A chaotic table of contents for posts I made (mostly) & reference sometimes, but can never find when I need to. Because nobody can stop me!

*If you’re here because some asshole told you I used to be a TERF:

In, like, 2013-14, one of the feminist pages I followed said they didn’t think trans women were women, I turned tail and ran, and then that interaction haunted me & filled me with fear/guilt for allowing someone like that to get anywhere near me. for years after. I was a teenager at the time. I have no idea how my talking about this turned into “nothorses used to be a TERF”, but uh. suffice to say it’s a fucking lie.

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Transmasc Discussion

“Transandrophobia” Primer

Identity vs. Position

Testosterone is not a “violent” hormone

Masculinity is not inherently toxic & Femininity can be toxic

Cis manhood is not the golden standard of manhood

On Transandrophobia

Transandrophobia on Tumblr

Transmasc experiences in statistics, Follow-up., Additional follow-up

How transandrophobia works  

Twitter thread on transmascs by @Azure_Husky

In the Wake of Elliot Page

J.K. Rowling and Trans Men

Hating transmascs is still transphobia

“Man hating” feminism hurts transmascs

TERFs love it when transmascs and transfems hate each other

Weaponizing feminist talking points against trans men

Common arguments against transandrophobia

“Trans-Inclusive” Radfems

Building Transmasc Community

Why Are We Silencing Each Other?

Yes, we know misandry doesn’t exist.

Trans Men & Male Privilege

Transfems, Transmisogyny, and the Fight to Recognize Transandrophobia

Other Discussion

On “Transunitism”

Queer History & Resources

“Transgender” and what it used to mean

Cis people fucking with gender is good for trans people too

TME/TMA’s “Identity = Oppression” problem

TME/TMA & Perception

TME/TMA Origins & “AFAB Privilege”

What Were Baeddels?

Common TERF talking points

Exclusionist Tactics 

“Kill all Men” & White Feminism

Yuri On Ice & Queerness

Interview With An Ex-Radfem

Hot Allostatic Load & Callout Culture

Competition vs. Obligation

On M-Spec Lesbians

Joan of Arc & “Crossdressing”

Resources

Transmascs of Color Rec List

Transmasc Creators Masterlist

TransTape: A Guide, (Don’t buy it on Amazon), Kinetic tape isn’t always cheaper

Types of Top Surgery Incisions  

My Top Surgery Experience

Transmascs in History

Baeddelism

Let’s Talk About Baeddels (Part 1) (Medium ver.) (Video reading)

When Baeddels Took Them (Part 2) (Medium ver.)

Brushes with Baeddels (Part 3) (Medium ver.)

The fun thing about being non-binary is that you get to watch your own "sisters" take a word created by and for gay men, regularly use it as a derogatory term for years and then turn around and say it actually shouldn't refer to gay men at all. And if you go "hey maybe that's kinda fucked up" you get called a bigot for it.

Oh but if you call yourself a femboy or an egg or whatever, *that's* appropriating transfem culture and you've gotta stop it immediately.

like, you spend months trying to uplift your brothers because so many others are treating them like shit, only for some of the people you considered your allies to turn around and start being transmisogynistic. talking about sex based oppression, making fun of transfems for their usernames, kink-shaming them, pedo-jacketing them, the list goes on. you can’t feel safe because even though you don’t agree with the transfems this transmisogyny is being directed towards, besides the fact that it’s obviously disgusting to be transmisogynistic in any scenario, it shows you that all it takes is for people to disagree with you about something or for you to be wrong about something, and that same transmisogyny will be directed at you. you see the few other transfeminine people who have also been trying to uplift transmasculine people get harassed out of these spaces that you thought were safe.

so you try and get out of the discourse. spend more time with non-serious stuff. you look at trans memes, follow other trans women who have similar interests to you, but the discourse follows you.

you try and find posts about transmisogyny, the suffocating oppressive force that is obvious in the way the majority of people treat you every single day. you try and brush off tme/tma usage because, sure, its not perfect, but we need terminology to talk about this stuff, and most of the posts you see are generally accurate. but then the vitriol starts coming in. ‘tranandrobros’ this and ‘tMRA’ that. posts implying or explicitly saying you must be tme if you disagree them. and you sigh, and try and block and move on, but the posts just keep coming.

so you give up. stop following the transfem blogs who are putting this stuff on your feed, but by the time you’ve done that you barely have any left, and almost none of them talk about transmisogyny at all, let alone often or in depth.

A teenager cannot get body modifications. But a parent can pierce a baby's ears.

A teenager (or even a 20 year old) cannot buy cigarettes. But a parent can smoke in places where their toddler is forced to be.

cis-person-ally Follow

hey, I know making up a word for your own "oppression" feels good, but have you considered that nothing you experience uniquely occurs to trans men? I know this is hard to process for you birthday bois, but I recommend the term transemasculation. this means the only trans-specific oppression you face is comparable to cis men having their feelings hurt!

tmetransguy Follow

I fucking hate other TMEs man I wish they'd finally die or detransition so I stop getting confused for MRA transandrobro truthers everytime I follow somebody

thesamethingyoureadeveryweek Follow

you guys do experience transphobia, but you inherently have male privilege. you are not oppressed for being a man. you don't experience misogyny. when you transition irl everyone accepts you, because women- I mean trans men ditching femininity for masculinity is rewarded

15 comments from fite-club trying to start shit Unblock

fandomdiscourseblog Follow

all of you in the tag report this fucking freak documenting-transphobia until the blog is gone, they said they don't care what people do in fiction even if they personally find it distasteful

documenting-transphobia Follow

ja ok entschuldigung dass ich gefragt hab, i'll just go fuck myself then i guess.

I should not have to post about transmasc issues with a disclaimer that "of course" trans women are hurt worse by this. I should not have to apologize for posting about transmasc issues instead of transfemme issues.