worms in a trenchcoat

my best feature is that I'm blindingly intelligent for about 30 seconds a day

I do not get to choose which seconds. they are not consecutive

Gotta love the dude bros in the tags that are like “Your appearance makes your opinions lose value” or the Doge meme that just flat out says “Speak when spoken to, woman.”

highly recommend blocking ppl just because u don't like their vibe. even if they seem nice and haven't done anything wrong, but you just don't like them for reasons you can't articulate? slam that block button. your experience on this website will be improved for it. blocking isn't a moral judgment its just a way to exercise control over your space

I mean, yes, but also consider that people who have RSD, self-esteem issues, and/or a history of bullying/ostracization can be severely triggered by getting blocked for no reason. It can send people into spirals of overanalyzing what they could have done wrong and drowning in feelings about how they’re terrible and everybody hates them. Spirals like that can last for hours or days and be extremely debilitating. While I understand the intent here of curating your own space and making your experience as stress-free as possible, you need to understand there can be consequences of that that you’re totally unaware of. And if you don’t feel you should have to worry about other people’s mental health or you don’t have the energy to, that’s fine, block away, but this is something I think needs to be said and not nearly enough people understand or consider.

hi! if you come into my space and make me uncomfortable I’m completely within my rights to remove you from my space and don’t owe you any explanation. I have adhd and struggle with rsd and I know what it’s like but I’m going to be completely blunt - if a stranger on the internet who you’ve never interacted with blocks you, and that sends you into a spiral, that’s not their fault and is something you need to discuss with a therapist. it is not my problem, just like my reaction to being blocked is not your problem. it’s really, really not cool to make your symptoms and your disordered thinking other people’s responsibility

Every day my joints are shocked and disgusted that I would use them for their intended purpose.

the intimacy of liking a mutual’s post. i hope you see my stupid little icon and feel seen. i love you. i appreciate you. do you want to run away with me. i’m here for you. let’s swordfight. i’m never going to give you up.

lmaooooo,,, leave resume alone 😩

RESUME

what’s with the weird stigma that being closeted is okay but only if it would be physically unsafe for you to come out? coming out is YOUR business, if you know it would be fine & nothing would happen to you & nobody would care, but you don’t want to anyway, that’s your choice and it’s perfectly valid.

u all ever lose the ability to socialize in the middle of a convo like.... ok i’m done now there’s no more words in here brain shutting off

i have zoom calls with my therapist (cuz covid) and sometimes i just “...😶...” in the middle of a sentence and i feel kinda bad cuz i do that a lot. i’m unaware how to act like a real human, incase i haven’t mentioned before

Yes! It's a mix of visual clutter and lack of object permanence. Your brain says "you saw it, no need to show you again" and leaves you crying in the grocery store trying to find cheese

bored. might swollow a kinder egg like a snake just because

This is what the FDA thought everyone would do if they allowed kinder eggs in America

I don’t think you derailed this at all and think this was a really thoughtful addition. So thank you!

Im in fucking tears rn

Even if you had the best childhood ever and you still like doing those things, do them. There are no rules, so why not enjoy yourself