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stone femmes have a lot to give, a lot to offer despite the fact that they dont perform traditional sex acts

they have voices, sweet words, manicured fingers through my hair. stone femmes offer themselves, their bodies, their trust, their warmth. i don’t see how anybody could look at a stone femme and think they’re lacking–being stone requires vulnerability, it requires trust and love, it requires opening up, showing someone everything. i hate this msg. they have as much to give as anyone who would touch me in certain ways, maybe more. i would love a stone femme who was mine to pleasure and touch and explore as much as i want. i don’t need any physical act in return if i have that, it’s plenty sexually stimulating for me

Me:

intersex people are routinely sterilized at birth, and the choice of whether or not we want to have children is taken from us before we even can reach an age where we would be ready to make that choice. 

intersex people and their families are lied to about surgeries that have no medical benefit, because doctors are so worried about making sure that they uphold the binary system and create people who look “normal” instead of preserving our right to consent to what happens to our bodies. 

intersex people are often denied access to fertility treatment, or have many barriers to accessing infertility treatment because it is believed that we will not want to have children, or that we should not want to have children. 

yet, intersex issues are rarely, if ever, brought up in the context of reproductive rights, despite the fact that bodily autonomy and reproductive justice is a huge issue for the intersex community.