I know thereโs an existing post somewhere, but hereโs the list of OBGYNs in the USA and other countries that will perform tubal ligation (aka female sterilization) without arguing with you
Gynecologists who will perform a tubal sterilization
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I know thereโs an existing post somewhere, but hereโs the list of OBGYNs in the USA and other countries that will perform tubal ligation (aka female sterilization) without arguing with you
Gynecologists who will perform a tubal sterilization

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every time i remember that photo of the little inuk girl with her puppy i engage in inconsolable hysterics
this is it. this is the photo of all time
Comfy even
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not even kidding be SO earnest. Be so honest and forthcoming about your life, your feelings in the pursuit of connection with others, and know being as earnest as possible in your experience is what quells loneliness in those who feel the same way as you do. Is what helps us feel seen. And builds community and resolve within the fact it doesn't have to feel so lonely and insurmountable. we need community and connection. You really are not as alone as you think, we're all scared. we need to hold each others hands
When Zuko apologized to uncle Iroh in the tent cause he was so ashamed of his actions and what heโd done to the only person who unconditionally believed in his ability to do good >>>>>
So okay, Iโve given this rant before but this is another good time for it.
Structurally speaking, ATLA did something important with Zuko that, in a purely mechanistic sense of narrative development, I think a lot of people donโt notice immediately, and that even fewer people who want to emulate what was done with him get.
Which is Zuko is made a protagonist VERY early, and the show goes out of its way to continually place Zuko into situations where the audience empathizes and roots for him.
This happens in literally the second episode of the series, if we count the two-part premiere as a single episode, which I think we should. The A-plot of that episode, โThe Southern Air Temple,โ is Aang reckoning with the genocide of his peopleโฆ but the B-plot?
The B-plot is the introduction of Zhao, and more specifically, his introduction in a way that is calculate to shift the audience, whose introduction to Zuko did NOT engender a ton of sympathy to him, directly and forcefully onto his side. They want Zuko to kick Zhaoโs ass.
This continues all through book one and book two. Remember, Zuko is never, ever the main villain of this series. Thatโs initially Zhao, followed by Azula and Ozai. (Plus various temporary players like Long Feng.) Whenever Zuko isnโt placed into direct conflict with the other protagonists, heโs always written and presented in a way that is careful, VERY VERY careful, not to make him too monstrous, and to make us root for him. Heโs placed right next to Iroh, who is designed for people to like, and that reflects back onto Zuko; we want Zuko to be better than he is because we want Iroh to have good things.
Put aside for the moment whether any specific character, including Zuko, deserves their redemption. If youโve decided youโre going to do that, you have to erect the proper narrative scaffolding around them, and it extends to far more things than โdid this person not do things that were too horribleโ and โis this person genuinely sorry and is working really hard to atone.โ Thereโs a difference between protagonist and white hat, but if you want someone to eventually wear that white hat, you REALLY need to establish them as a plausible protagonist early on.
Yeah, it was made obvious from the get go that Zuko is definitely nowhere near Zhaoโs level of nasty, which in turn means heโs nowhere near Azulaโs and nowhere in the scope of Ozaiโs.
1.)ย
He made a deal with Aang to leave the Southern Water Tribe alone if Aang went with him. When Aang escaped with help from two of those tribe members, Zuko didnโt demand they go back and destroy what was left of the tribe as revenge. He didnโt even think of it as an option. There was no split second where he went, should I/shouldnโt I?
2.)ย
This is repeated. He corners the Avatar somewhere, causes some damage to the area in the ensuing fight, but does not stick around to raze the village/monastery to the ground and kill the people when he doesnโt get what he wants. Doesnโt consider this a necessary action even once.
3.)ย
The Iroh&Zuko relationship is juxtaposed with the Zhao&Zuko relationship. Both older men have more power over him. Iroh is a retired War General and Prince who is not banished. Zhao is a Commander in favor of the Firelord, who is also not banished. We could tell early on that Iroh is wise and despite being on the bad side, seems to be pretty chill. We took a liking to him immediately. Zhao is the opposite. He is very much like early!Zuko. Impulsive, rude, loud, cocky, etcโฆ But why is he more annoying? Why do we root for Zuko as opposed to him?ย
Because we see what Zuko is like with his Uncle Iroh. Iroh does not rub in the fact that heโs banished. He doesnโt use that when reprimanding him for his attitude or his failings. That is a hot iron and he knows it. Itโs to the point where Iroh can bend fire in Zukoโs face and Zuko is perfectly relaxed over it and doesnโt once believe his uncle will hurt him. There is a lot of faith in Iroh, from this angsty teenager, and itโs very obvious with their interactions.
Zhao is not trustworthy from the start. Weโre shown this by how both Zuko and Iroh are hesitant to interact with him and donโt want to linger in areas he has control over, for too long. They even lie to him despite him obviously having more favor in the Firelordโs eyes than either of them do. Zhaoโs personality opposes both Zuko and Iroh. And as we like Iroh, we want him to win and have nice things, as stated above. But Zuko&Iroh is a package deal. And as Zhao reveals himself more and more to be nasty even if itโs subtle, we want Zuko to win even harder.
And even when Zuko wins and heโs in the prime position to do to Zhao what Ozai did to Zuko for also โspeaking out of turnโโฆ he doesnโt do it. He walks away. He is the bigger man in that scenario. And Iroh further puts shame onto Zhao when he goes against the sacred rules of the Agni Kai because he canโt handle a loss to a banished teen. We are shown that Zuko follows rules and has honor, which is reinforced by Irohโs, โeven in exile, my nephew is more honorable than youโ. Irohโs Word is basically Law at this point. Sf he says it is so, then he must be right and the audience accepts that. He knows Zuko better than us and hopefully weโll get to understand more as the story progresses.
Already by the 3rd episode, weโre shown that Zuko is in no way the worst person from the Fire Nation. In fact, weโre given a sort of scale now from the four major Fire Nation people we know of. IrohโZukoโโ-ZhaoโFirelord.
Weโre also hoping that Iroh rubs off on Zuko enough for him to also become wise and learn to chill out.
4.)ย
Whenย โThe Stormโ finally rolls around, weโre pretty invested by then in the Iroh&Zuko relationship and that episode gives us so much more info into Zukoโs character and we are shown that Iroh is right. He has honor and he cares for others. And yet itโs obvious the Firelord doesnโt because we see Zuko do the right thing(protesting the plan to treat new recruits as cannon fodder) in the wrong place, and then his face gets burned off by his father because of it. And further, heโs banished for refusing to fight his own father. What sane parent wants to do battle with their own child? What sane parent banishes their child for speaking out of turn at the defense of their own peoplesโ lives? What the fuck is wrong with the Firelord?
Zuko was punished severely for showing compassion and having a kind heart. And Iroh(and the ship crew even) is properly mortified by the punishments his nephew received for it, which in turn affects the audienceโs perception of this situation. Iroh doesnโt like it, itโs especially bad then.
Now we start wondering why does Zuko wants to go back to the guy who burned his face off?! Iroh, talk some sense into him! PLEASE!
Halfway through S1, they got us to the point of wanting Zuko to have a redemption arc.ย
Making the audience want a character to be redeemed is also very important in this. We were shown he has redeemable qualities. We want that pay off! Do it justice!
I love him!!!
formative years? arenโt they all?
show me a permanent self and i will show you a facade or a corpse

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helloooo please don't call the police!! :3
It's always "stop harming yourself or we'll have to lock you up!!!" and never "what do you need to change to want to harm yourself less and how can we help you make some of these changes?" and that's why we're not getting anywhere
I try not to fall into the "I never liked their work anyway" ditch when an artist/creator reveals themself to be a terrible person
BUT
a feeling I do have and will stand by is "While I enjoyed their work overall I did have some gripes that I overlooked out of affection and whimsy, but now that my loyalty is gone and my affection tainted there is nothing holding me back from enumerating my many grievances, to which the revelations of the creator's shittiness may or may not provide a new and infuriating context."
#such a good summation of this actually#because yeah thereโs usually things that were always present#but which were easy to overlook or give the benefit of the doubt#that suddenly become relevant after a revelation about the creator#and itโs really not the same thing as the self-defensive โโI never liked it anywayโ
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gimme your dice luck alex, cmon share with the rest of us

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Basically my takeaway from last night: