even if it doesn't match their character in canon.

❤︎ your f/o would never raise a hand at you and would never hurt you. they're gentle and soft for you, and if they aren't normally then they're putting in the effort to learn to be.

❤︎ your f/o knows how to apologise. they aren't too proud to sit back and admit they messed up - they know when something is their fault.

❤︎ your f/o knows how to make amends. even when it's hard, even when it's embarrassing, they do it for you. they take the initiative and try their best to make things right.

❤︎ your f/o respects you. they respect your privacy and your individuality, and they don't ever try to control you. they love you because you choose to return to them.

❤︎ your f/o loves you. they listen to you and try their best to do everything they can for you. of course you disagree sometimes, but they never escalate into being abusive. they love you too much to ever hurt you.

sprout cow plushies. they are so cute. they come in their own plant pots.

Jealous f/o who does that 'tch' tongue click thing at others you're too friendly with

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