IDENTITY EMERGES ORGANICALLY FROM ACTION

IF YOU DONT DO ANYTHING YOU ARENT ANYONE. SORRY

i would like a hug…. JUST KIDDING! i would like TWO hugs. (suddenly becomes cold and standoffish) i don’t need anything or anyone and i don’t want to talk about it.

please wear sunscreen!!! I've seen "fuck the beauty industrial complex" posts about complicated skincare regimens and am 100% with them except sometimes they mention sunscreen and no. no. absolutely not. sunscreen is a wonderful supportive friend who wants to keep you safe, and you should let her do it. throw out all your other cosmetics and skincare products if you want, but keep your sunscreen. and if you're not wearing sunscreen, start wearing it!!!! this is not about terror of aging, this is not about every tiny imperfection our fucked-up culture has made you feel insecure about, this is about protecting yourself from skin cancer. wear the damn sunscreen.

Does anyone know what to do about the temperature and also the prices

the main reason girl grace is so compelling to me is not just because of the way misogyny now tinges everything related to her getting ousted from academia but also that grace's own awareness of that misogyny colors her reaction to it and justification for her own lack of personal growth. because OBVIOUSLY the entire reason she got thrown out of a professional scientific conference for saying some extremely out of pocket shit to a colleague in an academic forum after titling sections of her work intentionally inflammatory statements, is purely because of misogyny. she's right, they're wrong, and they just can't stand that it's a woman telling them that. it's got nothing to do with her immaturity, or abrasiveness, or arrogance, and she will not allow it to affect her sense of self surety at all. because that would mean that the reason she doesn't have any close friends, the reason no one stood up for her, the reason she is still so incredibly lonely, is all her fault. and it can't just be her. it can't be.

the thing about grace is if you give her a single avenue through which to deflect responsibility for her own personal flaws she will take it. she will weaponize a very real issue in the culture and internal structure of academia that does very real harm and genuinely does fuck over people's careers for no reason other than prejudice. and girl grace definitely has actually experienced misogyny in her field, and the chip on her shoulder is much larger as a result and some of that is justified, but she also just SUCKS as a human being because she hasn't gone through her central character arc yet, and it is probably infuriating to be another woman in STEM listening to her complain about being barred from work because of her gender when you really just want to tell her no rylynn its because nobody fucking likes you. and a very scared little part of her brain knows this. but she will never acknowledge it never confront the elephant in the room because when grace gets scared she runs

Why the fuck do burger recipes assume you’re grilling out for a family and not planning an elaborate 2 week baby trapping scenario in which you still don’t exactly know what the baby in this situation would be because you’re gay and he definitely can’t get you pregnant. Not that you’d want to get pregnant of course. But you do think it’d be the easiest means of convincing him to stay. there’s never a recipe for like 4 burgers max.

imagine being called a bottom twink by the kid who moaned when you telekinesis-ed him to his knees in the 70s. armand should be worse

my joke answer for why movie!grace is so built even back on earth is that this is the one favor the universe has ever done for eva stratt. she's in the torment nexus and the earth is dying and she's selling her soul but at least the god she believes in sent her someone to hang out with all the time in the form of a guy who reportedly turned down being awarded "world's sexiest man" twice. does she have time to properly befriend him or initiate anything intimate? good lord no. but when it all gets a bit much she Can look at him for a few seconds.

it's a pity they didn't have a version of the "wait you AREN'T sleeping with stratt?" scene in the movie because we could have had the added layer of "okay yes you're capable and all that but so are a lot of other non-middle school teacher people so we kind of assumed she kept you around because you're. well. I mean."

because it's pride month I'm going to swing my favourite bat and my favourite hornets nest and remind you all that pansexuality is just bisexuality wearing a biphobic/transphobic hat. and if people had actually fucking read up on lgbt history and culture before posting bullshit on social media then there wouldn't be whole insulting labels in the mainstream.

I will never forgive the uwu mogai crowd for thinking they were SO MUCH BETTER than this bogeyman version of bisexuality based entirely on shitty stereotypes. I will never forgive them for thinking you needed a whole new sexuality to be attracted to trans people. and now their fucking churlish ignorant antics just created more division, more biphobia, and more transphobia. bisexuality was NEVER binary or about being attracted to the gender binary but its way too late to fix the damage and it makes me so fucking sad. all because people couldn't be bothered to read up on their lgbt history like the bisexual manifesto, or listen to trans people.