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Cold hot chocolate aka chocolate milk

Cold coffee

Stay safe out there! 🎃

If you are Trick-or-Treating tonight make sure to go with a buddy or guardian! 🎃

Be wary of any candy or trinkets you receive and have a parent or guardian inspect them before you eat any of it or put anything in your mouth! 🎃

Try to stay in well lit areas or take a flashlight with you! 🎃

Recovery doesn’t always mean “doesn’t have a mental illness anymore” - it can also mean:

Learning to cope with your symptoms in a healthy and constructive way.

Getting the accommodations and support that allows you to live with the impairments of your mental illness.

Learning to live a happy, fulfilling life despite your symptoms.

Knowing your limits and triggers and adjusting your life accordingly.

Learning to take care of your physical, mental and emotional health.

Learning to live with symptoms without having them control your life.

Finding and sticking to treatments that work for you.

Accepting and learning that even though you may not be able to live a “normal” life, you can still have a good life.

I’M IN LOVE 😍 Cable Chompers are the cutest way to decorate and save your fraying phone cables!! Get Yours HERE.

I’m a Daddy, and I thought I’d share something I’ve learned being a Caregiver to my Little: transparency.

It’s no secret that Littles can be very insecure. They are very dependent on their Caregiver, and it’s a terrifying thing to need someone as much as they allow themselves to need us. It’s human instinct to protect yourself, and our Littles resist that urge to allow us to take care of them.

I’m simply going to be direct with this…don’t fuck this up as a Caregiver. Don’t message someone behind your Little’s back. If you do receive messages from anyone, simply let your Little know what is happening and how you are responding. Don’t flirt with others, even casually. There is no amount of explaining you can do to justify your Little finding or hearing about how you talked to another in a way that would make your Little uncomfortable. Don’t hide things from your little, and have them worry about what your are up to.

1. DEMAND condom use 2. Hold your partners accountable for what happens in the bedroom. None of this “baby I can’t control myself around you” or “I just wanted you so bad” bullshit. 3. Coercion is real and it’s very scary and hard to identify in the moment. Establish a dialogue with your partner. Be clear on what you both want. Be clear on what you don’t want. Your boundaries should ALWAYS be respected. 4. Sex can be really emotionally and physically over-stimulating the first few times; don’t be afraid or ashamed to ask your partner to slow down, take a break, or even stop. 5. Focus less on pleasing your partner and more on exploring your partner. Everyone’s body is different and there are no “tricks” to better sex. Chances are, if you psych yourself out worrying over how well you’re “performing” then nobody’s going to have a good time. 6. Ask questions, offer suggestions. Despite what porn has probably taught you, talking during sex isn’t weird or taboo. Your partner isn’t a mind reader. They don’t know what feels good to you. [Pro-tip, a looot of people without clitorises aren’t fully aware of just HOW sensitive a clitoris is. They can be a little rough with them. Tell them to chill!!!!] 7. Your sex life is YOUR business. Don’t ever feel ashamed of how many or how few sexual partners/experiences you’re having. Do what you want, touch the people who want to touch you back, forget the rest. 8. DON’T FAKE YOUR ORGASMS!! Don’t fake your orgasms!! DON’TFAKEYOURORGAMS!! If your partner isn’t getting you there, let them know! Tell them how!! 9. There is more to sex than orgasms. Sex is a really cool way to establish intimacy and trust, to have a fun time, to relieve stress, to explore a person’s body and bring them pleasure. Don’t get me wrong, orgasms are really cool and good, but your sex life is going to be a lot better if it doesn’t revolve around them. 10. LEARN ABOUT YOUR BODY!! This goes for everyone, but ESPECIALLY if you are a person in possession of a vulva, you have been discouraged and even actively kept from vital knowledge about your anatomy! Do some google searches, buy a human sexuality textbook, masturbate. 11. Virginity is a useless concept. It’s completely okay if your virginity is something important to you and I’m not trying to belittle that idea. Just, for the record, in the grand scheme of things it’s not a big deal. Literally nothing about you changes just because you bumped uglies with someone else.

Genesis 8:1 ‘God remembered Noah…’

- The Lord will not forget you or His promises to you. - Noah had faced a great flood, but the Lord did not leave him in the flood. - The Lord intervened and the floods and storms came to an end. - No matter how great the flood or how dark the storm, HE will remember you!