i think you’re pretty cool

I am so devastated over love and deepspace rn. Like I think it’s actually over

It seems so hollow now

man sometimes friendship really is just "I saw this and knew it would give you psychic damage. please respond with agony" and then they do. and it's great

nobody will learn anything bc of course not but this entire lads situation is a huge blinking neon sign listing why demanding anything cater to your personal tastes and opinions ruins everyone’s fun but it also requires emotional intelligence to absorb this lesson which just doesn’t exist in a world full of “me no likey so me no WANT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!”

having emotional and mental flexibility is literally the most important thing you have. being able to say this doesn’t cater to me but i know there’s someone out there who will be really happy about this should be standard and im not gonna pretend like fandom has always been sunshine and roses (ff.net drama for example if you’re a fandom ancient like me) but this attitude of well if i don’t like it clearly nobody else can or they’re disgusting and deserve harassment is pretty new and prevails way too often for comfort lol

getting kicked off love island for just swimming in the pool and not talking to anyone

the dick sucking cuddler would like to rest its head on your tummy with no ulterior motive whatsoever

i do think we should normalise being like. platonically enamoured with someone. perhaps i love and admire you dearly and there's nothing romantic about it

me, as i force a dollar bill into the self-checkout machine: thats right…..good boy……vore president washington

im begging all of you to stop reblogging th is

Your actions have consequences

you really do meet some of the loveliest people talking about blood and sex on the internet