Hiii! Welcome to this goddamn mess I call my blog where I dump all my thoughts and free time!! Call me Owl (adult, TME, pronouns she/they) hereβs some fun facts I want you to know about me:
πΎI'm a furry but also enjoy non-furry media (or whatever scratches my brain lol)
πI love animals, especially bugs, especially hymenopterans, especially wasps. Wasp pictures are always welcome in my inbox just saying.
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-Dungeon Meshi
-Ghost Trick: Phantom Detective
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-The Promised Neverland
-Dandadan
-Night in the Woods
-Undertale/Deltarune
-Hollow Knight
-Amphibia
-Some other things I'm probably forgetting but will add if i remember lol
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β¨οΈHablo espaΓ±ol (soy chilena)
Ok uhhh yeah that's it! Just a mini introduction. Since you took the time to read this you should listen to El Cuarteto de Nos. Just saying.
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I honestly think that Project Hail Mary is a better story if you read Grace as being aromantic and asexual. People should be having Markiplier fuck the alien tbh, there's your crossover ship.
itβs so hard for me to listen to heartbroken/angry breakup songs by straight men bc no matter how good the song is iβll be like iβm not sure if i fully believe you. letβs hear her side of the story.
If you think I would ever abandon you then you clearly haven't understood that I have latched on to you and have exactly zero intention of letting go. You couldn't get rid of me if you tried. Love you <3
I wouldn't have it any other way you aren't getting away from me ever <3
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Lately I've been thinking a lot about the whole "sex-repulsed aces and romance-repulsed aros are extremely rare" thing and I think this βοΈ is the cause. When you're a romance-repulsed aromantic you kinda have to accept that you'll never reach what is supposed to be the end-all-be-all for relationships and everyone around you will. You have to conform yourself to being a superficial relationship in everyone else's life. So its very hard to accept for a lot of people.
Similar for sex-repulsed aces, so many alloromantic ace folks tell themselves that a partner would never want someone who doesn't like sex so they just kinda. Push it down. They're afraid that if they say no they'll be abandoned. Because "asexuals can still have sex so its okay!"
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Sick of the TME view of gender as a radical performance of nonconformity rather than the existence of nonconformity and gender being radical through external force declaring it such. Wanting to be taboo vs the natural state of existence being seen as taboo.
yes!!!! too many of them act like it's this game of fucking with the status quo and playing with taboo that trans women have some kind of advantage in, because to be hated more is to Win, and they are Losing because their expressions of gender are seen as more acceptable
It's been too long! I warmly welcome you all back to Wordy Wednesday, the series where I teach you a thing or two about common non-monogamous vocabulary and its origins.
This week's word is Queerplatonic.
Without looking it up, what do you think "Queerplatonic" means?
The "chosen family" bond formed between queer people
Platonic attraction to someone who gives off LGBT vibes
A relationship type that is intimate and committed, but NOT romantic or platonic
A synonym for "situationship"
Remaining time: 6 days 8 hours
Answer below the cut!
Queerplatonic (adjective) is "a term for an intimate, non-romantic committed relationship. It typically goes beyond what is considered normal or socially acceptable for a platonic relationship but is not romantic in nature or does not fully fit the traditional idea of a romantic relationship."
The term was coined in a thread on DreamWidth in December 2010 by s.e. smith, also known as meloukhia. They later posted the definition of the term in a Tumblr post. s.e. smith is a journalist, essayist, and author, as well as one of the cofounders of Flytrap Media. Their Tumblr blog is no longer active, but they do have a website that includes links to their published books and articles.
Okay... I know what you're thinking.
Why is a polyamory blog posting about an aromantic term?
The term "queerplatonic" isn't just for aromantic people.
In their coining post, smith made it clear that queerplatonic relationships and attraction are intended for anyone to use: "Anyone, sexual or asexual, romantic or aromantic, straight, gay, queer, bi, lesbian, poly, cis, trans, etc etc can be in a queerplatonic relationship, can have more than one such relationship, and there can be more than two people in a queerplatonic relationship; couples, triads, quads, whatever." The point of the term isn't to provide a substitute for romance for aromantic people; it's to describe a type of relationship/attraction that already existed in the real world among people of all romantic orientations.
Queerplatonic relationships challenge amatonormativity, just like non-monogamous relationships do.
A large part of practicing non-monogamy is deconstructing amatonormativity, as I've mentioned on this blog before. In the process of doing so, we often find that our feelings and relationships aren't always what they might have seemed from an amatonormative perspective! Polyamorous and ENM folks often find that we build connections with our partners that are shaped or textured differently from the clean-cut monogamous romance we've come to expect. While not every relationship or attraction can be easily labeled, "queerplatonic" is a great term to add to our toolkits because it describes something that doesn't quite fit amatonormative standards.
That's all for this week. Stay tuned for another episode! (Hopefully next week but no promises.)
(Sources: LGBTQIA+ Wiki's page on Queerplatonic Relationship, DreamWidth coining thread, Tumblr coining post, s.e. smith's about page)
If Sammy Thunder has million fans, then I'm one of them.
If Sammy Thunder has one fan, then I'm THAT ONE.
If Sammy Thunder has no fans, that means I'm dead.
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i know folks are gonna call me a pedo for this one, but i grew up seeing my mom and grandma naked. they had health issues and at times needed care and help showering. and i truly think more kids need to be shown the nonsexual reality of naked women at a young age. there is nothing sexual about my grandmothers breasts, they were simply body parts. more women die of heart attacks because people are too afraid of breasts to do real chest compressions, because they are scared to touch their breasts. the sexualization of our bodies literally kills us. i need people to be more normal about naked bodies and i'm 100% serious.
I grew up around naked old people who weren't even my family! Gasp! And it was a good thing. I grew up around old-school hippies at a place called Lothlorien (in Indiana) and one of my friends dads held a sauna day every Sunday in the middle of the woods (like you cannot drive to their house, you park about a quarter mile away and walk into the woods kind of woods). All day random old people came to get naked, high (pot), and sweaty. Just random old peen and boobs swaying with the leaves. No big deal. These are things that I believe made me more at home in my body, made me more excited about aging, made me more willing to fight for my security and safety.
Bodies are just bodies. Nothing sacred and nothing inherently shameful or sinful either. The fact that we still can't get that through everyone in however many years it's been is just fucking idiotic.
