health isn't a virtue.

people still go around acting like they've done something good in order to be able bodied and healthy. that they worked for it, that it's due to their moral fibre or good upbringing or self control. they genuinely, on some level, believe that they are a good person solely based on the strength of their physical abilities. they will resist the fact that it is largely down to chance that they were able to maintain such health. whatever they think they've built from scratch, the building blocks were already handed to them. not because they're more worthy of it, just by luck. and they really think they're worth more based on that sheer luck. i've met disabled people worth a hundred of the healthiest ableds alive.

"we have to accept the fact that the r word is coming back" NO WE DONTTTT NO WE DONT

I do think that when a female celebrity has a less famous (and less rich) boyfriend and the internet makes a big deal out of her probably paying for more stuff by saying that automatically makes him a deadbeat loser that is in fact still just sexism. like can you people not just be normal about the concept of women having their own money in a relationship

I have GOT to stop spending $30

never forget that your primary duty on this planet is to be a loser lesbian or a loser bisexual. first and foremost.

you'll spend so long in deep discussions of gender online and then go talk to someone in your real life family and find out they still havent gotten past "women can be good at things" and its like oh okay jesus christ i forgot some people are still on the baby steps huh