i am using this blog solely to combat all the bullshit i spewed as a horrible little edgy 15 year old kid, now. i sincerely wish i could just delete it and be done with it, but every time i see a young trans person questioning whether theyre "valid" or not because of something i said, i have an overwhelmingly violent need to go against everything i said when i was 15 and desperate for the approval of cis people who hated me for existing because they were assholes, not because of trans people exploring their identities in "weird" ways.
i genuinely hope all of you learn that this discourse only makes the community even more divided. your experiences with dysohoria are not universal. unconventional trans people dont make people transphobic, quit victim blaming. i hate you all















