this is so funny
I have no idea who Demi Lovato is so this has been such a weird week for me.
Demi Lovato is a former disney channel child actress. She has always been this annoying.
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this is so funny
I have no idea who Demi Lovato is so this has been such a weird week for me.
Demi Lovato is a former disney channel child actress. She has always been this annoying.

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Someone posts a dumb protest sign on /r/pics. Reddit roasts the idiot.
A moment of silence for all the teenage girls (and their dogs) who were murdered in cold blood by the Federal Clothing Bureau when it was found their tank tops had been illegally shortened one inch below regulation.
Or when someone called in an ERPO because they felt a girlâs skirt was going to hurt herself and others.
Hey, maybe the thing about the gun argument is that, you say bullshit. Literally have been proven wrong and still say bullshit that literally takes half a minute to prove you wrong or point out some holesâor even is just plain disgusting.
Your response to people being shot is âwe shouldnât have gun control, lol, I donât want my assault weapon taken from me.â Thatâs fucking disgusting.
You be shot and still say you want the person with that gun to be allowed to have that gun.
People died, families lost their loved ones, and instead of hearing their pain and thinking maybe we should prevent shooters from shooting, you fucking assholes defend having assault weapons and try to push for less gun control.
Think with your brains and maybe youâd be less disgusting.
Define âassault weaponâ.
Semi-automatic and automatic firearms, usuallyâbut not alwaysâcontaining a detachable magazine and a revolving cylinder.
> semi and fully-automatics, including those with detachable magazines and revolving cylinders
Youâre⌠essentially banning every weapon from the 20th century onwards, then. There are weapons used by cowboys that would ban. By that definition, this 1884 pistol would be an âassault weaponâ
The only guns that would leave are like manual-action guns and bloody black powder guns. Thatâs a ridiculous definition. Countries like Austria and the Czech Republic allow civilians to own semi-automatics, and they have nowhere near the level of violence the US has.
Again - if you take away semi-automatics, all you leave behind are manual-action guns, like double-barrel shotguns, and black-powder weapons. Itâs a stupid definition, and it shouldnât be accepted.
I think Wikipedia is a bit more reputable than you buddy, and the minute you start saying Wikipedia is not a reputable source, it has a good factual reporting. So, essentially, the definition I am giving is one that is from a source.
Youâre not listening! Iâm saying itâs a stupid definition because it bans so much! Saying âoh, we need to ban all semi-automaticsâ is dumb, especially since there are other countries that allow people to own these so-called âassault weaponsâ and they have NOWHERE NEAR the level of gun violence, or violence in general, that the US has.
Just because you think the definition is stupid doesnât mean it isnât what it means, I think a tomato being a fruit is stupid but it doesnât mean itâs suddenly not a fruit.
Fine, then I oppose any bans on so-called âassault weaponsâ. Happy?
Okay, why? The ban causes less death, obviously, so why?
https://law.stanford.edu/2019/10/15/the-assault-weapon-ban-saved-lives/
Our recent New York Times article provided important new empirical evidence that the federal assault weapons ban (AWB) â in place from 1994-
Cause it doesnât address the root of the problem. Like I said, in countries like Austria and the Czech Republic, it is legal to own semi-automatics for self defence, and they have lower rates of violent crime than the US.
There is clearly a deeper issue here than just âpeople have semi-automaticsâ.
Every Gotdamn week
Is anyone noticing that these people constantly post articles with data that comes from Mother Jones, who specifically withheld certain types of data like gang violence, and other bad methodology? The very article posted says that 271 fatalities have occurred due to assault weapons for 2014-2019. Yet, FBI statistics say that over the course of that period more than 103,000 homicides involved firearms. Mass shooting homicides account for less than .2% of all homicides, and less than .25% of all firearms homicides. For reference, the rate of knives being used is about 1,500 instances per year, so 5% of all homicides.Shit, even in the FBI statistics, homemade firearms, shotguns, blunt force objects, and limbs were used more often than assault weapons in homicide. And they love to ignore handguns being the biggest chunk of guns used to kill people. That includes the single action revolvers, and even flintlock pistols. And even when you look at it by state, the states with lax gun laws have less homicide than states with stricter gun laws. Even New York state, which has some of the strictest gun laws in the country, has a higher firearm homicide rate than ANY of the states on the list that are constitutional carry/permitless carry.
They post wikipedia articles saying to just look at the sources in the article, and theyâre not from any government source but the fucking New York Times and the Philadelphia Media Network. The same wiki article this person way above posted says the AR15 is the civilian variant of the M-16, when that is blatantly untrue. For those who donât know, the AR15 was designed specifically for the civilian market, and it wasnât until the manufacturer was trying to sell the gun did the military ask for a milspec version to be made.
These people think putting a bayonet lug on your gun makes it an assault weapon. Every rifle since the beginning of rifles has had something to stick the bayonet on to. Even muzzle loaders. And you bet they would have muskets banned as assault weapons if they could swing it.
I will never forget the year the police shot rubber bullets & teargas at children & journalists & medics, and then welcomed a mob of white terrorists into the Capitol building. The entire U.S. government should be on trial for crimes against humanity
They shot and killed a woman
The Capitol protestors didn't kill a single person, didn't loot, didn't set shit on fire and broke like one window
In a GOVERNMENT building not small black-owned businesses like we've been telling BLM they should've done all this year
You're blinded by propaganda
would love to know what you people think the reason for the MAGA tantrum was vs the reason for the BLM movement.
BLM is a bunch of assholes that go around bitching every time a black person get killed by the cops, while 90% of the time trying to kill said cops. All the while, theyâve killed more black people this year and cops have, and more than one of them was under the age of 18.
Protestors showed up because they had a problem with how the election was handled (like states being told by their own constitution that they canât use mail in voting, and ignoring it, and not actually checking if the ballot was a registered voter.) Less than 500 people actually went in the capitol building, and they managed not to kill anyone. You can call them trumptards all you want, but at least they took their problem to the right people.
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Indentured servitude is opresssion.
Indentured servitude is not chattel slavery.
The Irish were oppressed and have a history of indentured servitude.
The Irish were not bought and sold or held as property generation to generation.
Please stop confusing the two. Thanks.
If youâre gonna reblog this, you should reblog it with the addition which actually has sources and disproves this entire tweet.
Yes the Irish were bought and sold.
Yes the Irish were multigenerational slaves.
This is historical revisionism of the exact type that they accuse people of when someone mentions the history of Irish slavery.
Girl didnât they trample that cop to death? I know one died by suicide a day or two later but I thought they trampled a separate guy day of.
At least one cop did actually seem to have died.Â
They seem to actually have, I apologize.
I legit thought I saw a retraction of it a day or two agoâŚ
The guy who got trampled lived. The guy who got hit with a fire extinguisher died of a stroke later on.

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This is not normal. This will NEVER be normal.
Thankfully the riot-inciting vermin, otherwise known as donald trump, has had his Twitter account blocked for the next 12 hours.
https://www.nytimes.com/2021/01/06/technology/violence-election-capitol-hill-social-media.amp.html
The move came after critics and even some allies of companies like Twitter and Facebook said they failed to prevent the misinformation that
This is why.
You are being played.
I will never forget the year the police shot rubber bullets & teargas at children & journalists & medics, and then welcomed a mob of white terrorists into the Capitol building. The entire U.S. government should be on trial for crimes against humanity
They shot and killed a woman
The Capitol protestors didn't kill a single person, didn't loot, didn't set shit on fire and broke like one window
In a GOVERNMENT building not small black-owned businesses like we've been telling BLM they should've done all this year
You're blinded by propaganda
Woman who was shot being treated on scene.
neuroscientists: porn is fucking people up and we dont even know the half of it
research grant boards: yikes thats screwed up, do you have a solution?
neuroscientists: not really, its so deeply entrenched in modern culture and we dont even know where to start when it comes to untangling it. this is essentially uncharted territory
research grant boards: hmâŚ..cancel order *funds research on humans cumming in space* instead
In undergrad, I was told that itâs basically impossible to get funding on porn research because we know itâs so harmful. You can do correlational studies based on self-report, but you canât do experimental studies where you expose people to pornography and then study some kind of outcome. The potential harms to participants and the people around them are considered to outweigh the benefits of studying it.
Which⌠thereâs a lot to unpack there.
Basically, there havenât been any good experimental studies on porn exposure since the 90s. Because, even by that point, research was overwhelmingly converging on âporn is harmful.â Yâall hang out around here, you know the effects - acceptance of rape myths, distorted perception of sexual norms, sexual dysfunction, cruelty or lack of compassion towards women, etc etc etc. These effects were found through both experimental and correlational studies based on self-reported, self-selected porn watching outside of a lab.
The latter is the only thing youâre still allowed to do (mostly). Unfortunately, it is now nearly impossible to perform good research on the subject, because itâs so difficult to find a control group. At least if youâre studying men. Nearly all men watch pornography regularly. In fact, one of the only populations you can still study with a decent control group is teenagers. But research on minors has its own ethical red tape, to say nothing of getting guardians to agree to it, so it doesnât happen much either. So, with no control group to compare it to, youâre going to get weak results at best. You can compare self-reported volumes or types of porn watching between each other, but thatâs really about it.Â
In some ways, the ethical considerations have become somewhat pointless. If all men are watching porn, what does it matter if they watch it in a lab or not? But since you basically canât find men who havenât been exposed to porn, and you canât guarantee that these men arenât going home between lab sessions and watching porn, porn-related research will be limited to the immediate effects of exposure. And youâve still got an uphill battle to explain to an ethics board why your research on immediate effects of porn exposure, which you know will be harmful in some way, is going to add to the existing literature in a way that is significant enough to be worth the harm. Because, regardless of if these people are going home to harm themselves in the exact same way, itâs still generally unethical to expose people to known harms to study the effects.Â
And because we know porn watching is addictive, that further complicates the ethical considerations. To give a fair analogy, itâs similarly difficult to get approval for an experimental in-lab study on the effects of giving opiates to people. We know what it does, we know itâs harmful, and we know itâs addictive, so unless you have some truly groundbreaking new research idea and some way to significantly mitigate the harm, youâre not going to get approval for that. (Ex: You can get approval for testing a new opiate that you think has a lower possibility for abuse, especially if you plan on testing it on people with chronic pain disorders or terminal cancer patients or something. Thatâs groundbreaking, thereâs a way to mitigate harm, and it has the potential to do more good than harm. You canât just get approval to give a bunch of Dilaudid to undergrads to test, say, how it affects short-term memory.)
TLDR, itâs not just that scientists donât care. Itâs that itâs basically impossible to do ethical porn research in any way that would provide meaningful results.
Brilliant analysis, thank you!
Omg itâs like me if I had a degree in research.
Yâall hang out around here, you know the effects - acceptance of rape myths, distorted perception of sexual norms, sexual dysfunction, cruelty or lack of compassion towards women, etc etc etc
I also know those effects have been widely disputed and blown out of proportion by paranoid nutters, so with that in mind I went googling to confirm what OP and mothermayhem were saying, and I found that the field has more problems with confirmation bias because of Tabooâs around porn in society, and in a meta-study done by researchers at Middlesex University in England, out of 40,000 papers only 276 were worth consideration because of the low quality of the studies in the field.
I did find one named study by one Dolf Zillmann. According to ZillmannâŚ
The values expressed in pornography clash so obviously with the family concept, and they potentially undermine the traditional values that favor marriage, family, and children ⌠Pornographic scripts dwell on sexual engagements of parties who have just met, who are in no way attached or committed to each other, and who will part shortly, never to meet again ⌠Sexual gratification in pornography is not a function of emotional attachment, of kindness, of caring, and especially not of continuance of the relationship, as such continuance would translate into responsibilities, curtailments, and costs ..
Basically, âPorn makes you not want to be man and wife and makes you horny.â The study was criticized by others for seemingly forgetting that any adult who can function in society can also distinguish between fantasy and reality and the studyâs idea of human behavior is overly simplistic and childish.
The âPorn causes men to become basically misogynisticâ theory seems to come from Gail Dines, a Feminist who butchered the study to claim;
[Porn] alters perceptions of sexuality; specifically, it fosters presumptions of popularity for less common sexual practices; breeds discontent with the physical appearance and the sexual performance of intimate partners; trivializes rape as a criminal offense and also trivializes sexual child abuse as a criminal offense; and promotes insensitivity toward victims of sexual violence and promotes menâs beliefs that they would be capable of committing rape. In addition, habitual male consumers of common pornography appear to be at greater risk of becoming sexually callous and sexually violent toward women than occasional users.
Not only does the above seem to assume that women donât consume porn or arenât affected by it, it makes the same mistake as the study, forgetting that people are able to tell the difference between fantasy and reality.
It also got immediately contradicted by another feminist, Avedon Carol who claimed that Zillmann was trying to make a hit piece against feminist goals at the time and that he failed to prove porn makes men violent misogynists.
When somebody tells me that we âalready know the effects,â thatâs a red flag right there. Unless youâre pulling receipts, Iâm not taking this at face value.
People on tumblr donât think women watch porn. Well you might not watch it but yaâll certainly fucking read it.
I remember reading once⢠that women consume just as much, if not more pornographic material than men, but only if you stopped looking at obvious sources; i.e. in this example, basically âwhat the heck do you think romance novels are?â Sure, thereâs fluffy romance novels, but a lot of them are incredibly graphic sexual content. Like incredibly. A lot of those do not have healthy depictions of relationships either.Â
Considering how many women bought and read 50 Shades while people are still claiming women donât consume porn is baffling. - Purple
I welcome âsocially consciousâ people trying to put the kibosh on porn. Because their transition will be complete. They really will be the old conservative fuddy-duddies using things like religion and institutions and âsocietyâ to push their controlling fantasies down on people. They just think because it doesnât involve Jesus or a visible church that itâs not the same thing as any other religion or social organization that uses sexual guilt and shaming and stigma to control sex and its expression.
And it even has the equivalent of class related offenses. You doing cocaine? Youâre probably a High Society child of wealth, you little scamp. You doing crack? Reprehensible! Mandatory minimum of TWENTY YEARS, DUNGEON.
âPORN!? How BASE and DISGUSTING. Penetrative sex and emotionless mechanical RUTTING!â Right before they personfiy another country into a cute anime boy that looks like a neotonous dick sheath to SHIP them with another, like a Hetalia loser, write another Full Metal Alchemist mpreg coffee shop AU or scream at their monitor over the next K-Pop star. Or just swoon over another romance novel with Fabio on the cover.
^ that last paragraph had me cracking up because itâs so true
âPorn isnât bad if you WRITE IT DOWN and objectify MEN instead of women!â basically.
And Iâll admit itâs not really a substitute for actual sex the same way that McDonaldâs isnât really a substitute for actual homemade nutritious food. But sometimes you have to take what you can get, or you have a craving for something different.
Some more things when I say that many anti-porn statistics and journals are riddled with personal/religious/social bias.Â
A handful of researchers are working to close that knowledge gap but itâs not an easy field to work in. â[Pornography] is a highly politicized and sensitive topic,â notes Janssen. âItâs hard to get funding for sex research in general, unless itâs in the context of sexually transmitted diseases.â
The article even mentions how it is difficult to get funding on anything sex related unless it is an STD and that it isnât taken seriously. Because of this, any privately-funded âresearchâ can basically get whatever butchered statistics they want. itâs why you hardly ever see statistics from blatantly anti-pornography websites being cited anywhere other than twitter, tumblr, or opinion pieces because there is a such thing as a credible source. Many of which, they are not.Â
I wish anti-porn people could just take a look at any teenage femaleâs diary or journal, or fanfiction reading history. And half the romance novels that sell millions everyday are low key some of the dirtiest, most graphic books Iâve read.

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Iâll try to gather the courage to post some more of these, there are worse if you cannot imagine.
I just cannot stand watching everything until the end, but seeing the barbarity ourselves before calling your attention to it is necessary...
The next one could be my home, my friendsâ, my relativesâ. And if youâre not loud and clear enough, who knows..
Dear Gay Men,
You are not the âstraightsâ of the community
You are not the privileged elite
You have real struggles, real fears, and real oppression
You did not get your rights from others, you donât have to grovel at their feet
Gay men fought for our right to live and love as freely and happily as anyone else!
Donât let anyone make you feel like there is no place at the table for you
â¨â¤đđđđâ¨
Why would you reblog from someone who is really anti-trans?
While he is right about that post, itâs wrong to give people like OP a platform.
Which of my beliefs is anti-trans? Meaning this sincerely, if youâd care to talk about it
No worries either way đ
Arenât you the guy who sees gay trans men as homophobic fetishy girls?
I recognize that trans men are female, and that trans men who would define their attraction to âcis menâ as âgayâ are using that term incorrectly. I would define âgayâ accurately to a synonym of homosexual, which is someone exclusively compatible with their own sex
And I would have a huge issue with them, as heterosexual or bisexual females, calling themselves gay men or homosexuals. I would also take issue with any demand that they be included in spaces for gay men, as they are not homosexual males and do not experience the reality of being a homosexual male
I think there are self-identified âgay trans menâ who are very homophobic and fetishize gay men. Not all, obviously. But there are many heterosexual trans men who call themselves âgayâ or âfagâ or other slurs while acting very similarly to any other straight female person who fetishizes gay men and our relationships
However to broadly paint the entire self-identified âgay trans menâ community in simplistic terms as âhomophobic fetishistic girlsâ isnât nuanced. It doesnât do much good for any side
Also, I do avoid calling trans men women or girls as I donât believe this is necessary or helping anyone. I will recognize and directly address their biological sex, however, this is only because I cannot discuss sexuality and the issue of homophobia without directly and unambiguously recognizing and verbalizing biological sex
Personally I donât mind and take issue with trans men calling themselves gay.
If the cis gay men are fine with trans men in their spaces then what is the issue? I used to admin an mlm server that had cis and trans men and we didnât have any issues there.
I think that the main problem with homophobia is very loud crazy radical trans men and brainwashed ideologue trender TIFS. Those are the majority of homophobic cases from my experience.
Personally I donât count non-dysphorics as trans.
If people want to create mlm spaces and terms, Iâm not going to stop them
But I need, want, and deserve a word for what I am: a homosexual male
My life experiences, and those of other homosexuals, are inherently tied to our exclusive compatibility with the same sex
I need, want, and deserve a word to identify myself as someone who exists with these experiences and meet/organize with others facing those circumstances
I need, want, and deserve spaces for only homosexuals. Not those who identify as homosexual. Not those who could be mistaken as homosexual. Those who are exclusively attracted to the same sex, without any choice in the matter, and who live life with many of the same experiences as myself due to this fact
This cannot happen if the basis of the words we identify with such as gay, homosexual, or lesbian no longer mean âthose who are exclusively compatible with the same sexâ
âŚâŚâŚâŚâŚâŚâŚâŚâŚâŚâŚ..
What is the intrinsic and vital difference between a dysphoric heterosexual female person and a non-dysphoric heterosexual female person that one may call themselves gay but not the other?
There are dysphoric female persons who do not, or no longer, identify as trans men. Are they also allowed to call themselves gay? Why or why not? Where is the line differentiating them?
âŚâŚâŚâŚâŚâŚâŚâŚâŚâŚâŚ..
Regardless of whether someone is a âloud crazy radicalâ or the sweetest, nicest person Iâve ever met, a heterosexual describing themselves as gay and believing they deserve, inherently, access to LG spaces on that basis cannot be anything other than insensitive to the reality of homosexuals in our world
I would even go so far as to call it homophobic
Itâs factually incorrect that a female person attracted to the opposite sex can claim to be the same as a male exclusively attracted to the same sex. It is ethically incorrect to claim, as a heterosexual, that you are gay
Literally every single experience is unique. Two gay people living in the same area will have different stories and background. This is why all those âsafe spacesâ are bullshit, itâs literally just another iteration of the progressive stack and serves to other you from the mainstream society instead of trying to integrate.
Hey, listen, I have a penor and Iâm currently dating someone as a penor, do I belong in your âspaceâ, despite us passing as a straight couple on the street? Keep in mind I live in Russia and was already beaten up because I was perceived to be a Russian equivalent of a âfagâ?
Are you seriously suggesting we throw class analysis away on the basis of individual experiences?
All women have unique experiences, yet they can come together and recognize their collective experience of being female and suffering under misogyny
All black men and women have unique experiences, yet they can come together and recognize their collective experience of being black and suffering under racism
All gay men have unique experiences, but we come together and recognize our collective experience of being homosexual, exclusively compatible with the same sex, and consequently suffering under homophobia
Class analysis is collectivist nonsense that only creates divides between people instead of mending them.
It was only meant to be applied to wealth disparity and even thenit was proven to not work by the explosive growth of the quality of life in a post-industrial world.
Your adherence to a dead ideology is what prevents real progress and real equality, not the other way around.
Stop being obsessed with identity and class and start treating people on a case-by-case basis.
So ignore that there are very real and dangerous implications for being exclusively attracted to the same sex, that all people with that trait are targeted for having that trait, and donât make a word for that experience in order to cooperate with one another and do something about it
Thatâs just collectivist nonsense
Got it
Dude, I live in Russia, I know what both oppression and collectivism are: bad.
If you think social conservatives like trans people for some reason, then I need to remind you of a time a few years ago when a trans woman with a birth sex ID tried to marry a cis woman and that caused a HUGE scandal and almost prevented trans people from being married at all in Russia. Youâre not the only one fighting the status quo.
@hidetothink Donât speak for other women. We have our own voices that can say what weâve suffered under. For the record I donât suffer under misogyny, because I donât deal with misogyny.
yea you do lmao
Fucking where and when?
ever single woman (adult human female) faces misogyny
I am an adult human female. I donât face misogyny. Maybe itâs because I figured out how to put my big girl panties on. Who knows.
ah yes.. facing oppression is totally a choice
I suppose it is, considering Iâve never been oppressed.
damn so youâre just.. pro oppression
Or maybe not every little thing is oppression. Have you considered growing a spine?
New sewing machine: Nooo I need software updates.
My 1904 Singer 15: Just put your back into treadling, I can sew through more layers than you dare to attempt and I will still sew through them when the sun burns out if you remember to oil me
My digital watch from like 2004: perma-dead. You think a new battery will help? It laughs at your pain. It mocks your futile scrambling. Nothing can bring it back
My pocket watch from 1872: tick tock bitch
Planned obsolescence
1970s fridge: eats more electricity than the entire state of Wisconsin and roars like a King Kong in heat, doesnât even make ice
Comparing a family car to a sports car is so stupid i donât know where to start
Coding was invented FOR the sewing machines
Digital watch: cheaply made in a factory but because itâs likely quartz-based itâs stupidly accurate
1872 watch: meticulously created by an artisan, costs like an entire house, will still need constant readjustment
Itâs almost like you guys are comparing apples to oranges
I can state for a fact cars from the mid to late 90â˛s are just built better. You still see hundreds of Mercury and Buicks from that era, all of them basically the same model. My grandmother owns one, and those fucking cars do not die. Theyâre built to last, but building to last isnât profitable for the company who makes them or the mechanics who repair them. They also get shockingly good mileage for cars that old.
Theyâre also STUPIDLY DANGEROUS compared to modern cars which are specifically designed to crumble so that the shock of the impact wouldnât turn your skeleton into a jelly.
Modern car will be a complete wreck, but the driver and passengers will just be mildly bruised, while that Buick will inject the whole-ass engine in your face if you bump a passing car wrong.
Those old Buicks and Mercury cars actually used a lot of the tech we see in most cars now. An old Chevy might put an engine in your lap, but the Buick will most likely toss it down and out the same way a new car would.
Dear Gay Men,
You are not the âstraightsâ of the community
You are not the privileged elite
You have real struggles, real fears, and real oppression
You did not get your rights from others, you donât have to grovel at their feet
Gay men fought for our right to live and love as freely and happily as anyone else!
Donât let anyone make you feel like there is no place at the table for you
â¨â¤đđđđâ¨
Why would you reblog from someone who is really anti-trans?
While he is right about that post, itâs wrong to give people like OP a platform.
Which of my beliefs is anti-trans? Meaning this sincerely, if youâd care to talk about it
No worries either way đ
Arenât you the guy who sees gay trans men as homophobic fetishy girls?
I recognize that trans men are female, and that trans men who would define their attraction to âcis menâ as âgayâ are using that term incorrectly. I would define âgayâ accurately to a synonym of homosexual, which is someone exclusively compatible with their own sex
And I would have a huge issue with them, as heterosexual or bisexual females, calling themselves gay men or homosexuals. I would also take issue with any demand that they be included in spaces for gay men, as they are not homosexual males and do not experience the reality of being a homosexual male
I think there are self-identified âgay trans menâ who are very homophobic and fetishize gay men. Not all, obviously. But there are many heterosexual trans men who call themselves âgayâ or âfagâ or other slurs while acting very similarly to any other straight female person who fetishizes gay men and our relationships
However to broadly paint the entire self-identified âgay trans menâ community in simplistic terms as âhomophobic fetishistic girlsâ isnât nuanced. It doesnât do much good for any side
Also, I do avoid calling trans men women or girls as I donât believe this is necessary or helping anyone. I will recognize and directly address their biological sex, however, this is only because I cannot discuss sexuality and the issue of homophobia without directly and unambiguously recognizing and verbalizing biological sex
Personally I donât mind and take issue with trans men calling themselves gay.
If the cis gay men are fine with trans men in their spaces then what is the issue? I used to admin an mlm server that had cis and trans men and we didnât have any issues there.
I think that the main problem with homophobia is very loud crazy radical trans men and brainwashed ideologue trender TIFS. Those are the majority of homophobic cases from my experience.
Personally I donât count non-dysphorics as trans.
If people want to create mlm spaces and terms, Iâm not going to stop them
But I need, want, and deserve a word for what I am: a homosexual male
My life experiences, and those of other homosexuals, are inherently tied to our exclusive compatibility with the same sex
I need, want, and deserve a word to identify myself as someone who exists with these experiences and meet/organize with others facing those circumstances
I need, want, and deserve spaces for only homosexuals. Not those who identify as homosexual. Not those who could be mistaken as homosexual. Those who are exclusively attracted to the same sex, without any choice in the matter, and who live life with many of the same experiences as myself due to this fact
This cannot happen if the basis of the words we identify with such as gay, homosexual, or lesbian no longer mean âthose who are exclusively compatible with the same sexâ
âŚâŚâŚâŚâŚâŚâŚâŚâŚâŚâŚ..
What is the intrinsic and vital difference between a dysphoric heterosexual female person and a non-dysphoric heterosexual female person that one may call themselves gay but not the other?
There are dysphoric female persons who do not, or no longer, identify as trans men. Are they also allowed to call themselves gay? Why or why not? Where is the line differentiating them?
âŚâŚâŚâŚâŚâŚâŚâŚâŚâŚâŚ..
Regardless of whether someone is a âloud crazy radicalâ or the sweetest, nicest person Iâve ever met, a heterosexual describing themselves as gay and believing they deserve, inherently, access to LG spaces on that basis cannot be anything other than insensitive to the reality of homosexuals in our world
I would even go so far as to call it homophobic
Itâs factually incorrect that a female person attracted to the opposite sex can claim to be the same as a male exclusively attracted to the same sex. It is ethically incorrect to claim, as a heterosexual, that you are gay
Literally every single experience is unique. Two gay people living in the same area will have different stories and background. This is why all those âsafe spacesâ are bullshit, itâs literally just another iteration of the progressive stack and serves to other you from the mainstream society instead of trying to integrate.
Hey, listen, I have a penor and Iâm currently dating someone as a penor, do I belong in your âspaceâ, despite us passing as a straight couple on the street? Keep in mind I live in Russia and was already beaten up because I was perceived to be a Russian equivalent of a âfagâ?
Are you seriously suggesting we throw class analysis away on the basis of individual experiences?
All women have unique experiences, yet they can come together and recognize their collective experience of being female and suffering under misogyny
All black men and women have unique experiences, yet they can come together and recognize their collective experience of being black and suffering under racism
All gay men have unique experiences, but we come together and recognize our collective experience of being homosexual, exclusively compatible with the same sex, and consequently suffering under homophobia
Class analysis is collectivist nonsense that only creates divides between people instead of mending them.
It was only meant to be applied to wealth disparity and even thenit was proven to not work by the explosive growth of the quality of life in a post-industrial world.
Your adherence to a dead ideology is what prevents real progress and real equality, not the other way around.
Stop being obsessed with identity and class and start treating people on a case-by-case basis.
So ignore that there are very real and dangerous implications for being exclusively attracted to the same sex, that all people with that trait are targeted for having that trait, and donât make a word for that experience in order to cooperate with one another and do something about it
Thatâs just collectivist nonsense
Got it
Dude, I live in Russia, I know what both oppression and collectivism are: bad.
If you think social conservatives like trans people for some reason, then I need to remind you of a time a few years ago when a trans woman with a birth sex ID tried to marry a cis woman and that caused a HUGE scandal and almost prevented trans people from being married at all in Russia. Youâre not the only one fighting the status quo.
@hidetothink Donât speak for other women. We have our own voices that can say what weâve suffered under. For the record I donât suffer under misogyny, because I donât deal with misogyny.
yea you do lmao
Fucking where and when?
ever single woman (adult human female) faces misogyny
I am an adult human female. I donât face misogyny. Maybe itâs because I figured out how to put my big girl panties on. Who knows.
ah yes.. facing oppression is totally a choice
I suppose it is, considering Iâve never been oppressed.
Dear Gay Men,
You are not the âstraightsâ of the community
You are not the privileged elite
You have real struggles, real fears, and real oppression
You did not get your rights from others, you donât have to grovel at their feet
Gay men fought for our right to live and love as freely and happily as anyone else!
Donât let anyone make you feel like there is no place at the table for you
â¨â¤đđđđâ¨
Why would you reblog from someone who is really anti-trans?
While he is right about that post, itâs wrong to give people like OP a platform.
Which of my beliefs is anti-trans? Meaning this sincerely, if youâd care to talk about it
No worries either way đ
Arenât you the guy who sees gay trans men as homophobic fetishy girls?
I recognize that trans men are female, and that trans men who would define their attraction to âcis menâ as âgayâ are using that term incorrectly. I would define âgayâ accurately to a synonym of homosexual, which is someone exclusively compatible with their own sex
And I would have a huge issue with them, as heterosexual or bisexual females, calling themselves gay men or homosexuals. I would also take issue with any demand that they be included in spaces for gay men, as they are not homosexual males and do not experience the reality of being a homosexual male
I think there are self-identified âgay trans menâ who are very homophobic and fetishize gay men. Not all, obviously. But there are many heterosexual trans men who call themselves âgayâ or âfagâ or other slurs while acting very similarly to any other straight female person who fetishizes gay men and our relationships
However to broadly paint the entire self-identified âgay trans menâ community in simplistic terms as âhomophobic fetishistic girlsâ isnât nuanced. It doesnât do much good for any side
Also, I do avoid calling trans men women or girls as I donât believe this is necessary or helping anyone. I will recognize and directly address their biological sex, however, this is only because I cannot discuss sexuality and the issue of homophobia without directly and unambiguously recognizing and verbalizing biological sex
Personally I donât mind and take issue with trans men calling themselves gay.
If the cis gay men are fine with trans men in their spaces then what is the issue? I used to admin an mlm server that had cis and trans men and we didnât have any issues there.
I think that the main problem with homophobia is very loud crazy radical trans men and brainwashed ideologue trender TIFS. Those are the majority of homophobic cases from my experience.
Personally I donât count non-dysphorics as trans.
If people want to create mlm spaces and terms, Iâm not going to stop them
But I need, want, and deserve a word for what I am: a homosexual male
My life experiences, and those of other homosexuals, are inherently tied to our exclusive compatibility with the same sex
I need, want, and deserve a word to identify myself as someone who exists with these experiences and meet/organize with others facing those circumstances
I need, want, and deserve spaces for only homosexuals. Not those who identify as homosexual. Not those who could be mistaken as homosexual. Those who are exclusively attracted to the same sex, without any choice in the matter, and who live life with many of the same experiences as myself due to this fact
This cannot happen if the basis of the words we identify with such as gay, homosexual, or lesbian no longer mean âthose who are exclusively compatible with the same sexâ
âŚâŚâŚâŚâŚâŚâŚâŚâŚâŚâŚ..
What is the intrinsic and vital difference between a dysphoric heterosexual female person and a non-dysphoric heterosexual female person that one may call themselves gay but not the other?
There are dysphoric female persons who do not, or no longer, identify as trans men. Are they also allowed to call themselves gay? Why or why not? Where is the line differentiating them?
âŚâŚâŚâŚâŚâŚâŚâŚâŚâŚâŚ..
Regardless of whether someone is a âloud crazy radicalâ or the sweetest, nicest person Iâve ever met, a heterosexual describing themselves as gay and believing they deserve, inherently, access to LG spaces on that basis cannot be anything other than insensitive to the reality of homosexuals in our world
I would even go so far as to call it homophobic
Itâs factually incorrect that a female person attracted to the opposite sex can claim to be the same as a male exclusively attracted to the same sex. It is ethically incorrect to claim, as a heterosexual, that you are gay
Literally every single experience is unique. Two gay people living in the same area will have different stories and background. This is why all those âsafe spacesâ are bullshit, itâs literally just another iteration of the progressive stack and serves to other you from the mainstream society instead of trying to integrate.
Hey, listen, I have a penor and Iâm currently dating someone as a penor, do I belong in your âspaceâ, despite us passing as a straight couple on the street? Keep in mind I live in Russia and was already beaten up because I was perceived to be a Russian equivalent of a âfagâ?
Are you seriously suggesting we throw class analysis away on the basis of individual experiences?
All women have unique experiences, yet they can come together and recognize their collective experience of being female and suffering under misogyny
All black men and women have unique experiences, yet they can come together and recognize their collective experience of being black and suffering under racism
All gay men have unique experiences, but we come together and recognize our collective experience of being homosexual, exclusively compatible with the same sex, and consequently suffering under homophobia
Class analysis is collectivist nonsense that only creates divides between people instead of mending them.
It was only meant to be applied to wealth disparity and even thenit was proven to not work by the explosive growth of the quality of life in a post-industrial world.
Your adherence to a dead ideology is what prevents real progress and real equality, not the other way around.
Stop being obsessed with identity and class and start treating people on a case-by-case basis.
So ignore that there are very real and dangerous implications for being exclusively attracted to the same sex, that all people with that trait are targeted for having that trait, and donât make a word for that experience in order to cooperate with one another and do something about it
Thatâs just collectivist nonsense
Got it
Dude, I live in Russia, I know what both oppression and collectivism are: bad.
If you think social conservatives like trans people for some reason, then I need to remind you of a time a few years ago when a trans woman with a birth sex ID tried to marry a cis woman and that caused a HUGE scandal and almost prevented trans people from being married at all in Russia. Youâre not the only one fighting the status quo.
@hidetothink Donât speak for other women. We have our own voices that can say what weâve suffered under. For the record I donât suffer under misogyny, because I donât deal with misogyny.
yea you do lmao
Fucking where and when?
ever single woman (adult human female) faces misogyny
I am an adult human female. I donât face misogyny. Maybe itâs because I figured out how to put my big girl panties on. Who knows.

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i'm not american but i didn't know about the christian discrimination stuff! that's good, hopefully christianity won't last too much longer at this rate :)
Thatâs what Nero thought in 60AD lol
Still going strong 2000 years later!
"Christianity shall end"
- Every empire that has ended
I LOVE THIS!!!!!
Hang about, what did the Qing and Japanese do against Catholicism? I know there was that whole Taiping Heavenly Kingdom business, but that hardly counts.
And then Vatican destroyed Christianity by fucking little kids
More than one type of Christian, Dash.
For now
You should see the general american distrust for Catholicism. I hear on at least a monthly basis here in the south that Catholics arenât christian because they have saints.
Dear Gay Men,
You are not the âstraightsâ of the community
You are not the privileged elite
You have real struggles, real fears, and real oppression
You did not get your rights from others, you donât have to grovel at their feet
Gay men fought for our right to live and love as freely and happily as anyone else!
Donât let anyone make you feel like there is no place at the table for you
â¨â¤đđđđâ¨
Why would you reblog from someone who is really anti-trans?
While he is right about that post, itâs wrong to give people like OP a platform.
Which of my beliefs is anti-trans? Meaning this sincerely, if youâd care to talk about it
No worries either way đ
Arenât you the guy who sees gay trans men as homophobic fetishy girls?
I recognize that trans men are female, and that trans men who would define their attraction to âcis menâ as âgayâ are using that term incorrectly. I would define âgayâ accurately to a synonym of homosexual, which is someone exclusively compatible with their own sex
And I would have a huge issue with them, as heterosexual or bisexual females, calling themselves gay men or homosexuals. I would also take issue with any demand that they be included in spaces for gay men, as they are not homosexual males and do not experience the reality of being a homosexual male
I think there are self-identified âgay trans menâ who are very homophobic and fetishize gay men. Not all, obviously. But there are many heterosexual trans men who call themselves âgayâ or âfagâ or other slurs while acting very similarly to any other straight female person who fetishizes gay men and our relationships
However to broadly paint the entire self-identified âgay trans menâ community in simplistic terms as âhomophobic fetishistic girlsâ isnât nuanced. It doesnât do much good for any side
Also, I do avoid calling trans men women or girls as I donât believe this is necessary or helping anyone. I will recognize and directly address their biological sex, however, this is only because I cannot discuss sexuality and the issue of homophobia without directly and unambiguously recognizing and verbalizing biological sex
Personally I donât mind and take issue with trans men calling themselves gay.
If the cis gay men are fine with trans men in their spaces then what is the issue? I used to admin an mlm server that had cis and trans men and we didnât have any issues there.
I think that the main problem with homophobia is very loud crazy radical trans men and brainwashed ideologue trender TIFS. Those are the majority of homophobic cases from my experience.
Personally I donât count non-dysphorics as trans.
If people want to create mlm spaces and terms, Iâm not going to stop them
But I need, want, and deserve a word for what I am: a homosexual male
My life experiences, and those of other homosexuals, are inherently tied to our exclusive compatibility with the same sex
I need, want, and deserve a word to identify myself as someone who exists with these experiences and meet/organize with others facing those circumstances
I need, want, and deserve spaces for only homosexuals. Not those who identify as homosexual. Not those who could be mistaken as homosexual. Those who are exclusively attracted to the same sex, without any choice in the matter, and who live life with many of the same experiences as myself due to this fact
This cannot happen if the basis of the words we identify with such as gay, homosexual, or lesbian no longer mean âthose who are exclusively compatible with the same sexâ
âŚâŚâŚâŚâŚâŚâŚâŚâŚâŚâŚ..
What is the intrinsic and vital difference between a dysphoric heterosexual female person and a non-dysphoric heterosexual female person that one may call themselves gay but not the other?
There are dysphoric female persons who do not, or no longer, identify as trans men. Are they also allowed to call themselves gay? Why or why not? Where is the line differentiating them?
âŚâŚâŚâŚâŚâŚâŚâŚâŚâŚâŚ..
Regardless of whether someone is a âloud crazy radicalâ or the sweetest, nicest person Iâve ever met, a heterosexual describing themselves as gay and believing they deserve, inherently, access to LG spaces on that basis cannot be anything other than insensitive to the reality of homosexuals in our world
I would even go so far as to call it homophobic
Itâs factually incorrect that a female person attracted to the opposite sex can claim to be the same as a male exclusively attracted to the same sex. It is ethically incorrect to claim, as a heterosexual, that you are gay
Literally every single experience is unique. Two gay people living in the same area will have different stories and background. This is why all those âsafe spacesâ are bullshit, itâs literally just another iteration of the progressive stack and serves to other you from the mainstream society instead of trying to integrate.
Hey, listen, I have a penor and Iâm currently dating someone as a penor, do I belong in your âspaceâ, despite us passing as a straight couple on the street? Keep in mind I live in Russia and was already beaten up because I was perceived to be a Russian equivalent of a âfagâ?
Are you seriously suggesting we throw class analysis away on the basis of individual experiences?
All women have unique experiences, yet they can come together and recognize their collective experience of being female and suffering under misogyny
All black men and women have unique experiences, yet they can come together and recognize their collective experience of being black and suffering under racism
All gay men have unique experiences, but we come together and recognize our collective experience of being homosexual, exclusively compatible with the same sex, and consequently suffering under homophobia
Class analysis is collectivist nonsense that only creates divides between people instead of mending them.
It was only meant to be applied to wealth disparity and even thenit was proven to not work by the explosive growth of the quality of life in a post-industrial world.
Your adherence to a dead ideology is what prevents real progress and real equality, not the other way around.
Stop being obsessed with identity and class and start treating people on a case-by-case basis.
So ignore that there are very real and dangerous implications for being exclusively attracted to the same sex, that all people with that trait are targeted for having that trait, and donât make a word for that experience in order to cooperate with one another and do something about it
Thatâs just collectivist nonsense
Got it
Dude, I live in Russia, I know what both oppression and collectivism are: bad.
If you think social conservatives like trans people for some reason, then I need to remind you of a time a few years ago when a trans woman with a birth sex ID tried to marry a cis woman and that caused a HUGE scandal and almost prevented trans people from being married at all in Russia. Youâre not the only one fighting the status quo.
@hidetothink Donât speak for other women. We have our own voices that can say what weâve suffered under. For the record I donât suffer under misogyny, because I donât deal with misogyny.
yea you do lmao
Fucking where and when?
ever single woman (adult human female) faces misogyny
Again, where and when?