”Explain yourself” followed by “stop making excuses” has always baffled me because the fuck you think explaining myself is????

[Text ID: #Turning off notifications for this post because god some of you in the notes don't understand #I am referring to when a child was NOT in the wrong and is trying to communicate that to a parent or authority figure and gets scolded for #"talking back" or "making excuses" #I am talking about the immediate assumption of most people that you are trying to be "disrespectful" and "passing the blame" #rather than just trying to explain yourself. #please stop misunderstanding this post #and STOP being ableist on this post. there is no need to turn this into "narcissists are evil". #thank you /end ID]

the dynamic between two people who love a third person so much and come to understand each other because of that is so important to me. you would put them first, and so would i. you understand why we have to save them from themself. i trust you with their life, and so, that means more than if i trusted you with mine. the love doesn't have to be the same, but it's powerful enough that you understand why you're not the only satellite drawn into their orbit.

I think if I heard I Gotta Feeling by The Black Eyed Peas in the correct circumstances it could move me to tears. It's like the promise of a brighter future that never came to pass

>go right

>go left instead (looks nice and fun!)

>...go back to the right

Go left

Go forward

> Ascend

Go right ->

Creature

KILLING STANCE: TEN SOUL RENDING CLAWS

gonna be honest i don’t know how many more ‘enter the 6 digit code we sent to your phone’s i got left in me

i don’t think i’m exaggerating when i say that the average height for women in the US would increase by at least an inch if teen girls were allowed to eat as much as teen boys are

i was grazed by a bullet intended for the woman nearby so i’m a murder victim. yeah the bullet hit her in the chest and i’m only grazed but are you telling me that means i’m not a victim of the bullet, just because it wasn’t intended for me? why are you telling me to move out of the way so you can give her life-saving aid i’m literally bleeding from this superficial wound in my arm. i think we need to pay equal attention to ALL victims of this bullet.

really if you think about it, many many more people will have their hearing damaged by the noise of gunshots than the people who get hit by the bullet. so at the end of the day, what's more important?

Happy 10 year anniversary to this post!