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Happy birthday to my favorite person @creamcoffeelou and shout out to Christopher Nolanās 2017 film Dunkirk for bringing them into my life

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"what groceries u been into recently" is actually a great question, there's a bunch of good conversations inside it
Louis on stage at Lollapalooza India - 09.03
your unreliable narrator fucking bit me
thats not how they told it
āI donāt know what my goals are, no. Thanks for asking.ā

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very sexy indeed
Now that tiktok is gone i guess I'm gonna be forced to return here
it should be illegal to take a nap and still have a headache when you wake up. like no i shut it off and back on again why are you still here

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They need to invent a job where I don't have to wake up or go to it
Hi Anti-BDSM Anon - can I call you ABA? Iām gonna call you ABA - Iām glad youāve started exploring creative writing! I think it will be a really healthy outlet for your wild imagination!
That said, as the fandomās resident BDSM mom I do want to give you some pointers regarding your story. Obviously itās your world, do in it what you want, but it does seem to be lacking in some basic research. You see you start off with the sentence āI was in a relationship like yours for ten years.ā which is a strong opening, it establishes a connection between us. But your following statements show me that that first sentence is a lie. Because the relationship you describe is abuse and the relationship I am in is a consensual BDSM relationship.
I have a feeling you struggle with defining a couple words in that phrase: consensual and BDSM.
Now consensual is derived from the Latin word āconsentireā which means agree. Consensual means that both people are agreeing to partake in the activity. Consent is actually a really big part of the next word you struggle with:
BDSM. The main thing that separates BDSM from abuse is consent! Specifically informed consent! That means that I - and my husband - know what we are signing up for and we both agree to the terms! But! Iām gonna let you in on a little secret Iām guessing you havenāt figured out yet; the terms and agreement can change at any given time. And whenever the terms change the agreement can change. And the agreement can be removed at any point in time.
You see. If the situation you described was BDSM and not abuse, if a punishment is given that the submissive didnāt like they could say āyeah not for meā and there would be a conversation about why, and what would be more fitting. Thereās actually a surprising amount of conversing that goes on in BDSM - super helpful for people like me who can never shut up.
I definitely think you should keep up the creative writing, with just a bit more research you could be crafting beautiful stories soon š„° I do worry that you might not know how to identify good sources but tumblr isnāt letting me link them so I will just give you a quick rundown on how to identify quality sources (itāll be better in the long run, teaching a man to fish and all that). So obviously the big thing you want to do is identify authorās bias. For example, if you are someone who walks the line of anti-sex radfem thinking a lot of those sources will say BDSM and abuse are one and the same, but thatās coming from an anti-sex bias. Similarly Iāve found that there are a certain type of cishet ādominant menā who definitely would do the things you talk about in your story and defend it as BDSM, but thatās also a biased opinion.
To identify bias always ask yourself:
Who is telling the story? What are their credentials?
Who benefits from the story being told this way? Who is made the good guy? Who is made the bad guy?
How does the story make you feel? Does it illicit an extreme response? While extreme emotional responses are not always a bad thing, some stories are framed in a way to make you feel a certain way, because the author wants you to draw the same conclusions as them
Ultimately what is the story trying to tell you. Does it want you to agree with it? Does it want you to disagree with it? Or is it presented in a neutral - and therefore factual - manner?
I hope these help you further your writing career š„°
As someone who has lovingly received a voice message from Sada while she was being punished by her husband I promise there was more laughing in that voice message than anything and I think that's beautiful
Also a whole GC of queers LOVES her husband which is saying a lot considering at least half of us are anti man and his only bad quality is that he is, unfortunately, a man
AND ANOTHER THING when my ex choked me in attempt of "bdsm" (non consentual) But actually scared tf out of me and hurt me Sadas king behavior husband sent a 30 minute long vm making sure I was okay and calling him a loser douchebag SOOOOOO
Hi Anti-BDSM Anon - can I call you ABA? Iām gonna call you ABA - Iām glad youāve started exploring creative writing! I think it will be a really healthy outlet for your wild imagination!
That said, as the fandomās resident BDSM mom I do want to give you some pointers regarding your story. Obviously itās your world, do in it what you want, but it does seem to be lacking in some basic research. You see you start off with the sentence āI was in a relationship like yours for ten years.ā which is a strong opening, it establishes a connection between us. But your following statements show me that that first sentence is a lie. Because the relationship you describe is abuse and the relationship I am in is a consensual BDSM relationship.
I have a feeling you struggle with defining a couple words in that phrase: consensual and BDSM.
Now consensual is derived from the Latin word āconsentireā which means agree. Consensual means that both people are agreeing to partake in the activity. Consent is actually a really big part of the next word you struggle with:
BDSM. The main thing that separates BDSM from abuse is consent! Specifically informed consent! That means that I - and my husband - know what we are signing up for and we both agree to the terms! But! Iām gonna let you in on a little secret Iām guessing you havenāt figured out yet; the terms and agreement can change at any given time. And whenever the terms change the agreement can change. And the agreement can be removed at any point in time.
You see. If the situation you described was BDSM and not abuse, if a punishment is given that the submissive didnāt like they could say āyeah not for meā and there would be a conversation about why, and what would be more fitting. Thereās actually a surprising amount of conversing that goes on in BDSM - super helpful for people like me who can never shut up.
I definitely think you should keep up the creative writing, with just a bit more research you could be crafting beautiful stories soon š„° I do worry that you might not know how to identify good sources but tumblr isnāt letting me link them so I will just give you a quick rundown on how to identify quality sources (itāll be better in the long run, teaching a man to fish and all that). So obviously the big thing you want to do is identify authorās bias. For example, if you are someone who walks the line of anti-sex radfem thinking a lot of those sources will say BDSM and abuse are one and the same, but thatās coming from an anti-sex bias. Similarly Iāve found that there are a certain type of cishet ādominant menā who definitely would do the things you talk about in your story and defend it as BDSM, but thatās also a biased opinion.
To identify bias always ask yourself:
Who is telling the story? What are their credentials?
Who benefits from the story being told this way? Who is made the good guy? Who is made the bad guy?
How does the story make you feel? Does it illicit an extreme response? While extreme emotional responses are not always a bad thing, some stories are framed in a way to make you feel a certain way, because the author wants you to draw the same conclusions as them
Ultimately what is the story trying to tell you. Does it want you to agree with it? Does it want you to disagree with it? Or is it presented in a neutral - and therefore factual - manner?
I hope these help you further your writing career š„°
As someone who has lovingly received a voice message from Sada while she was being punished by her husband I promise there was more laughing in that voice message than anything and I think that's beautiful
Also a whole GC of queers LOVES her husband which is saying a lot considering at least half of us are anti man and his only bad quality is that he is, unfortunately, a man
R U KIDDIN ME, THIS BEARS GOT THE LIFE!!!!! NOTHIN 2 DO BUT LOUNGE IN THE SUN WAIT FOR BELLY RUBS. HEY BEAR U NEED A SCRATCH?, NO PROB, I AM JEALITCH!!!!
Iām very passionate about the price of the Costco hotdog

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