y'know sometimes i wish it was as easy for me to leave this hellsite <- (NOT affectionate) as it was for ditching twitter and avoiding reddit/tiktok/discord/any other well known social media site.
the only reason i'm still here is because i have no alternative. a majority of my online friends reside exclusively on tumblr. some of the nicest people i've met were right here. without tumblr, (because as i've said previously, i'm not making a discord account) i pretty much have no way to contact them.
sure, i'm somewhat active on bluesky, but it's not as fun. it's damn near impossible to find fans of what i like if it's not popular. some people are wildly puritanical. it's basically twitter lite.
i really don't want to spend my time jumping ship from fandom site to fandom site every few years because of obscurity or bad moderation.
i'm so fucking tired of waking up and opening tumblr to find out about recent enshittification or that the company/mods behind this site did something horrific. i'm tired of inescapable fandom discourse that crops up no matter how many tags i filter. i'm tired of the double standards that claim to be against "adult content" but keep the back door open for porn bots and virus bait.
i want to leave tumblr. i really do. but i just can't bring myself to do so.
there's no "plan B" site i can rely on.


















