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#oh #yeah that’ll do it #I feel very foolish

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The village of Thornedale

#op this is BEAUTIFUL I love this so much #inspo

junglejim4322

Unironically I think the early to mid 20s age group in America has unbelievably bad consent boundaries on all levels and so much language to defend it but this makes me sound like elon musk if I say it however the commonality of someone who will be like “I had 47 panic attacks and it’s your fault” if you tell them no is insane

junglejim4322

I rejected someone and got called “the scariest person I’ve ever met” with so much therapy speak interspersed like alright okay alright okay alright okay

junglejim4322

“You just say whatever you’re thinking and I don’t know how to handle it” was verbatim part of this conversation. Also everyone hates to see an autistic bitch

transhumanisticpanspermia

When I was in this age bracket, there was a huge emphasis on improving consent culture via graceful rejection, and it's gone by the wayside. Which sucks.

Twice in my youth (once in high school and once in college) I was in situations where I was asking someone out and I could tell they were calculating in their heads the risks of rejecting me, and both times I said, out loud, "you can say no, I wouldn't have asked if I wasn't prepared for either answer." And then they said no. This wasn't some spark of special wisdom I had - I knew to do it because feminist conversations among my age group brought it up regularly. This isn't happening nearly enough anymore.

More recently, I was really glad when we got to "rejection sensitive dysphoria" in my IOP program and it was one of those symptoms where the therapists really emphasized how it affects others. Because it does.

Being someone who cannot handle rejection makes you much more likely to violate boundaries, and yes, that includes sexual ones. Yes, you, reader who has never hurt a fly. If you don't want to stumble backwards into sexually assaulting someone, fix your RSD meltdowns. If you keep them up it's only a matter of time. Because if you're nice enough to interact with, but are known to have RSD meltdowns, guess what happens when your friends and acquaintances need to reject you?

fantasyanime

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#and I’m always saying this

tekunoraizu

FUCKKKKKKK what if something bad happened and I forgot to worry about it

#rookie mistake

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tentacleteapot

princess x knight stuff is good and fine but I believe that it’s long past time for scheming vizier yuri #speakingmytruth

tentacleteapot

your fantasy kingdom’s vaguely untrustworthy, overly bureaucratic weirdo deserves to get some action too is all I’m saying

princess x knight stuff is good and fine but I believe that it’s long past time for scheming vizier yuri #speakingmytruth

#speaking my truth

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#rescheduled eidolon game on Wednesday night which will solve all my problems forever I think #moving to a new apartment in September #seeing the special edition of the Backrooms movie this weekend hopefully

kaelio

respectissexy

One thing that has made me a much more well-adjusted person is a clip I once saw of Hank Green saying that anyone can be in amazing shape as long as being in amazing shape is one of their top three priorities.

(This is obviously a generalization that isn't true for everyone. But it is true for most people and I'm proceeding from there.)

This "top three priorities" framing has genuinely reduced my tendency toward jealousy and self-comparison a lot. Now when I feel envious of someone’s spotless, aesthetic home, I think to myself, “Having a spotless, aesthetic home is probably one of their top three priorities. It’s definitely not one of mine, so I shouldn’t expect my home to look like that.”

Or when I see an influencer with a body that takes a ton of work to maintain: “Maintaining that body is obviously one of her top three priorities, because it’s her livelihood. My livelihood is my brain, so I’m never going to prioritize my body like that.”

It also helps me to identify areas that I actually DO want to prioritize more. I realized in recent years that my envy for my friends who prioritized writing more than I did was NOT going away, so I started to prioritize writing more. (Not top three, but higher priority than it has been in the past.)

#hmm.

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saw a very funny instance earlier of somebody stating a piece of Deltarune fan art didn’t contain spoilers when it absolutely did, but since without context nobody would know what the spoiler is without playing chapter 5 they weren’t technically being dishonest. everything about this game is so funny to me

lunarblazes

i bet it feels good as fuck to start swaying on your feet after overtaxing your magic reserves

#it's okay i guess

tentacleteapot

this could be the snart of something big

alphabetizing-posts

be big could of snart something the this

#okay now do chronological order

carlyraejepsans

tragic! trans person no longer merely tolerating the act of existing just now realising their entire wardrobe is ass

#that's actually character growth

minecraft

I love carrying a stack of 64 steaks with me as I walk through a mysterious forest just chowing down on them one by one.

#I don’t play Minecraft so

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bunniboiz

"it's ok to show (x) in fiction as long as the bad guy gets punished!" the bad guy doesn't have to get punished. in fact the bad guy can win altogether. the bad guy can entirely get away with it. hope this helps

bunniboiz

and this part might make some people's head explode but: characters can be written to forgive things you personally wouldn't ever forgive. not everything is written as what you'd perceive to be the right choice. not everything is a self-insert & protagonists don't have to be relatable.

postnuclearophelia

they want us to all hate each other and everyone falls for it every time

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